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Help - 11/1/2007 7:42:59 PM

southernhart

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i have a severe gagging problem and it's not getting any better with practice. is there any tricks or methods i can use to stop this so that i can give my Master the blow job of his life?

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RE: Help - 11/1/2007 7:49:24 PM

mya75

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Figure out why you are gagging and is it physical or emotional.....

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RE: Help - 11/1/2007 7:52:41 PM

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If you arent getting any less reactive, you might want to see a doctor and see if it is just a really sensative reaction.
Some have more severe ones than others. You might want to consider something like chloroseptic spray or something else that numbs the throat to take the edge off... but it not a gaurantee

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RE: Help - 11/1/2007 10:07:21 PM

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Reposted:
Frankly, due to jaw problems and small mouth, I use my mouth only 30% of the time doing oral sex.

My generic method is to start with my hands- massage the cock, scratch the balls a bit, get the blood flowing so you can start to sense when it's getting hard.

Then I use my mouth to lick it gently, get it more sensitized and a bit wet. This is about the only time I put my mouth into the cock- when it's still only half hard and can fit easily, and I can roll my tongue around it inside.

After that, I keep my mouth almost completely on the head, which is the most sensitive, just licking and keeping saliva flowing so that my hands, which are doing all of the shaft work by stroking regularly. The fingers cover more area and are more manipulative than the tongue and you can keep the pace going much better than with your mouth alone.

So, teeth aren't a problem at all.

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blowjobs with as little teeth as possible?

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RE: Help - 11/2/2007 2:49:48 AM

southernhart

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thanks everyone. Yes i am fine until it touches the back of my throat.

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RE: Help - 11/2/2007 9:00:03 AM

LonDom61

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Just a thought: If you use chloraseptic, it might desensitize his cock (or the tip, maybe head?...glans? ie the sensitive parts) and make him last a bit longer...or at least give him an interesting sensation. A bit like cocaine's supposed to?

I dunno. Never had either tried on me. Just sayin.

Also...there are videos available. Don't have any specifics, but they shouldn't be hard to find. Oh, Heather from ideepthroat.com has one. She's a sword swallower (as it were). Might have some useful advice.

And the old classic: practise on fruit.

Deep aint the only way to go. "Brush your teeth" (into the cheek)

Eye contact...but not all the time.

Little whimpery noises...or whatever's natural for you.

Check out handjob techniques & add them to AL's "just the tip" ideas.

Last thought: gagging can be sexy. Just don't lose your lunch. That, uh...wouldn't be so sexy.

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RE: Help - 11/3/2007 5:30:25 AM

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Peppermint! It works! i got that advice from my dentist who deals with gag reflexes all the time, although the advice wasn't in regard to oral sex, just gag reflexes in general.

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RE: Help - 11/3/2007 10:09:57 AM

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I find that swallowing right when it hits helps a little...

I'm probably not the best person to ask though since I lose my damn lunch trying to deep throat. Silly sadistic masters and their liking to see us all messed up.

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RE: Help - 11/3/2007 10:13:18 AM

TheEvilBstardsMo

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It seems to help when i swallow when deep throating.

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RE: Help - 11/3/2007 10:20:31 AM

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