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Lordandmaster -> RE: Doms/Masters who have proven themselves (11/7/2007 7:18:33 AM)
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In all honesty, your innumerable question marks would be a big red flag for me. You're saying, "Look, isn't it obvious that I provide the best possible situation for a sub? Why on earth would a sub not want to meet me? There must be something wrong with her, no? Right? I mean, I am massively desirable, right?"
That sounds desperate and whiney and actually a little manipulative, too. Pimps have a saying that fits the BDSM world:
"Let the bitch come to you."
Never let her see you overdose on question marks.
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ORIGINAL: master218711
Ok, consider this. You are a slave/sub looking for a Master/Dom who is SSC. You state you do not have a problem with serving in a couple where the Male is Dom/Master and the female is slave/sub. In other words a Male-Dom couple. Would not the fact that the Male has owned his slave for over 15 years and she is happy, safe, sane, and also wanting to add another slave to the house to serve with her be something that you would consider to prove to yourself that the Master/Dom in question is in fact SSC and safe to at least met in a public area for the first time?? Also add to that the fact that both of them will meet you and that you can call and talk to the female slave and ask her anything you want about how the Dom/Master treats her in everyday life?? Would this not be a big plus if you are looking to join a couple for LTR??? Would it not make you feel safer to meet them? Add also to this the fact that they give you their real names, address, phone number, all of which you can look up or check with 411 to make sure it is for real. What else would a possible slave/sub want???
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