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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:32:47 PM   
Petronius


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I think you are making a false assumption that a person who wrote that profile will ever get a person to be ok with what she wrote. Sure she will get messages from men hoping she is not true to her word and/or in cyber fantasy responding to the tone but finding out this person just wants their credit card number gets them exposed for what they are, a scammer.


That was my take also. Anybody can write anything at anytime; getting anybody to accept any of it is another matter.

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:32:49 PM   
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And, I will restate my opinion..... Many men will pay for anything... Most women won't.  Many men look for instant gratification.... Most women look for much much more. 


It is these typical silly negative generalization cause me seldom to meet a Female Dominant that I can respect.


That's ok, Knight.... I understand why you disregarded the disclaimer about it not applying to ALL men....
 
And, not to worry... You are not at the top of my list of people to respect either, so this way neither one of us will loose any sleep over it.  <sweet smile>

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:32:51 PM   
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It's not my thing but I just look at it and think "okayyyyy, whatever floats your boat!"

The sad thing to me, is that there are guys that will go for it.




Just is there is gals that will go for IT ...

and that IT being something that makes you shake your head.

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:34:08 PM   
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My twisted, self deprecating, sense of humour, finds alot to laugh about, in your lack of one!

Just because you are well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly........does not mean you are right!

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:34:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists


That is because you are looking at them from the Perspective of a Dominant hetro sexual male.

I suspect if a person was looking through the perspective of a Submissive hetro sexual male the view point would be somewhat different.


I think this is a really good point. Male het doms will certainly view from their own perspective as will male het subs. Myself, I see a photo like that and I'm going to see something which is more edible than chocolate and not really care if she's dom or sub because that's 'my' perspective.

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:35:55 PM   
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I will settle for that lifetime supply of GOOD dark chocolate, thank you very much.



mmmmm  Cote d'Or Black of Black.  I still have a lot.  He didn't eat them all while we were on vacation.  I am willing to share...  if he is willing  *eg*

They just smell so good!!

Knight's Kyra


Oh yeah! How was vacation? I hope a good time was had by all.


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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:38:02 PM   
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But you are ALL wrong.  An Alpha Male can get away with anything he wants. 
We just know how to carry ourselves and how to pull it off. 
It's not the kind of that can be taught or even told to another, It is inate.
Part of our being, and that's why we are the way we are...

AbbadonPrime


Until, of course, said alpha male, meets said judge that says "I don't give a rat's ass how alpha you are, your going to the big house buster!"

NO ONE, can get away with anything they want. Regardless of how important they think they are, in their happy little world.



Excuse me?
the big house for what? Convincing a female sub to support him?

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:38:24 PM   
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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

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After all, EVERY man should want to submit to someone so wonderful, eh?


On many occassions ... Dominants (Male or Female) often are projecting and and over-compensating for some sort of insecurity in their interactions with others.  Most of us are dealing with or come across situations of insecurties... the very strongest of those learn to not make their insecurity the issue for others to deal with.  Being insecure is not the black plague... it's how one deals with the insecurites they face that can denote it as negative or not.


Ok... you two boys can do your Female Dom bashing until your hearts are content.  I am sure there are no Male Doms out there who feel the least bit superior, or try to project it out onto everyone in their proximity. 
 
It was NOT a slam on men.  Twist it however you wish, and have your fun.  I won't lower myself to your petty level any further.... So happy I could have given you both something to puff up over. 
 
Now, I am done responding to this portion of the thread.  Have fun, boys.

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:38:36 PM   
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That's ok, Knight.... I understand why you disregarded the disclaimer about it not applying to ALL men....


OH REALLY???  please enlighten me of my own personal thoughts....  Are you a mind reader that you can make such a claim of knowledge?  Fact is you can only suspect or guess... but I hardly suspect that you can come close to the answer... 

quote:


And, not to worry... You are not at the top of my list of people to respect either, so this way neither one of us will loose any sleep over it.  <sweet smile>


mmmmmmm  making it personal ... mmmmmm maybe I touched a soft spot?

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:39:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: RRafe
There are a lot of places that I serve. Sexually, is not one of them.

But, many men do love to be dominated by a woman and to serve a woman sexually, even if it's only on an hourly basis.  Ask any escort service in Washington, DC (the home of many powerful men), what their clients want and the most common answers are a blow job and for the woman to take charge and be 'forceful' with them.  They don't have an issue with paying for it, either.  Hence, the credit card requirement.
 
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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:40:17 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I believe it read ANYTHING, not "I am uber dom and I can get a female sub to support me"

In my happy little world "anything" includes well, anything! And some of "anything" is illegal. Clear as mud?


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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:42:32 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

The one weakness a man will always have... is his lust.

I wouldn't be so certain of that.


I'm certain charlotte and Tigrita would consider that a strength...


 
But Sir, you won me over mentally before physically.  Both quite vigorously though.  You know I don't think highly of men who are ruled by their peinis, even though I do enjoy being ruled by their penis if it is attached to someone with a sexy, dominant brain. 
 
And yeah, I've seen so-called dom profiles that are similar.  I think it goes both ways and works for some.  If a sub wants to be dirt between someone's toes, then lucky them that there are these kinds of dominants out there.

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:42:50 PM   
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The one weakness a man will always have... is his lust.

I wouldn't be so certain of that.


Some of them can only hope it to be true.

Weak Dominance... preys on the weakness of the Submissive

Strong Dominance.. inspires submission by the admirable Character of the Dominant..

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:52:06 PM   
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On many occassions ... Dominants (Male or Female) often are projecting and and over-compensating for some sort of insecurity in their interactions with others.  Most of us are dealing with or come across situations of insecurties... the very strongest of those learn to not make their insecurity the issue for others to deal with.  Being insecure is not the black plague... it's how one deals with the insecurites they face that can denote it as negative or not.


Ok... you two boys can do your Female Dom bashing until your hearts are content.  I am sure there are no Male Doms out there who feel the least bit superior, or try to project it out onto everyone in their proximity. 


mmmmmmm well.. my comment was not a Bashing of Female Dom's... it was towards... Over Compensating, Projecting Insecure Dominants --- male or female --- guess you missed that part.... I bold it and enlarged it so you could see it better.


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It was NOT a slam on men.  Twist it however you wish, and have your fun.  I won't lower myself to your petty level any further.... So happy I could have given you both something to puff up over. 
 
Now, I am done responding to this portion of the thread.  Have fun, boys.


It was a slam...  no need to twist it.... but.. some individuals can't stand by their own words... so... enjoy the parachute down.

< Message edited by KnightofMists -- 11/7/2007 3:53:28 PM >

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 3:58:40 PM   
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But Sir, you won me over mentally before physically.  Both quite vigorously though.  You know I don't think highly of men who are ruled by their peinis, even though I do enjoy being ruled by their penis if it is attached to someone with a sexy, dominant brain. 


Bah, I don't mind the technicalities.....


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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 4:07:28 PM   
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Just a little of your time, conversation and sadisticness of course !!


mmmmmmmmmm well that depends on how you answer this question...


Do you think I have sweet eyes?


No, i think you have intense, could see right through me eyes.

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 4:09:18 PM   
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No, i think you have intense, could see right through me eyes.


mmmmmmmmmm DAMN....  no one seems to think I have Sweet Eyes.... I just don't get it.


Yeah... I been on this kick for about 3 weeks now...... It's a long story  lol

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 4:15:08 PM   
missturbation


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Although in my defence you're not smiling in your pic and maybe your eyes light up sweet when you smile

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 4:16:23 PM   
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I'm gutted i got it wrong
 
Although in my defence you're not smiling in your pic and maybe your eyes light up sweet when you smile


WHAT A SAVE!!!!!!!!!  honey... you have potential!!!!!!

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RE: Why Can't Guys Get Away With This? - 11/7/2007 4:17:27 PM   
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I'm gutted i got it wrong
 
Although in my defence you're not smiling in your pic and maybe your eyes light up sweet when you smile


LOL

Depends on why he is smiling...  most often it just makes him look even more devious.  However, there are times that he can get that sweet little boy look.  *g*

Knight's Kyra

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