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Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/1/2007 7:19:20 PM

Willowmoon

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I didn't know if i should post this here or in gear and appreal so i am sorry if it is in the wrong place.

Master has recently set me a task to get us some new toys and has set me a huge budget that boggles my mind. I have $3000 to stock up our toybag the only things he has said must be bought are

A good lockable restraint set (wrist/ankle/thigh/waist/collar)
Ball gag trainer
A penis gag
A ring gag
Nipple clamps
Rope

I have priced the above list and it only comes to about $750 so I have a lot left to spend. What I am asking for in ideas on what toys I could buy to stock up the toy bag. If anyone has any ideas outside the square as well I would love to hear them only catch is that due to living situation it can't be any furniture (otherwise i would have spent the money easily)

Willow

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/1/2007 7:31:53 PM

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Ohhhhh to have your problem

I personally would have a hard time making any suggestions, because my likes and dislikes are probably not the same as yours. I know that I would buy:

1.New floggers
2. crop
3. nipple clamps
4. lots of different vibrators, plugs, etc.
5. TENS unit with lots of cool electrodes
6. Canes

Okay, I'll stop there...I could go on forever

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/1/2007 7:35:08 PM

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I would definitely purchase a violet wand and a bunch of fun accessories

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/1/2007 7:47:38 PM

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Hmmm yes some new impact toys is a good idea

A Cane
Two floggers - A light one and a heavy one
Already have a crop
He just asked me to put a paddle on the list - One of those ones that have fur on one side.

I was also thinking getting a new outfit for partys and he is buying me a pair of boots separte from the money for toys.

It is strange for me to have such a big budget I live on a disability payment and have $50 left a fortnight after bills so him saying heres this money use it is scary and I am worried that I wont use it well enough and will displease him.

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/1/2007 7:50:31 PM

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i am assuming you are looking into S/m toys as well...so here's some questions before i can answer with my advice because it will do no good for me to give you a whole list of stingy impact (which i am into) if you absolutely hate stingy
are you into impact or sensation or both?
impact - pain or sensual or both? stingy or thuddy or both?
sensation - again, pain or sensual or both?

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/1/2007 7:57:36 PM

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A toy bag is not a toy bag without a Dragon tail in it. And I know just where you can get one at....let me know if your interested in buying one. I can hook you up very fast. You won't be sorry

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/1/2007 7:57:37 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chellekitty

i am assuming you are looking into S/m toys as well...so here's some questions before i can answer with my advice because it will do no good for me to give you a whole list of stingy impact (which i am into) if you absolutely hate stingy
are you into impact or sensation or both?
impact - pain or sensual or both? stingy or thuddy or both?
sensation - again, pain or sensual or both?

Impact/sensation = both i love sensation play but also like a good flogging every so often.
Impact - depends on mood so both pain and sensual, i like thuddy over stingy so Master likes stingy for discipline and uses thuddy on me at other times.
Sensations - Its not the same without both, hot wax, ice, pin wheels, feathers, fur anything.

Willow

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/1/2007 7:59:25 PM

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Hi Willow, What a yummy subject. I would definitely suggest investing in a good quality flogger...or two. There are so many different materials offered for floggers. Some are more thuddy while others are kinda stingy. *ouch* A leash would definitely look rather lovely with your collar. A butt plug, some clothespins (for pinching all the right spots), a blindfold, a riding crop, a paddle, and a cane. I also like to keep candles on hand for wax play and baby oil (lots of different uses). Don't forget a few plain, inexpensive shower curtains...things can get messy:) I just use them one time and throw away for easy clean up. Oh...a variety of dildos and vibrators. My rabbit vibrator is my favorite. If you get one, you'll see why. *wicked grinz* If your Master is interested in electric play then perhaps a violet wand kit? If I think of anything else I'll write some more. There's so many naughty possibilities...Have fun shopping!

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/1/2007 9:06:42 PM

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Oooo all the toys i can buy with $3000. i say go online or to your fav adult store and go at it. Pick things that you would like and that he would like and go from there. Crap, i want that money to spend just on toys

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/1/2007 9:17:06 PM

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A really good set of leather floggers in different kinds of weights and leathers!!! You can't go wrong spending the money there believe me!! Money well spent!
He puts a smile on my face every time he uses them

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/1/2007 10:20:39 PM

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Hmmmm my suggestion is a dragons tail whip and a single tail whip, but there expensive and there not worth getting unless you get good ones. Electricity toys are always fun as well.

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/1/2007 10:34:45 PM

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Extra rope. You can never have too much rope. And some pulleys. A paddle or two. A dragonstail, a flogger, crops and canes. Clothes. Clothes can be added to the toy box, gotta have things to play dress up with. More rope. Some EMT shears. Lots of insertables. Some shoes. (yes Daddy, shoes are a necessity). Some sensation play type stuff, fur and feathers and candles and the like. A spreader bar or two. Some more rope.

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/2/2007 5:58:46 AM

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Just remember that buying the toy does not make you competent to use the toy.
Some toys are pretty intuitive but others require hours and hours and weeks of practice to become competent.

$3,000 OK that can buy a very nice collection. Without knowing what the competencies of the person are I'd be hard pressed to list the right toys. So who says it all has to be spent at once? Set it aside in an envelope and piece the kit togeter as you both learn what works for you.
Buying a $400 singletail would be great for some people for others it would be inviting disaster.
Buying a $300 tens unit kit wold be a joyous thing for some folks and a waste of money for others.
Find out what skills the top has already spend a little on those toys, then find or figure out what kind of toys you two would like to grow into and work from there.

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/2/2007 6:12:13 AM

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First advice - invest in something other than a bag to store the toys in. Serious. Y'know how necklaces get all tangley when you just toss them in a jewelry box? Same when you put ropes whips and floggers in a bag, especially when you're both post orgasmic and winding up the rope all neat and proper just seems like something to do tomorrow. Get a long bag so you can stretch out the floggers when you carry them but hit up Ikea for storage stuff.

I'm not a rope expert aside from knowing some of it is really soft and nice and some of it is really irritating and kinky in a bad way - hopefully someone else can advise on that.

I would get a hitachi magic wand because that's seriously the only vibrator in the world that can make me come. And it does it in like...2 minutes. Also I've seen these really nifty hogtie sets that have a ring in the middle for suspension potential. It's like 5 pieces - 2 wrist cuffs and 2 ankle cuffs that hook into a middle part with the ring.

I hate dildos so I can't advise you there...same with butt plugs...I love the idea of buying outfits. And shoes. http://www.trashy.com has THE best outfits EVAR and if you have 3k to spend...well shit. Make sure you buy the other stuff first

I would also get 4 of those screws with rings in the end installed in a closet doorway, that he can tie you to. Actually 6 of them...2 in the middle to go to the waist harness too. That cuffs set will be a lot more fun if you go to the hardware store and fix up the place a bit ;)

Ugh. I really need to stop going on the internet before I have stuff to do. Have fun on your shopping spree!

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/2/2007 6:20:55 AM

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Besides the toys themselves......

First Aid Kit, safety scissors etc
Quick release snaps (3-4 sets in case you misplace them)
Caboodle containers to hold small stuff
Books..Books...Books
Lightweight but warm blanket
Leater care products

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/2/2007 6:22:45 AM

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If it were me I'd buy a spankmyster bench. Sorry but I dont have a link right now but hopefully will later. It is the best bondage device and its portable!

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/2/2007 6:25:11 AM

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Floggers, definitely. Some canes would also be a good idea. You might look into something like a Paradise Electro Stimulator (PES) which are like a TENS unit, but come with specialized attachments like dildoes, butt plugs, cock rings, etc.

Sybian perhaps? They're about $1200, but well worth the money if you have it.

Bummer on the no furniture rule... That kind of money really could have stocked a pretty nice dungeon.

Other than that... just lots of nice leather clothing and restraints....

And take the rest on a gift certificate....

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/2/2007 6:40:11 AM

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quote:

Master has recently set me a task to get us some new toys and has set me a huge budget that boggles my mind. I have $3000 to stock up our toybag

Well what a wonderful topic to drivel on about !

I've just taken the trouble to peek at your profile. What do I see ? Another subbie who is still seeking a Dom despite having hooked money bags it would seem.

Well the budget looks as if it may run to my air fare, so my suggestion is ME as the ultimate toy for your stockings.

Slimc

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/2/2007 6:52:03 AM

Willowmoon

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I guess I should have mentioned our experience levels in my first message. Both of us are fairly experienced and often attend workshops to expand our knowdlege, we have a huge book collection already and quite a lot of toys already. (restraints/rope/chain/impact toys/clamps etc) most of these are getting quite old now so Master has decided it is time to get all new stuff.

Safety wise we already have a well stocked first aid kit, safety sheas, bolt cutters.

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RE: Stocking up the toybag - advice needed - 11/2/2007 8:41:00 AM

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HI willow, ok Im gonna go alittle crazy here....This is my personal list with a few other ideas thrown in:) YMMV as well as both of your limits and experience:)
Good quality cuffs, collar, hogtie, thigh cuffs, etc
Suspension cuffs that protect wrists and ankles(if you are into that)
Rope, so much to choose from, cord/cotton/nylon/jute/hemp/etc
Bondage tape is lots of fun, doesnt stick to the body and is reuseable altho a bit of a bugger to get all the kinks out
Spreader bars, make your own, is cheaper than buying at a store(wooden rod/broom handles with eyes in the ends)
Theres a toy out called Rachels Love Web, that is like a bondage web but made of webbing and ahem made for use on the bed...see a pic here (http://rachelspleasures.com/new_products.php) or some kind of leather tethers or webbing restraint set for bed bondage
Bondage tape, its fun and resusable altho its a bit of a bugger to rewind, and it doesnt stick to skin, that or vet wrap again reuseable
Cupping set
Violet wand set with attachments
Paddles, leather or wood... I like the toybags wood and quality
Leather or rubber strop/strap
Floggers.... something heavy like bullhide for the thud, something like thin rubber(width) for sting, a mop type for massage, so many choices and quality stuff is worth it....I could go on and on, I happen to like floggers :)
Crops, canes, quirts
Hoods and or Masks
Blindfold
Safety kit
Bondage mitts
Vampire gloves
Bunny fur I hear Morghan has bunny fur gloves with claws!!!!! (http://www.totemx.com/)
Arm binders, leg binders, straitjacket, bondage bag etc depending on your comfort/experience etc
Silicone insertibles....medical grade silicone,
Remote control toys, mhmmmm so much fun when out together
Medical and puppy/kitty/pig/etc play toys ....lots of stuff there, .....
ok that should be enuf? grins
have fun
oooh also clothing, leather, silk, latex.......corsets, teddies, body stockings,costumes etc
shoes and boots:)
K now I need a private moment
have fun shopping
Lucy

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