I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~

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sweetstorm -> I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 8:18:30 AM)
Just wanted to say how much I loooooooooooooooove getting messages like this: get the hell off of this site. this is for people who are serious about this lifestyle and all that it entails, not for those who want a spanking.

MercTech -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 8:30:26 AM)
Makes you wonder what that person is here for. Hmmmmm Stefan

batshalom -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 8:34:10 AM)
Ahhhhhhh, you might not be a real sub now but you are well on your way! Collect ten of those and cash it in for real subdom! Congratulations!

sweetstorm -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 8:36:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: batshalom Ahhhhhhh, you might not be a real sub now but you are well on your way! Collect ten of those and cash it in for real subdom! Congratulations! LOL!! I'm almost there then!! YEEEEEEESSSSSSSSS!!!

toservez -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 8:46:32 AM)
You’re not really a submissive until you have been accused of not being a submissive at least ten times on the other side by a complete stranger. ;) To not be a complete hypocrite, part of the price for looking in cyber land is putting up with all the crap. Venting frustration in public, although it can depend how, is often not a very attractive thing to do.

rubberpet -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 9:15:09 AM)
I get a few messages like that on occasion because I'm very opinionated and vocal about it. My biggest pet peeve is stupid people. There are so many variations of being a sub that no one particular way is the correct one. When I was single and looking for my dream domme, I'd get bashed because of some of my journal entries. I didn't care. When the right domme would appear, she would love my feisty, opinionated views and the creativity to express them. I was right...Mistress loves my feisty nature. I am very submissive at heart, but only to Her. Does that make me less submissive or not a real one? I don't think so, but also, I don't care[:D] To all the ones who don't think you're a real subby, fuck 'em. Their opinions don't matter and they shouldn't matter to you. There are all sorts of people out here looking. Whether it's people looking for strictly play partners or people who want a complete 24/7 D/s relationship, just go out and find your bliss. It's out there!

Shawn1066 -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 9:33:11 AM)
You are not a twue sub if you do any of the following: 1) Sit on your owner's furniture. 2) Actually think for yourself, on occasion 3) Actually think warmly of your owner, instead of just fearing her/him 4) Don't address EVERYBODY who calls themselves a dominant as Master or Mistress. 5) If you have the audacity to capitalize your "I"s... Everybody knows you gave up the right to have proper capitalization the moment you decided to be a submissive. You are an "i" and you'd BETTER not forget it. Also, most importantly, you should be more than willing to answer to a derogatory name if you're called it by a complete stranger. After all, you're just a submissive, you should know your place, stupid boy. :-p

laurell3 -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 9:59:13 AM)
they usually call me a "shitty sub"....so I guess I'm halfway there....since they actually recognize me as "true", albeit shitty. I poke at the monkeys though....so I really am in fact shitty....when someone immediately tells me I have to address them a certain way despite the fact I've never spoken to them and am in fact looking for a sub at the moment and it's clearly stated in my profile....I take that as an invitation to address them as "Sir" while belittling them...it's rather odd how long it takes for them to actually realize it's happening. I guess hearing the title is more important than actually engaging the brain for some. l

sweetstorm -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 10:04:35 AM)
Due to the intro of my profile, I get told off more often than I do hit on. Doesn't bother me usually as the Doms that I have had in the past either thoroughly enjoyed my sarcasm and spunky nature and found it a challenge, or had brought out my most sensitive caretaker side right off the bat and never got to see the jester in me. Oh Lord, please forgive me for having a personality [sm=dance.gif]

jadedserendipity -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 10:32:37 AM)
The sardonic tone is what so many miss, though I find it a perfect way to open a profile it has a way of screaming I am not worthless, but I am just an untrue subbie or so I hear all the time so what do I know.... Though it is my opinion you keep it just the way it is....[:)] ~jadedserendipity~

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 10:41:55 AM)
oh you got one of those? must the same person who sent me one too

angelikaJ -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 11:26:58 AM)
I personally think we ought to get a union[8D]

sweetstorm -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 1:08:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rubberpet I get a few messages like that on occasion because I'm very opinionated and vocal about it. My biggest pet peeve is stupid people. There are so many variations of being a sub that no one particular way is the correct one. When I was single and looking for my dream domme, I'd get bashed because of some of my journal entries. I didn't care. When the right domme would appear, she would love my feisty, opinionated views and the creativity to express them. I was right...Mistress loves my feisty nature. I am very submissive at heart, but only to Her. Does that make me less submissive or not a real one? I don't think so, but also, I don't care[:D] To all the ones who don't think you're a real subby, fuck 'em. Their opinions don't matter and they shouldn't matter to you. There are all sorts of people out here looking. Whether it's people looking for strictly play partners or people who want a complete 24/7 D/s relationship, just go out and find your bliss. It's out there! relationships are like beds. Some are hard and firm, some are soft and squishy. If you don't like sleeping in my bed because it doesn't fit you.... then don't sleep there! Find another bed. We can't all be Select Comfort mattresses. [:D]

mydomsabstrd -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 1:11:31 PM)
dont feel bad ive heard this too. i am who i am get over it.

Lashra -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 1:23:07 PM)
Just consider it trash from yet another turd from the internet cesspool. ~Lashra

sweetstorm -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 1:25:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lashra Just consider it trash from yet another turd from the internet cesspool. ~Lashra ROFLMAO!

ELUSIVE1 -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 1:26:19 PM)
I feel you on that one, found this jewel in my box this morning 'I have sent you 2 emails and didn't even get a nothanks I have been in this lifestyle long time so you R a player or a want to B I am looking 4 a real slut if you R real lets find out how bad u want a Master'

sweetstorm -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 1:30:32 PM)
quote: I feel you on that one, found this jewel in my box this morning 'I have sent you 2 emails and didn't even get a nothanks I have been in this lifestyle long time so you R a player or a want to B I am looking 4 a real slut if you R real lets find out how bad u want a Master' That reminds me of a drunk guy in a bar who hits on you and when you turn away repulsed by the alcohol on his breath alone, he starts screaming that you are a frigid bitch and how he was just being friendly.

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 2:05:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelikaJ I personally think we ought to get a union[8D] where do i sign up?

Shawn1066 -> RE: I'm not a REAL sub! I'm not a REAL sub! ~ A Gripe ~ (10/31/2007 2:34:51 PM)
Yeah...where DO we sign up?

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