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ORIGINAL: angeldustx Global Capitalism....... the question is how much value do you attach to items that you own? do you buy them because of advertising, or how you think you will appear to your peers? by owning a 'new car' or having designer label clothes and other consumables. Do we allow advertisers to dictate to us what we should own? and do you think advertising is is moving us towards a homogonized world? (where everything is the same!) i have posted here as it is an international forum and will be particularly interested to hear views from all over the world! thankyou for reading :) ~FR to OP When I was younger these things meant a lot to me, it probably included all of wanting to impress peers and fitting in. I think a lot of the consuming public are enticeded by advertising to own and/or purchase things out of need to "Keep up with the Jones'" I think that advertising can get all those people who need to following the trends to want to be the same or look the same but I also think there are a lot of people that never feel comfortable moving from the look they had in High School , so no I don't think it would ever be an all across the boards type thing, too many indiviualistic and artistic people running around. I have to say since I have matured these things are not that important to me, I am one of those artistic people who would rather be different. Another interesting thing I have been learning about things since I am presently recovering from a house fire is I have changing feelings about "things and possessions" than I used to have. I was a pretty serious collector and had some outstanding collections of things. I restored vintage dolls. I am a Artist that had a lot of my own Art and Photography displayed in my home and all of it brought me great pleasure to me to have surrounding me. I was also very attached to the land as it had been in my family for sometime. Now today as I sit in a different home, that isn't mine. With a lot of my collections, dolls, and artwork destroyed, I am being enlightened to the attachment I had put on my "things" and that I now want to change the ways in which I allow attachment to develope and how deep I want to allow those attachments in my heart. This is a process I am going through and trying to figure out right now as I am also in the process of my Mother dying. One thing I do know right now that this whole lesson is about letting go and that things really just touch our lives, they aren't things we can hold onto forever because all of us leave this earth with nothing but whats on our backs, "our" things move on to other places and other people. One of the things I collected was unusal rocks or rocks that drew me to them. My rocks of course did survive the fire and as I was going about the house and putting them in boxes, I found a rather big one that I call the "Face Rock" because no matter which way you turn it there is a face looking back at you. I love this rock and many people also have admired it. I realized that this rock will most likely survive hundreds of years past my present lifetime and I began to imagine all the different possibility and that made me really aware of how fleeting the time is that we really "own" something. The other stuff that was destroyrd is teaching me just how quickly "our things" can vanish, be gone, in no time at all. Right now in the present I am processing the whole things and attachment values I will allow myself to have. Needless to say with a lot happening at once it is a very daunting task and I will have a very different outlook once I move through this. Things are just that, things, and we can only enjoy them for a short time, until they are no longer or move on to another, so do we truly "own" these things? Same with people, we can attach ourselves as close as we feel the need, but in reality that attachment can be taken away at a moments notice. I have lost some really tight friends in the past few years and now my mother is going to leave(we are very, very close) so the people lesson is much, much more difficult but I feel that too will change for me, how I will allow attachment to become emeshed in my life and how in the past I struggled to try and find my security and safety involving and depending on other people. This is going to be really a tough one for me to keep in a healthy balance for a while down the road. But I do hope to find the answers that are wise for me. Missy.
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