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Degree of submission - 11/5/2007 5:21:47 PM   
Jaison


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Status: offline 		I wanted opinions on this matter from all the Dominant females out there.
Who's would you prefer as a sub/slave?

A: A male with a naturally submissive personality.
B: A masculine male who choose to submit his will to a Dominant female.

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/5/2007 5:24:32 PM   
Cloudz


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Status: offline 		I'm sorry - I am struggling to see the difference between the two.

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/5/2007 5:29:14 PM   
TNstepsout


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Status: offline 		Yup I'm with Cloudz on this one. I don't see any difference if the end result is a wonderfully devoted and dedicated slave. Oh and by the way, I wouldn't go round implying that a naturally submissive male by birth can't also be a normal masculine male. (some of those boys you wouldn't want to piss off)

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/5/2007 5:35:50 PM   
Aimtoplease101


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Status: offline 		A "normal" masculine male?  That's opening a whole can of worms, not to mention ambiguities.

I think you may need to clarify your terms a bit.

Regards, ATP

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/5/2007 5:40:45 PM   
PsyVamp


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Status: offline 		one of each? lol
They sound like they could be the same thing... but two would be nice in either case.

Let me ask you a question:

Do you mean submissive/slave in the "play with my body" type way or the "let me make your life easier and if I'm lucky you'll have time to play" way?

Psy- Lady Jag

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/5/2007 5:53:28 PM   
MistressFaye1


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Status: offline 		I read the post and immediatey wondered if I was missing something because they seem one in the same.  I then did the usual thing I do and that's to read the other posts to see if I can add to what's already been said or attach a note of total agreement.

I was glad to see I wasn't the only one that needed clarification before answering.

M. Faye

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/5/2007 6:33:45 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		A masculine male who is naturally submissive and turns control over to me does it for me.

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/5/2007 6:36:09 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		I want a pet jarhead who fucks like a porn star. :)

Oh, and he should be submissive to me, as well.

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/5/2007 6:38:29 PM   
Decimus


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Status: offline 		Wow...I guess its a guy thing I knew immediately what Jaison was talking about..............

Edit:
Although there is:
C) Combiation thereof

< Message edited by Decimus -- 11/5/2007 6:39:14 PM >

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/5/2007 10:04:03 PM   
MystressDream


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Status: offline 		Mmmm... yes... I concur... A naturally submissive masculine male who chooses to submit his will to me.  Exactly what I am looking for.

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/5/2007 10:14:33 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		A: A male with a naturally submissive personality.
Even, if his job requires him to be Dominant during the day, I prefer
someone who is submissive "naturally" and does not need to put on a performance.

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/5/2007 11:13:19 PM   
MisPandora


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jaison

I wanted opinions on this matter from all the Dominant females out there.
Who's would you prefer as a sub/slave?

A: A male with a naturally submissive personality.
B: A masculine male who choose to submit his will to a Dominant female.

I personally go for B, the type A, aggressive male who turns over control to one woman.  It's like having a tiger by the tail, but by its nature, it's a far more difficult situation to happen and evolve "naturally". It feels to me that they struggle more with their submission and finding a balance in their lives.

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/6/2007 5:46:53 AM   
rubberpet


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Status: offline 		Just the two cents from one of the masculine subby males that you wouldn't want to piss off (just kidding, bro...lol).  I'm naturally submissive with a seriously agressive side (if that makes sense), but I hunger to submit to only ONE dominant female.  When it comes to Mistress, Her needs and wants are met first and foremost.  There is really no need to think of myself because She has proven She will take care of my needs.  On top of that, I believe that being submissive to all dominant women and just being polite and thoughtful to them are a little different.  I think most dommes would want that type of submissive, one who is polite, courteous, and respectful to other dommes, but submissive only to Her.  To me, that shows the domme that only SHE holds your submission, not every lady in the room (if that makes any sense).

Just my opinion, I could be wrong.

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/6/2007 6:43:50 AM   
LadyHibiscus


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Status: offline 		Rubberpet is very smart.  :)

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/6/2007 7:09:31 AM   
rubberpet


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Rubberpet is very smart.  :)


Thank you, Lady Hibiscus.  It's a philosophy I learned over the years and plan to implement for the rest of my subby life.  The best thing is it makes Mistress so happy, too.  Like the saying goes, "If Mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy!"  Plus, I've grown fond of the skin on my butt and eating solid foods!  LOL 

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/6/2007 7:36:13 AM   
Jaison


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Status: offline 		I appologize for not being able clarify my question. The jist of it is that I can't clarify because what I seek as opinions depends on how you take and explore the question. It's wacky but .....hey all the replies so far has helped me; believe it or not. 

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RE: Degree of submission - 11/6/2007 8:14:44 AM   
MsIncontrol


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Jaison

I wanted opinions on this matter from all the Dominant females out there.
Who's would you prefer as a sub/slave?

A: A male with a naturally submissive personality.
B: A masculine male who choose to submit his will to a Dominant female.


I prefer B to A usually.  I am really into the power exchange aspect of the lifestyle..the more powerful, strong and dominant a man is in his everyday life the bigger the thrill is for me to see him kneeling and willingly serving me. How the mighty will fall...<smile.  Of course, there are many challenges with this type of submissive....they are harder to train usually.

I do enjoy being served by a naturally submissive man at times...it is much easier and relaxing...but the thrill of the power exchange is lacking in this type of encounter...at least for me.

As usual, I agree 100% with Rubberpet.  I would MUCH rather a man who is strong and dominant who chooses to serve only  me, versus someone who is submissive to all he comes across. 

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