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probablyknowme -> RE: Vulnerability and submission in public play (11/6/2007 2:48:57 PM)
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Well, I personally do not do any emotionally, psychologically, or mentally limit pushing scene in public. This is just my opinion, mind you, but I don't think that a public "party" is the place for me to be a screaming crying mess. That being said, if I were to engage in this kind of activity, I would have to be prepared for the reaction of the onlookers. I don't know how many times I have fielded questions about my scenes and gotten reactions both good and negative. I think that when you "play" in public, you put your actions out there for the public.
Of course that does not mean that I have never been made uncomfortable by what other's have said to me. I have. While ideally my Dominant would be there to handle those situations, I don't believe that my own responsiblity for my well-being is excused because he might or might not be able to deal with anything that comes up as a result of something that we had done.
Just my pound,
kat
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