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Mercurialdame -> RE: Flipped your.. Switch? (10/31/2007 4:17:47 PM)
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I personally, would identified as dominant. In life, career, parenting style, you name it, alpha all the way. But had always thought, 'if' i ever met a person, who inspired submission in me, id give it a go. Just never found one.
Then in my 40's i did. Bang!
I was not gonna let this opportunity to experience, all that i had given to others slip by, not if it took 40 yrs to crop up!. And began getting to know him.
We met, chemistry at 100%, and within a hour, im playing at a level ive never been before. A complete virgin almost. He did things to me, ive never had done to me. Only done to others. Its fantastic!
The submitting to his will part, well, we started bedroom only, then leaked a little outside of that, gradually finding our own level.
We are a very loving couple first and foremost. We are D/s 24/7 as in not bedroom only, and we live together. With my daughter.
When you've been a single parent, with a successful career, your own home/car, etc. What do you 'need' a man/dom for? That was the crux of our relationship. I simply did not have a need to be micro-managed, by someone, who frankly, manages his affairs less well than i do. So im not going to be taking financial, or budgetry advice from this guy. I had to look very honestly at what i needed from him, and visa versa.
Now, ive grown and can accept his role for me, and mine for him. He takes care of me, like im a queen. Im often struck by how odd it is, that what i sought as a Domme, was found as a sub. The true inner needs. To be thought the world of, to be No1, to be 'the' one. Sod all to do with bdsm, more to do with being a person.
The sex side of things, well, ive never had a problem getting laid lol. And kink is easily available from others. But kink with a dynamic, a huge dollop of love, now that's intense!
Go for it!
Its about the journey, not the destination.
md
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