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RE: To think of him as a friend, but how can I? - 11/4/2007 9:54:04 AM   
Squeakers


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Actually Squeakers, I strongly believe you should be on medication for about a month prior to the therapy. Simply because therapy is such damned hard work in the best of times. And learning new ways to approach things while too depressed to get out of bed is just too much work.

   I am SO glad that you were not around to recommend that to me.   My body gave off signals that something was amiss for me.   I suffered emotional pain, I suffered anxiety, I suffered depression and I did not know where it was coming from and I wanted it to end.   Had I had taken medication to relieve my symptoms, I never would have dealt with the real issues because my symptoms would not have been bothering me enough to work it out.  
   God bless my therapist who said, "Nope, medication will not cure your issues when my medical doctor recommended them."  

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RE: To think of him as a friend, but how can I? - 11/4/2007 2:14:13 PM   
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It's not a black and white issue with meds.  Meds first is right for some people, therapy first is right for others.  If you have a chemical imbalance in your brain, all the talk therapy in the world isn't going to cure it.  If life has reached up and smacked you in the head (like losing a family member) then you can bet talk therapy would probably be your first line of treatment.  After therapy, your brain made need a little push to get the serotonin where it belongs, and a course of meds might be right for you. 

As far as being friends with someone that you believe you are in love with... I've never had a long term thing with anyone that I was NOT friends with first.  I'm sure there are lots of people out there that have managed that, but in my world (and maybe we're just an unlucky bunch) it is rare indeed.

Sharon

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