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RE: Typical (?) Domme/Doms. - 8/11/2005 10:01:48 AM

ChereeAmoor

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I think there is no such thing as typical - but on the other hand, a good argument CAN be made for stereotypes. They exist for a reason. We are so atypical that we have never even bothered to snuggle into the stereotypical D/s images. Actually, one of my nicer leather pieces isn't black with silver chain - it is a lovely turquoise. We had it custom made, because we liked the style, but black seemed too trite.

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RE: Typical (?) Domme/Doms. - 8/11/2005 1:38:08 PM

EvilTwin

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I really dont see myself as a "typical" anything.
I dont go out of my way to be different... because to me that is worse than accepting who you are naturally.
Like IronBear, I am 6'4" and in the 300 lb area... and something of a brooder... so I tend to stick out anyways. I brood when I have nothing to occupy my mind... also I am rather jovial and outgoing when in company of friends.
I have no set clothing style... other than jeans and T shirts during the day...
I dont get dressed to play... as what I do isnt play... its life.
It is a part of my life... my life isnt a part of it... so I guess I just seem to be a strong willed normal guy.

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RE: Typical (?) Domme/Doms. - 8/11/2005 7:33:19 PM

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Evil Twin said:

am 6'4" and in the 300 lb area

Pardon me while I take a moment. Mmm 6 feet 4.

At 5 foot nuffin' I find there's just SOMETHING about a tall and burly man, cause no matter the dynamic, they sure do get my mind to spinning. Just standing next to a very tall man in a crowd can either get me giddy, or make me want to say loudly.. BEHIND YOU. Even when wearing bright yellow tall ppl - and that's anything over 5' 6" - back up, ALL the time- right on my toes! An elbow in the titties isn't much fun either but at least it gives a lil special tingle.

I digress

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don’t get dressed to play... as what I do isn’t play... its life.

Me neither, but even though I don’t "dress for play", I do however try to dress my very best when out socializing. Rarely in "scene cloths" unless at a tradeshow fetish-style party or photo shoot - corset, cocktail dress or a festive moo-moo, just the same fussy Fem Dom who's manners and nature were forged by another time when going to the Doctor, was always in your Sunday Best.

So I hope you will pardon me a tiny rant for being disappointed with society’s slip into baggy shorts, obscene t-shirts and gents that don’t take off their ball caps, not even in restaurants. At our munches that are held at a wonderful dungeon it always seems to be the Ladies that take the time to detail out and look so pretty- while too many of the guys look ready to shoot some hoops.

My Father, now in his 70’s said to me when he saw my 1972 boyfriend du jour in a light blue leisure suit with the regulation multi-colored Banlon shirt barely buttoned and said, “Daughter, I thought fashion had gone crazy when men started wearing colored shirts and now look what’s coming up my walk.” I now know how he felt. Sigh. It has begun.

Yup, I’m a geezer.

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RE: Typical (?) Domme/Doms. - 8/11/2005 7:49:05 PM

EvilTwin

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When I go out, other than a run to the store... I dress nicer.
Slacks, nice black shoes... appx 1" sole and 1 1/2" heel, under and over shirts.
When I go to an event, I am not only representing myself... but my s also... as she represents me.
It actually took a few years for me to become comfortable with my size. It was the first thing people noticed. I assume it is something like that for women with larger breasts. You either stay self concious or embrace it.
I need a nice picture of me dressed for going out.
cbtFemDom, the shortest lady I have ever dated was 4'8" and 80 lbs. It was a strange site for others to see.
I dont have a real height preferance... it is VERY rare to meet a woman my size, the tallest I dated was 6'1"... or about eye level with me in heels. I like all women, they are all unique and special... and to be cherished.

Jim

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