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To the men - 8/3/2005 11:24:20 PM

luvdragonx

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Ever had sex with a woman that was just.....eh?

I know better than to ask the women on these boards - I'm sure all of us have been disappointed at one time or another. I know this because women talk about it more frequently. I'm just curious as to how many men have had sex, regardless of emotional involvement or relationship status and felt dissatisfied after, as well as the reasons why.

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RE: To the men - 8/3/2005 11:46:19 PM

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Really bad sex...yes it happens

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RE: To the men - 8/3/2005 11:58:41 PM

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I only ask because a lot of people (mostly women) have the impression that men get off no matter what - as long as they have someplace to put it, they're happy. I know this isn't true, but it's not something I hear/read about. I'm hoping some of the men will chime in and dispel the myth.

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RE: To the men - 8/4/2005 12:07:16 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: luvdragonx

I only ask because a lot of people (mostly women) have the impression that men get off no matter what - as long as they have someplace to put it, they're happy. I know this isn't true, but it's not something I hear/read about. I'm hoping some of the men will chime in and dispel the myth.

Well most men get off no matter what sure...that doesn't mean it was great. Some women are like that too.

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RE: To the men - 8/4/2005 1:06:17 AM

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Oh yes, when I was married I had boring sex many times. The cultural myth is that guys are always ready and eager for sex... and it isn't true.

Often in a relationship you do things, not because its good for you, but because its good for your partner. And that includes feigning desire.

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RE: To the men - 8/4/2005 2:05:16 AM

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Ever had sex with a woman that was just.....eh?

Yeah I've been there a few times. These things happen when you are in search. However, I've made most of the "eh" women into ppl who knew what the where doing next time they where with somebody. I try to find out why it was eh and see if it can be fixed. After all, great lovers are made and not born. Some may forever be hopeless, but most learn and make the "eh" in to "OH BABY! RIDEM COWBOY!"

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RE: To the men - 8/4/2005 2:56:39 PM

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I must truely be from Mars because I'm not of the headspace of just having sex to get off...( if I hadn't shaved the palms of my hands you'd know)...jk....if I can have a mutually satisfying encounter with a partner during the act...it becomes a meaningless excerise...I take to much pride and value myself and what I'm supposed to represent to go through any acting....I guess you could say..for me sex isn't the cure all..end all of an encounter...

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RE: To the men - 8/4/2005 3:00:27 PM

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I swear I read that before posting it and I still have a error...

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if I can have a mutually satisfying encounter with a partner during the act...it becomes a meaningless excerise
Fury

it should say if I can't have....

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RE: To the men - 8/4/2005 4:14:45 PM

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I think its a matter of wisdom in self.

here's how it works. initially I would do that, didnt care about the woman, so long as I got my hole. however after a time (long time) I came to realise that it wasnt that simple and when I made a casual commitment, it would land me into emotional hot water. so now I would like to think that I'd be a lot more cautious about whom I shag. I'd have to genuinely like them to shag them. a case of the larger head ruling over the smaller head. The "genuinely like" part is difficult as well as it involves a great deal of self-honestly and self-knowledge. The other instinct is to shag for the shag's sake. But this becomes a short term goal and ultimately dissatisfying; hence the trapping of emotional instinct by intellect and experience to something much more feminine in appearance - I try not to shag on the first date.

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RE: To the men - 8/4/2005 5:16:36 PM

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The worst experience I ever had was with a women who was absolutely positive that no woman was able to have an orgasm via intercourse. She told me every experience I had ever had before being with her, where the female had an orgasm...that woman was faking it. I told her it was pretty hard to deny some of the experiences I had but she stood her ground.

The second worst experience I ever had (I mention this because they are both actually a pretty close tie) was with a woman who was raised by a strict christian family (she was adopted) who managed to embed in her mind that enjoying sex was sinful. Therefore, the moment she started enjoying herself, she started crying intensely and then her personality sort of "flipped" and she started accusing me of being evil.

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RE: To the men - 8/4/2005 6:12:21 PM

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Old addage.............

Practice Makes Perfect.

To be honest I had a few girlfriends that I would not take to bed. I know it sounds odd coming (no puns y'all) from a guy. But I am being honest.

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RE: To the men - 8/7/2005 5:42:44 PM

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I had a woman that was misisonary only. No food, no cuffs and I had to sneak oral onher as she slept. That was 6 months of fun.

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RE: To the men - 8/7/2005 9:29:51 PM

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Losing my virginity was a disaster.

I was dating this girl in high school and one day she came over to my house. We went upstairs and she started to tease me and rub my crotch. We started to make out and of course, being a teenage boy with hormones just oozing off of me, my hands roamed. Next thing we knew, we were both naked and ready to go to it. Only problem was, she did not believe that I was a virgin, so, instead of guiding me and making me relax she just laid there like a limp dishrag. I had read books and seen movies and pictures, but I had never encountered the real thing and it was very awkward. After great effort (not knowing much about lubricant or the fact that a properly turned on woman would be naturally lubricated) I finally entered her and she proceeded to do her best imitation of a dead person. A precious few moments later, several things happened all at once... my ego was crushed because she was not reacting like I had seen in movies or porn mags... I got very nervous because I thought I was doing something wrong... my confidence level plummeted faster than weighted down lemmings... and I exploded into an orgasm that was unexpectedly quick. She was still doing her best to convince me that she had studied acting and she had perfected looking like a possum playing dead. This was my first sexual encounter with a woman and it was less than fulfilling.

They say you never forget your first time... damnit, they were right.

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RE: To the men - 8/7/2005 11:05:06 PM

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And some women, based on the fact that they are arrogant and imperative, are just not that good.

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RE: To the men - 8/8/2005 10:38:13 AM

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There's two kinds of hurts in the bedroom as far as I'm concerned. There's the "oww do it again!" and the "oh god do you have any grasp on male anatomy?" kinds. I think my ex was well versed in the second one.

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RE: To the men - 8/8/2005 9:47:28 PM

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YEA YOU GOTTA WATCH OUT FOR ALL THEM IMPERATIVE WOMEN

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And some women, based on the fact that they are arrogant and imperative, are just not that good.

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RE: To the men - 8/8/2005 11:51:33 PM

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Yup...my ceiling has been painted many colors

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