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BloodLuna -> RE: Users, Abusers, and Losers (11/3/2007 11:27:54 AM)
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Yes there are a lot of users and abusers out there. I was held against my will and raped and brutalized for 3 months by a so called "dom". Someday when I have the courage I'll post something about what happened to me.
But For every abuser is someone desperate who subconsciously or consciously sets themselves up for the abuse. A newbie submissive friend of mine was staying with us for a while to help me with my pregnancy (she got evicted and traded nursing and housekeeping for room and board) She went nuts trying to find a "Master" online. I tried very hard to explain to her that "submissive frenzy" is normal and to slow down and stop doing dangerous things (such as giving my address to a dom she talked to for an hour on collarme for example so he could pick her up for a hotel date!) (This just happened THIS WEEK) Last weekend she created a secret (from me) profile here on Friday, secretly met a "Dom" in NJ, told me her son was badly injured in an accident and that she had to get on a bus to go home. I offered to buy her laptop from her for a bus ticket but that I couldn't give her the money until Monday. (It turned out to be a lie - her son is fine), She packed her bag and put it in the car. On Saturday told me she was going on a walk. She never came back. Turns out she decided to WALK to NJ to be with this "dom." I called her family and warned them and can do nothing but hope she is ok.
There is a difference between a survivor and a vitim. Victims subconsciously and sometimes consciously seek to be abused again. So long as there are victims, there will be abusers waiting to take advantage of them.
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