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FangsNfeet -> Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 12:23:14 AM)
So how does B-Day spankings apply to the BDSM life style? What are you thoughts on it? Should Dominants get B-Day spankings as well? After all, for all who celebrate having birth days, getting a spanking is a tradition for most. So do you or do you not submit to a spanking on your B Day? This goes for everyone? Also, does anyone think that a B Day spanking has any meaning on introducing people into the lifestyle? After all, the spanking is done out of fun and most seem to get a little enjoyment out of it on the giving and recieving end. I'm curious of your thoughts on this topic. Sincerly, FnF

Padriag -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 12:29:14 AM)
Never thought of it as having anything to do with BDSM, to me it was always just one of several silly birthday traditions. We put shoe polish on my grandmother's nose for her birthday. Funny you should mention it though... I just had a birthday... too late to spank me now! [:D]

nella -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 1:43:55 AM)
i have never heard of his custom. Is it Amarican?

imtempting -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 2:30:09 AM)
we have b day punchs

nella -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 2:32:14 AM)
In norway we susualy stic whit cake [:)]

onceburned -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 2:40:47 AM)
Well, then you are missing out on the good stuff! You will have to fly over for your next birthday. [:)]

nella -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 2:48:51 AM)
Hehehe perhaps i will. Might be better for me than cake anyway, i am alargic to sugar.

tinkJH -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 4:58:27 AM)
haha, My birthday was this last Monday. I recieved one spanking for each year I was alive, and one more for "good luck". Like the usual american tradition. However, when it is Master's birthday - I recieve his spankings. We don't do Birthday spankings with the kids tho, we do Birthday Tickles.

sub4hire -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 8:01:07 AM)
I've been around a while. Been to a lot of birthday parties when it was someone within the scene. I'm yet to see a birthday spanking, whether it be dom or submissive. Yeah, a lot of people kid about it. I rarely see it happen. Of course not to say it doesn't. I'm sure some who like spankings are probably begging for them regardless whether it is their birthday or not. I know I never received one as a child nor as an adult. I'm not so sure it is as common as people think it is.

subcheryl -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 8:10:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Padriag . Funny you should mention it though... I just had a birthday... too late to spank me now! [:D] LOL me too on the 3rd, Master didn't spank me either, but got a really nice thoughtful gift though. Happy Birthday Padriag! ! ! !

Padriag -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 8:15:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: subcheryl LOL me too on the 3rd, Master didn't spank me either, but got a really nice thoughtful gift though. Happy Birthday Padriag! ! ! ! Happy Birthday, mine was 25th July... all I got was pneumonia. [&:]

Mercnbeth -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 8:22:59 AM)
quote: So do you or do you not submit to a spanking on your B Day? this slave looks forward to it every year!!!! quote: Should Dominants get B-Day spankings as well? only if they demand it!!!

itzelwing -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 8:26:12 AM)
Hmmm... I think giving B-Day spankings can be fun, and I've actually incorporated them into a couple of scenes with my Kat. When my birthday comes around, even though I am a switch, if there are to be spankings at all, she gets them. This is because, first of all, she doesn't Top me. She's assisted when I have been topped, but the dynamic of our relationship and her personality don't allow her to go there with me (despite the delightfully wicked things she does when I let her help me top someone else). And second of all, as much of a painslut as I can be, I don't enjoy being spanked...too many negative associations there. Flog me, whip me, pummel me to a pulp... but spankings always have been and always will be punishment to me.

imtempting -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 8:27:55 AM)
Dominants should be spanked. Why not its all in good fun. Smacky smack

Oumae -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 8:29:37 AM)
The tradition here is to give the bumps to the b'day boy or gal.... being the fluffy Domme that I can be I have given b'day spanking to a few subs. [;)] Oumae

ChereeAmoor -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 9:01:15 AM)
What is up with that tradition anyway? Where did it come from? I never understood it - just seemed one of the many "traditional" things that no-one ever questions. But if a Dom wants a birthday spanking, they should have one.

EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 9:08:33 AM)
It's a cute social tradition to help someone feel welcomed and a ritual of passage. No there's no reason a dominant "should" go through birthday spankings.

Kinkypupper -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 9:12:01 AM)
Indeed I am all for spankings. MOST definately.. good solid "Wacks" On ones submissive :-)

Mercnbeth -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 9:35:36 AM)
quote: Should Dominants get B-Day spankings as well? YES - and they should be administered on their behalf to their slave. (your welcome beth!) At the Lair, a club where we go in LA, there are often "birthday spankings". In fact often the birthday boy/girl is attached to a spanking bench with a sign nearby, or sometimes written on their body, welcoming any interested to join in the "celebration". Any excuse for a party huh?

KatyLied -> RE: Birth Day SPANKINGS (8/5/2005 9:57:20 AM)
Where is the line forming? I didn't get any spanks on my last birthday. [:D]

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