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Masters of a House? - 11/5/2007 12:07:03 PM   
manacub


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Status: offline 		hi, im looking at a possible relationship with two Doms and am wondering if any Master advice can be given on how to approach it intelligently. i am completely inexperienced in any real time relationships with this "lifestyle" if it be called that, though i do have a Master's hand of invite that can support both KingDoms and i am very attracted to the thought of investing in dual creations of the sort....any help?

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/5/2007 12:17:29 PM   
DarkDaddyZ


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Status: offline 		Taking your time and learning more about this lifestyle first.

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/5/2007 12:20:43 PM   
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Status: offline 		I couldn't agree more with what DarkDaddyZ just posted.  If you have no real experience in this lifestyle, taking on two Doms at the same time is NOT a wise move to make.  Study, learn, and experience what this is about before jumping into on of the most complicated arrangements out there.

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/5/2007 1:05:21 PM   
heartfeltsub


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Status: offline 		i have to agree with the two previous respondents OP, as i do currently serve two Doms. Neither is my Master, and who is ultimately in charge of me at a given point and time is something that They discussed and came up with a solution for to try to help me handle the situation. However it is not something that i would have even dreamed of doing when i first came into the lifestyle.

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/5/2007 1:43:57 PM   
manacub


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Status: offline 		it wasn't my idea, my old boyfriend kind of got me entwined with a daddy that lives with him, i dont know how it started i guess, but the ball is already rolling and im caught in the tides. my profession requires my dominant one, and i think thats what they like...i just dont know how to not get lost in the game of it.

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/5/2007 1:57:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: manacub

it wasn't my idea, my old boyfriend kind of got me entwined with a daddy that lives with him, i dont know how it started i guess, but the ball is already rolling and im caught in the tides. my profession requires my dominant one, and i think thats what they like...i just dont know how to not get lost in the game of it.

And what exactly is "the game?"

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/5/2007 2:53:15 PM   
manacub


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Status: offline 		relationship games, such as all life is a game, it matters how You play it. i dont mean game as in not real, i mean game as in too real......its a initiation, a dare, a sacrifice and so much life bought with You for the price. im caught up in the way these guys move and im not sure how to get anything...even ourselves out of it.

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/5/2007 6:41:02 PM   
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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/6/2007 6:45:48 AM   
manacub


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Status: offline 		red pill or blue pill sir.....confusion can be friendly....normally i dont bring my personal problems here....but we wanted to recieve a public opinion i guess...for some reason it almost brings some closure to its undoing...it is ,was, and never not, it being born on paper, in verse before everybody, under my very own profile, the truth be publicly verified to having matter in the mind of me...i dont know what to say, that its a gift? to someone not looking? my dragon is somewhere watching...thats his gift....me looking for him...thats mine.....these pages just mark the journey with artifacts along the way...archives in our immortal ones .....a game called life with mortal properties...mattered men......my dragon lies in lairs called flesh....mankind holds a manifestation of mind made matter like me and my dragon......this is for his flesh. Logic and Validity my VortexVizard..., my Wormhole of mind, a mastered dragon puppy i am...his mana cub

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/6/2007 6:47:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		<snip>red pill or blue pill sir.....<snip>

One pill makes you larger;
and one pill makes you small;
and the one that mother gives you------

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/6/2007 8:05:51 AM   
sambamanslilgirl


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Status: offline 		echoing what others have advised you - learn about lifestyle first before ever considering the idea of serving 2 Doms.

i currently have 2 who are almost alike in personality and dominant style yet very different and unique in other ways. i don't think i could have served both like i do now if i've met them at the same time.

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/6/2007 10:44:17 AM   
manacub


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Status: offline 		i dont know how to say that it really is beyond choice in service. its almost like He picked me so im special. i certainly dont want to be rude, but i think  He just decided i need to know these things, and then there is this other one that im supposed to like. i looked at what He was saying and got in this conversation about it and it keeps going and going and here i am trying to be nice and care about what He wants for some reason...still hiding some virgin mind....but thats just tempting Him with something.....it may be to make me not like him someday.....i dont expect understanding anymore......ive publicly recognized a supreeme force not in my control, kneeling in other words to "God" his beast and Dragon..........personal really from here on out....
manacub

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/6/2007 12:39:53 PM   
MystressDream


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Status: offline 		Ok... I'm done with this thread.... Maybe it's just me, but you make no sense whatsoever.  It sounds like you are so deeply involved in your own little fantasy world that you can't even communicate clearly outside of it.

If therapy is not wanted... be careful out there.  This can be emotionally and physicially dangerous in the hands of idiots who don't have a clue.

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/6/2007 12:45:37 PM   
LaTigresse


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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/6/2007 12:50:15 PM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


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Status: offline 		With your experience level or lack of I would advise you to find one to serve and at a later date continue on this journey you have set your self upon.Its not a bed of roses and there is serious pitfall along the path, be wary, and yes cynical as you seek...For the most part those here at collar me are great people but in the shadows lurks trouble for an experienced one..be well...bounty

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/7/2007 9:30:34 AM   
manacub


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Status: offline 		thank You ma'am, i know better than to air in public, You stated Yourself well, dont let the door hit You on the ass on the way out.....my big girl might get offended if You dislike my dumb keep it too Yourself ma'am....politeness might save the day in some future communications though, if we can agree....have a good day ma'am.....
the idiot her daddy's stuck with
manacub

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/7/2007 9:38:11 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

<snip>red pill or blue pill sir.....<snip>

One pill makes you larger;
and one pill makes you small;
and the one that mother gives you------

Grace Slick Master


damn it! I was just going to post that!

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/7/2007 9:36:38 PM   
MasterofScyn


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Status: offline 		Not really sure if I understand the real problem. It sounds like ... in between the lines... That you have made your choice to serve both Doms.. Yes, you do always have a choice. Keep going with the unknown life of which they invited you into. Or leave. Walk away and take it slow with someone. ONE Dom, get the feel of things. I know that two Doms would be to much for me personally. If you are truly new to this life, then these two Dom might take things a little to far and "Teach" you that this is how it works. I would be careful with your choice. Again, you always have a choice. Just becaue he held out his hand to you and said "Come with me little one" ... Doesn't mean you have to follow. That's almost like taking candy from a stranger, you never know what your getting yourself into.

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/7/2007 10:14:02 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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quote:

ORIGINAL: manacub
though i do have a Master's hand of invite that can support both KingDoms and i am very attracted to the thought of investing in dual creations of the sort


I have never heard of this kind of thing.What's a 'hand of invite'? I'm thinkin' "online fantasy".

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RE: Masters of a House? - 11/7/2007 10:14:21 PM   
BitaTruble


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ORIGINAL: manacub

red pill or blue pill sir.....confusion can be friendly....normally i dont bring my personal problems here....but we wanted to recieve a public opinion i guess...for some reason it almost brings some closure to its undoing...it is ,was, and never not, it being born on paper, in verse before everybody, under my very own profile, the truth be publicly verified to having matter in the mind of me...i dont know what to say, that its a gift? to someone not looking? my dragon is somewhere watching...thats his gift....me looking for him...thats mine.....these pages just mark the journey with artifacts along the way...archives in our immortal ones .....a game called life with mortal properties...mattered men......my dragon lies in lairs called flesh....mankind holds a manifestation of mind made matter like me and my dragon......this is for his flesh. Logic and Validity my VortexVizard..., my Wormhole of mind, a mastered dragon puppy i am...his mana cub


Well, what do you suppose happens when you wade in whirlpools? It's exhilerating, exciting, feverish but scary, too. It's so easy to get sucked in and without a life jacket, you can drown. That said, being the meat for a couple of dragons is totally hot, so I understand the attraction. It seems to me you have a choice to make and you're the only one who can make it. Either expose your flesh and be prepared for a sound toasting and feasting or call for a chopper to fly you to safety. If you fear getting lost, let me assure you, your fear is quite real. You absolutely can get lost but, in that there is adventure like nothing else as well. Conundrum. If we don't see you again as you lay in the belly of the beast, then I will say that your screenname is quite appropriate and you have fed that which needs feeding. Hopefully, it feeds you as well.

Celeste

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