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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 1:15:39 AM

heartcream

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I have gotten that rude kind of email that seems like they spew it on anyone. It is not personal to me, you know saying really rude things. I find these sorts of people kind of retarded in some fundamental way.

Then there have been ones more specific to me. They are responding to something they read on my profile. Those have been a bit harder to brush off than the former type of mail. Something about what I wrote about, how I wrote it and so on, annoyed them and they felt compelled to tell me in some sort of snarky way.

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 1:22:58 AM

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quote:

Damocles809 wrote: The most common however, is from both female subs and doms calling my pictures fake.

You mean your hair's *really* that white? :-P

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 1:38:47 AM

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Like everyone i've gotten my share of the emails that make me think WTF? Yesterday i got one that simply said "grow up granny" and i immediately rushed out to JC Penney to buy a shapeless outfit in pure polyethylene, matching Crocs and got my hair cut into something short and uninteresting. A woman my age shouldn't be riding on a Harley and rubbing her tits on the driver's back! i was so thankful this person left me such a profound and life-changing piece of advice. *laughs*

Actually? i think alcohol is most likely involved in most of the 'hater' messages.

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 1:46:03 AM

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I got called a 'raddled old bingo playing pensioner' one week, then the next week I was told I looked 50............... I was made up because I'd gone from being a 60 year old pensioner one week to a 50 year old the next - I knew that face cream was worth it!

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 1:54:06 AM

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The couple I've had have been from Dommes on this site. As I told them, if you have time to write to bitch about me, you have time to volunteer to help some unfortunate soul out there. And get a hobby for gods sake.

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 2:10:07 AM

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Eyesopen and givemyall, may I say you are two of the finest, hottest and sexiest granny's I've seen around!!!

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 2:15:24 AM

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Well thank you kindly MissMagnolia - I put it down to weekly bingo and well fitting incontinence pants

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 2:23:11 AM

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i used to get tons of hate mail, but since i switched to friends only its seemed to stopped, besides i think my mail is broken, friends have tried to send me mail and i never get any

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 2:25:32 AM

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Why thank You MissMagnolia!

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 2:49:17 AM

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I think joining any kind of online site comes with the hazards of having socially inept individuals mistakenly using the private message/email facilities as an extension of the cess pools their minds are floating in.

A few of the ones I've had, although thankfully I receive very few these days, are:

"Hi u look hot I want u to dom me"

Follow up

"Just seen u weight & dint no u were a fatass, loose weight n make yerself pretty"

You use BDSM to abuse people b/c you hate men - always a classic!

The ultimate, after I'd written to someone offering them help via pointing them in the direction of a website (after they'd asked for help) that would cater more for their kink:

You are pitiful and clearly suffer from Dominatrix Toxaemia. Ishmael must have encountered you personally.

I think a judicial caning and a hard rogering with a foot long dildo would ensure a more pleasant attitude adjustment in many of these individuals.

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 5:24:04 AM

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ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan

You use BDSM to abuse people b/c you hate men - always a classic!

I had to laugh, the way you put it. But honestly, I never thought, till reading so many posts on this site, there were so many people who are into BDSM, in some way, yet still believe, at heart, that it's hateful. Or, believe that kinks other than theirs are hateful.

I think, too, that I've met and even gotten involved with people, in the past, who, unbeknownst to me, went into it thinking that because I was a dominant, I was also hardhearted, and kind of a villain. I think they were counting on me not being tender, at heart.

It's like they don't get it at all. You do this with caring and in intimacy. We understand each other. We're supposed to understand, between us, that this is our way of showing love, of having fun, of mating, of getting close. "You only hurt the ones you love," and "Cruel to be kind."

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 5:36:19 AM

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fast reply

i really enjoy getting hate mail from doms (who don't have pics on their profiles) telling me i'm too fat, too ugly, and too black to be Daddy's daughtersubmissive

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 6:16:37 AM

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When getting to know a submissive, I delve thoroughly into their background (and encourage them to do the same with mine) to ensure that they aren't self-harming by proxy, e.g., the sub that approached me and expected me to treat him with utter contempt on a daily basis, followed with a liberal glassing (he actually expected me to break a bottle or household glass and stab him with it) as and when I felt frustrated/angry. His background revealed parents that had treated him this way and when I explained that while I could be cruel, insofar as being rigid, strict and even relentlessly severe, I would never touch him in anger. His background excluded him from consideration in any case and he was dumbfounded that I had taken such a stance, even branding me 'Undomly' and a fraud. In a way, I'm conforted he thought that of me as I would not like to be the kind of person that lived up to his ideal of a 'dominant' personality.

I rather enjoy being delightfully shocking and debunking the assumptions made by others about me due to their own prejudices.

Whomever would have thought that a Dom/me could not only be affectionate, loving and caring, but also that she/he's not solitary in being a rounded individual.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MadameMarque
I had to laugh, the way you put it. But honestly, I never thought, till reading so many posts on this site, there were so many people who are into BDSM, in some way, yet still believe, at heart, that it's hateful. Or, believe that kinks other than theirs are hateful.

I think, too, that I've met and even gotten involved with people, in the past, who, unbeknownst to me, went into it thinking that because I was a dominant, I was also hardhearted, and kind of a villain. I think they were counting on me not being tender, at heart.

It's like they don't get it at all. You do this with caring and in intimacy. We understand each other. We're supposed to understand, between us, that this is our way of showing love, of having fun, of mating, of getting close. "You only hurt the ones you love," and "Cruel to be kind."

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 6:42:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: Action

Dear Everyone,

Im sure everyone has gotten a touch of "the haters", to elaborate the ones that leave nasty messages and either block you or you have to block them. Mind you I personaly giggle when they send me these becuase honestly Im not bothered by internet troll types. But it begs the question of why do you think they do it?

I have several ideas: jealousy, trolls, pure and simple trying to get a reaction out of people, or those bitter at not getting much attention.

Share some of your "hater" experinces and your thoughts on what you think drives them.

-Lil Miss Action

What a coincidence, I just dealt with one a few minutes ago.

Time spent pondering the answer to 'Why do they do it?' could perhaps be put to better use, IMHO.

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 6:43:47 AM

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:D

We would have thought!

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               strangle us, break our bones -
               we will come back for more.
               And why?

                              GRANNY

               Because we like it!

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                Because we're Addamses!

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 6:50:32 AM

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I find the question of motive fascinating, in all sorts of behaviour.

When interacting with people who behave in ways, the motivation for which I don't comprehend, gaining an understanding of the mechanics of their psychology is especially valuable.

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 7:25:18 AM

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ORIGINAL: MadameMarque

I find the question of motive fascinating, in all sorts of behaviour.
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So do I.

When interacting with people who behave in ways, the motivation for which I don't comprehend, gaining an understanding of the mechanics of their psychology is especially valuable.

In the case of internet trolls, the complete lack of information available on even such basics as age, gender, etc. provide an effective smokescreen.

The 'angry European guy' spouting Aryan propaganda could be a Jewish teenager from California, or even a dorm room full of frat boys, and so forth. Makes it much harder.

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 7:52:03 AM

LaTigresse

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Oddly enough I rarely get nasty notes. I guess I don't work hard enough at pissing people off.

The rare times I have, I tend to laugh and then hit delete. No one on here is allowed to upset me in any way, shape, or form. My world, my rules.

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 8:24:39 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MissMorrigan

A few of the ones I've had, although thankfully I receive very few these days, are:

"Hi u look hot I want u to dom me"

Follow up

"Just seen u weight & dint no u were a fatass, loose weight n make yerself pretty"

Now that's HILARIOUS!!! What a nimrod LOL

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RE: The Haters - 11/5/2007 8:45:49 AM

SoHott

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Action

Dear Everyone,

Im sure everyone has gotten a touch of "the haters", to elaborate the ones that leave nasty messages and either block you or you have to block them. Mind you I personaly giggle when they send me these becuase honestly Im not bothered by internet troll types. But it begs the question of why do you think they do it?

I have several ideas: jealousy, trolls, pure and simple trying to get a reaction out of people, or those bitter at not getting much attention.

Share some of your "hater" experinces and your thoughts on what you think drives them.

-Lil Miss Action

this girl is deeply affected by mean emails. she doesn't understand how so many of you can laugh and enjoy them.

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