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harmony3709 -> RE: Libido and age (8/7/2005 9:12:22 PM)
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When I was in my late 20's and early 30's, and my three children were young, my sex drive definitely dropped and most nights I was so tired I fell into bed and was happy to have gotten a shower that day, let alone think about sex. I know this was definitely the factor for my lack of interest in sex at that time. Thankfully, as my children grew older and then especially after my divorce and becoming involved in BDSM, my interest and sex drive has soared. I had a hysterectomy almost two years ago and was told that would cause a drop in my sex drive.........but for me, it still has continued to soar and at times, I feel almost insatiable, although yes, lube is often needed more often now.
Like many things in life, there are often cycles. Right now you may get more pleasure and satisfaction from touching and hugging and a year from now, you may be begging your Master to play on a nightly basis.
You are not alone and it certainly can do no harm to get checked out and give you the assurance that nothing is physically wrong. And in the meantime, I have not been in that position before, but I'm certain that I would obey my Master and still continue to have sex as he wished, although I would definitely discuss the situation with him.
Blessed be,
harmony
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