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jadedserendipity -> RE: What do you want in a man? (11/1/2007 8:05:03 PM)
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Assuming this is just a man in general I think all the things I seek in a dom kinda apply so here we go.......
Someone who will teach me, care for me, love me unconditionally, I do not seek a pushover as I am bratty and willfull at times and know that I need someone who will not be afraid to stand up to me and let me know when I have crossed the line, but will also know that once it is over, it is over I do not wish someone who shall hold my mistakes and faults over my head.....
I seek a peaceful simplistic man not one who screams or freaks out.... I tend to shut down when yelled at....
I want someone who realizes that my submission to him is a gift and it is not required it is something I wish him to have.....
I would like anyone looking at me as a potential submissive to understand that I am not, nor do I ever intend to be a doormat.... I have opinions and thoughts of my own and I want a Dom who realizes this.... I am not saying that what I say should be how it goes etc, however I want a Dom who will take my feelings into consideration....
I hope to find a Dom who does not think that I am to be his punching bag or His enemy for that matter.....
I do not wish to find a man who desires someone to beat just because I am a masochist.... I want someone who is interested in a 24/7 relationship, I would be overjoyed to find a life partner I suppose that is in fact what I seek, and in the end I want a TPE relationship I want to know what is expected of me I want consistency. I need to know what to expect from my Dom, to know that he will not disappear just because I am not perfect.... And above all I suppose I need him to know that I am not perfect but that I try my very best to be exactly what he wants.....
Okay so I still threw in Dom rather than man or any other idiom mostly because in a man I seek a dom....... Okay so I suppose I am all done now, maybe this will help you delve deeper into the psyche's of women......
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