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MasterHXB -> how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/5/2007 10:40:13 PM)
for me its always been easy most of the time. wink lol i do it by just being a very loving caring man. that must seem very vanilla to most here but it always worked for me. So how to you get someone to be your slave?

twistedwillow -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 7:23:26 PM)
Yup, that works for me.. delicate ~ twisted.

RRafe -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 7:24:49 PM)
By giving them a safe place to be who they are-but on my terms.

SteelofUtah -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 7:30:22 PM)
I purchace them from Russia or from Africa and have them shipped here on the black market. Then I starve and have them beat daily until they think they will be murdered and then I let them escape only to be captured again and when they think everything is completely hopeless then I tell them: "If you are good and do as you are told, I'll make sure no one hurts you again" Usually after the mental conditioning they are so greatful they do everything without question just because they fear the beatings again. COME ON MAN! Seriously what kind of question is this? I mean honestly. Asking people to define a Plan they use to get women to do what they say is tacky man. Just be yourself and always be honest about what you want. I don't GET them to do anything man. As Always Steel

DarkDaddyZ -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 7:31:54 PM)
I think I'm going to pass on this thread...

chellekitty -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 7:33:17 PM)
besides, if the Masters posted The Plan on an open message board like this, the slaves would know what it was and form a Counter-Plan....

MissMagnolia -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 7:34:34 PM)
Agreed Steel. "Getting someone to be your slave" implies coersion or manipulation. It's not something I've ever had to do. The point is more about finding the right slave for me. So many slaves, so little time.

slavegirljoy -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 9:53:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterHXB So how to you get someone to be your slave? He made me an offer i couldn't refuse [:)] Actually, i advertised for a Master who wanted a 24/7, live-in slave to have a TPE relationship with and He was the One i chose from those who replied. He told me what His rules would be, what would be expected of me, what He would give to me, what He would and wouldn't do to and with me and He asked me if i would like to live that way and if i could live that way and i answered, "Yes, absolutely." He offered me His Ownership and a chance to live this way of life with Him, under His terms and conditions, and i accepted. slave joy Owned property of Master David

dawntreader -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 10:08:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RRafe By giving them a safe place to be who they are-but on my terms. Even though i don't label myself as slave, i would say this scenario would work for me from a submissive standpoint~

RRafe -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 10:37:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: dawntreader quote: ORIGINAL: RRafe By giving them a safe place to be who they are-but on my terms. Even though i don't label myself as slave, i would say this scenario would work for me from a submissive standpoint~ Smiles and waves Doing that is a mutual thing. I have to adjust my terms to make life work. They have to be based on reality-not fantasy. And when you add another person to your life-that reality changes.

MasterShibari -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 11:27:02 PM)
I’m sorry, but it feels disingenuous to try and summarize a long and intricate process in a sentence or two. I know I have little right to talk, but I disagree with the whole concept of the thread. It feels…. cheap. No offense meant to any who posted, and not even to the OP, just being honest. M. Shibari

RRafe -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 11:47:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterShibari I’m sorry, but it feels disingenuous to try and summarize a long and intricate process in a sentence or two. I know I have little right to talk, but I disagree with the whole concept of the thread. It feels…. cheap. No offense meant to any who posted, and not even to the OP, just being honest. M. Shibari I thought so too, when I was very new. But it's really very simple. You just act and think with honesty, and put cards on the table. The rest goes from there-it's not a shoot to the moon.

MasterShibari -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 11:51:24 PM)
Are you really trying to convince me that relationships, any relationship, is simple? Yes, I could say that for me the foundation is "total and complete honesty, with no lies to yourself or to your partner." And it makes a nice little quote, I could even make it my signature. But relationships arn't simple like that. Their foundations may be, but the relationship itself is not. M. Shibari

RRafe -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/6/2007 11:53:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterShibari Are you really trying to convince me that relationships, any relationship, is simple? Nope. They are as complicated as you choose to make them. I take mine a day at a time.

MasterShibari -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/7/2007 12:03:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RRafe quote: ORIGINAL: MasterShibari Are you really trying to convince me that relationships, any relationship, is simple? Nope. They are as complicated as you choose to make them. I take mine a day at a time. You are oversimplifying. Trying to take something complex and intricate, beautifully so, and make it into a cute little sound bite. A one liner of wisdom. I suppose it becomes a matter of opinion, and as we both know opinions are subjective, but I dislike the idea of taking something beautiful and complex and trying to compact it into something cute and easily memorized. M. Shibari

RRafe -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/7/2007 12:11:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterShibari quote: ORIGINAL: RRafe quote: ORIGINAL: MasterShibari Are you really trying to convince me that relationships, any relationship, is simple? Nope. They are as complicated as you choose to make them. I take mine a day at a time. You are oversimplifying. Trying to take something complex and intricate, beautifully so, and make it into a cute little sound bite. A one liner of wisdom. I suppose it becomes a matter of opinion, and as we both know opinions are subjective, but I dislike the idea of taking something beautiful and complex and trying to compact it into something cute and easily memorized. M. Shibari So romantic, grins........[:D]

twistedkytten -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/7/2007 12:13:00 AM)
FR- As a slave, for me... my Master inspires within me a great need each and every day.... it is a need He alone created, and only He has Mastered,

MasterShibari -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/7/2007 12:14:00 AM)
Guilty as charged, I'm a total sucker for romance. M. Shibari

RRafe -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/7/2007 12:16:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterShibari Guilty as charged, I'm a total sucker for romance. M. Shibari That's cool, I have lived with a few in my time. Wish we had chosen better. Looking at it through an infatuation was the bad idea, that made it NOT work very well. It's good that you see things through your rose colored glasses-just be aware that you have them on. They can be very deceptive-be wary.

MasterShibari -> RE: how do you get someone to be your slave? (11/7/2007 12:24:08 AM)
Rose colored glasses? -smiles- I said I was a romantic, not an idealist. If you would care to peruse my profile, you will see that I value honesty with myself above all else. I may be a romantic, but I work very hard to not let it get in the way of reality. I'm intrigued though, what is with the slights at my expense? They are quite subtle, so much so that it would be easy to feign innocence to their presence, but they are clearly there. M. Shibari

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