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laurell3 -> RE: What can a submissive do to please/serve A Dom? (11/1/2007 10:13:14 AM)
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ORIGINAL: SpokaneAngel
why is it that people have to reply with childish, idiotic answers...you would think that adults in their 40's-50's would act appropriately!
heh if you're looking for the bdsm d/s well-adjusted, sane, politically correct, not into humor, overly sensitive to other's needs section I think you might have gone a few aisles too far.
I would suggest one of the most important things anyone can do in a relationship with another is learn to laugh and even laugh at themselves and not personalize things that aren't personal. I'm honestly not picking on you, it's something I need to work on myself and I tend to have rather literal thinking. Laughter and even joint laughter is incredibly cathartic and bonding.
Other than that, as people have said, it's really individual. Find out what makes the guy tick and expound on it. Learn to anticipate his needs. Give of yourself. Do something that's uncomfortable, unpleasant or something you would not ordinarily do (I don't mean hard limits) merely because it's what he desires. Support him, be his sounding board when he's upset...yeah yeah even domly doms need support and have emotions.
You get the picture. There's no list of answers people here can think of for your guy as we don't know him, or you.
good luck to you,
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Edited to add: by the way welcome to the forums. It's a zoo, but if you stick around, you'll find some great people here and get some good advice as....well...you know...always remember you know what's good for you before anyone else.
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