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littleone35 -> RE: swallowing..... (4/12/2006 3:35:41 PM)
Fruits and veggies are great maybe you can ask him to eat more of those. I have also heard of the pineapple and pineapple juice. I have heard avoid asprageus(sp) at all costs i heard that make it taste really bad. It took me a while to learn to swallow but i can now. Just give it a little time. Best of luck. Matt's littleone

babysburnin -> RE: swallowing..... (4/12/2006 8:14:48 PM)
The taste of cum is a reflection of what HE eats, other stuff too... it would be great if you liked it, but apparently you don't. When you think about accepting his cum, do you wish for it? It's a delicate issue - imagine him saying your scent, your taste is not pleasing ... no good. He seems too salty, too bitter, too...what? I have had the experience of not liking the taste, or the BO or....whatever... Phermones...hehehe - it will be good and well when it is good and well - fundamental. (Just me) I adore when my Dom/lover cums - no matter what - I want his essence, and hope he wants mine (hopefully not foul - I take all precautions). There are gentle ways to fix bad taste - pampering ways...

maybemaybenot -> RE: swallowing..... (4/12/2006 8:40:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: acctonthelook Why does swallowing equal finishing? It doesn't. But the choice is swallow or spit. And spitting is so unladylike [;)] mbmbn

acctonthelook -> RE: swallowing..... (4/12/2006 10:36:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: maybemaybenot quote: ORIGINAL: acctonthelook Why does swallowing equal finishing? It doesn't. But the choice is swallow or spit. And spitting is so unladylike [;)] I find that I'm not clear if your being insulting of 'my hang up' or inferring I am not ladylike just because of it? I'm actually speechless...I could say you are either a hilarious person, or just being rude. Thanks.

maybemaybenot -> RE: swallowing..... (4/12/2006 11:19:16 PM)
It was a said jokingly.. as inferred by the little winkie face after my post. We all have hang ups. I have a few of my own. IMO, it's pretty sad if we can't see the humorous side of it. Personally, I don't care if you spit, swallow or rub it on your ass. What ever works for you. mbmbn

acctonthelook -> RE: swallowing..... (4/12/2006 11:53:58 PM)
[:D] I think I became speechless because I know it's a problem that I can't get over. I have often heard, "OMG, you don't swallow?" from ppl on this site and Str8 ppl. Most Dom's say one of two things when I say it's a hard limit for me: 1-Ok, we can work within that limit 2-Oh well, in time we'll get you over it. It does bother me. People try to make you feel inferior because you don't swallow. *I don't know why it's looked upon as 'never finishing it'. shrug* At this point, I don't care, too tired now. Thanks for clarifying mbmbn! It helps. I just missed the wink. It's late. Sorry if I came across defensive.**

ownedgirlie -> RE: swallowing..... (4/13/2006 12:13:50 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: puella I tried to post just an idea of what one might do if swallowing were not something they enjoyed, or if indeed it might be something they have actual physical (gagging etc) reactions to, which they wanted to try and change. (In my mind, it shows a lot about a woman who is willing to say.. I am having trouble with my service-- exposing herself-- please can anyone give me some ideas how to overcome this....) I did not want to add my own preferences about whether I enjoyed it, whether I was a cum slut, a good obedient woman who loves pleasing and concentrates on that, etc, for a very specific reason. This thread, in my opinion was someone asking for some help with something, quite personal, that they were having trouble with. It was not really about displaying what a 'good' slut I am personally (or not! hehe) It has been interesting to note, however, how many of the women, specifically, have responded to this person's very honest question not with any real ideas or help, but with tributes to their own talents/desirability factor... nature of the beast I suppose. i think it has to do with group discussion. One-off's occur as mini conversations within conversations pop up. To imply it's a bunch of submissives tooting their own horn about how good they are is a bit insulting. This post of yours could be implied as the same, actually. What a nice person you are for trying to post to the topic while everyone else one-off'd. Not trying to be rude here by any means, but your post is a bit ironic - tooting your own horn for not tooting your own horn [;)]

puella -> RE: swallowing..... (4/13/2006 4:10:46 AM)
Hmm... my point was, that it was not a one off. I suppose I could have put in a multitude of examples, but chose the latest one at the time, for sake of brevity. Was it about self aggrandizement? No... read the post before yours, ownedgirlie, and you will see that, especially when someone lays out for discussion, and hopefully helpful advice, what they perceive to be a point which they need to try to 'fix' within herself or her service, they are vulnerably baring themselves and are earnestly looking for help... not random 'tsk tsk'ing from those who do not have that 'problem'. I am not saying the posts were necessarily a measure used to deflate other women in an attempt to inflate their own appeal, but, you will see that the many (and there were many, not just the one I drew the quote from) posts to this thread have 'gasped' and directly or indirectly had some form of chastisement for those who didn't or couldn't manage to eat cum. It does have an impact upon not only the nature of the thread (positive and simply looking for some ideas in improving their service) but too, those persons who really were just looking for useful and positive ideas ( well as hijacking the bandwidth). At any rate, speaking of hijacking the bandwidth.. hehe I thought it was interesting to hear babysburnins idea of gentle and pampering ways to work a change of diet into an owners lifestyle. I had been wondering what a girl would do if her owner didn't want to give up smoking, guzzle more water or change the foods he likes to eat. I would imagine that could pose a bit of a problem for someone as well.

justmeagain69 -> RE: swallowing..... (4/13/2006 5:19:19 AM)
quote: you will see that the many (and there were many, not just the one I drew the quote from) posts to this thread have 'gasped' and directly or indirectly had some form of chastisement for those who didn't or couldn't manage to eat cum. I was not aware that sharing your own personal opinions, suggestions and experiences was chastisement. But the fact is - it doesnt matter - opinions are like ......etc etc. and I can appreciate the opinion, but gasping? Let's try not to over dramatize. Also, as a side note, after speaking with a gf of mine with the same type of issue about this thread and asking for her suggestions for overcoming it, she mentioned meditation techniques and visualization, convincing yourself its a popcicle or lollipop can sometimes help you relax the muscles in your mouth and throat and can help with the gagging at least. She did have, however, basically the same suggestions with regard to the taste. Pineapples being the fruit of choice for her. She also suggested that the fruit consumption up to 24 hours before a "session" works the best for full absorption of the fruit into the semen.

MontaukDaisies -> RE: swallowing..... (4/13/2006 5:35:40 AM)
I think the notion of rubbing it everywhere - especially since MARKING, to me, is very important and ritualistic - is a great idea! So.. try that! Yes, and pineapples and plenty of water, helps a lot. Smokers' semen is icky - IMO.

ownedgirlie -> RE: swallowing..... (4/13/2006 6:33:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: puella I thought it was interesting to hear babysburnins idea of gentle and pampering ways to work a change of diet into an owners lifestyle. I had been wondering what a girl would do if her owner didn't want to give up smoking, guzzle more water or change the foods he likes to eat. I would imagine that could pose a bit of a problem for someone as well. i suppose it depends on the girl. Often a Master will require his girl overcome her baggage/barriers/hang ups to provide his personal pleasure, provided it is not going to physically or mentally cause detriment. i suppose in cases of submissives to Dominants, they talk it out as submissives have choices as to what they submit to. In slavery as i know it, there is no choice. So, Master works with slave to overcome fears, dislikes, boundaries, etc. Often Master will require slave to do something distasteful, as a reminder of who and what she is. Typically in an evolved M/s relationship, the slave takes on the Master's desires as her own, and will want to overcome such service issues herself. As for the other piece of your post, i contend there are many instances here on the boards, in which everything but the OP's actual question is discussed. If the attempt of your post was to point that out, i respect that. The way in which it was pointed out, however, did appear to be a case of self aggrandizement, which is why i found it ironic. Thanks for clearing up your position.

waterdance -> RE: swallowing..... (4/13/2006 11:13:16 AM)
my Master smokes but his cum tastes like sweet milk to me.. of course He eats a good diet drinks lots of cranberry juice too. i yearn for His taste [:)]

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