littleone35 -> Topping from the bottom (8/3/2005 4:48:53 PM)
Please forgive me if there has been a post on this i missed. I am not sure what this means. Does it mean the slave/sub geting the Dom to do something like manulpition?(sp) Any advice you can give me would be greatly appricated(sp)
littleone
Lordandmaster -> RE: Topping from the bottom (8/3/2005 5:20:54 PM)
There just was a whole thread about this with some very interesting perspectives. To me, topping from the bottom means playing the role of bottom but trying to manipulate the top into doing one's bidding.
masie -> RE: Topping from the bottom (8/3/2005 5:28:30 PM)
hi
i have the same view as LordandMaster, for example intentionally provoking your Dom/Master into punishing you because YOU would like to be, He would then be giving you what YOU wanted, to please YOU, when it should be what pleases Him and when He wants to, but thats just my opinion
masie
littleone35 -> RE: Topping from the bottom (8/3/2005 5:58:00 PM)
oh thank you i think i understand it better now
NakedOnMyChain -> RE: Topping from the bottom (8/8/2005 4:26:49 AM)
To me it's not so much manipulation. Have you ever heard anyone talk about subs holding the power? A lot of times dom/mes will do things they know will please their slave and disguise it as punishment. It's all the little things subs do that subtlely influence their dom/me.