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RE: One Master - 11/8/2007 6:52:13 PM   
Maya2001


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ORIGINAL: Faramir

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ORIGINAL: Maya2001
There  are approx 10 Doms to every 1 sub, which means you do not have to settle for the first to come around and expresses an  interest in you,  that means you can afford to be choosy in selecting a Dom that will suit you.  


Yea, but since 9 out of those 10 Doms are complete douchebags, the numbers game you describe is highly skewed the other way.  Any guy with his shit even remotely in one bag is like a kid in a candy store in this slice of life.


I will agree with you there on both counts  ..   anyway the point I was making was that she does not have to settle for the first person that takes notice of her and that she also  does not have give up her own personal  moral/ethics to be a slave


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RE: One Master - 11/8/2007 8:00:41 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Faramir

quote:

ORIGINAL: Maya2001
There  are approx 10 Doms to every 1 sub, which means you do not have to settle for the first to come around and expresses an  interest in you,  that means you can afford to be choosy in selecting a Dom that will suit you.  


Yea, but since 9 out of those 10 Doms are complete douchebags, the numbers game you describe is highly skewed the other way.  Any guy with his shit even remotely in one bag is like a kid in a candy store in this slice of life.
Ahh! but do not forget that douchebags are possible on both sides of the slash...so hence numbers remain the same..Tempting

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RE: One Master - 11/8/2007 8:13:33 PM   
MasterofScyn


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Status: offline 		If you are seeing anothe Dom w/out your orignal Master, or w/out his approval then I would have to say no, it shouldn't be allowed. I wouldn't see another Dom w/out my Master Present, I would not make arrangements w/out my Master's permission.
 
I don't see a problem with having multiple Masters, just as long as they know about eachother, made prior arrangements and all that yadda yadda cautious stuff.
 
But to just go out and meet with another Dom and your Master doesn't know about it, that leads to trouble. All you got to do is ask your Master about things like this, see how he or /she feels about you seeing other Doms.

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RE: One Master - 11/8/2007 8:40:13 PM   
defiantbadgirl


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ORIGINAL: subreefer

When a DOM takes ownership of a slave does it mean that the slave should not spend time with any other DOM?  Can a sub be a slave to more than one DOM?


I would have to say that depends on whether or not the Dom/Domme who owns the slave has other partners. If I was collared to a Dom that played with others, I would play with others as well. Life is a two way street.

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RE: One Master - 11/8/2007 8:59:02 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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ORIGINAL: MasterofScyn
I wouldn't see another Dom w/out my Master Present, I would not make arrangements w/out my Master's permission. 

The question of course becomes, what do you mean by "seeing"?  You can see doms at parties, at socials, at grocery stores.  What about switches? 

Most practical relationships set up general and standard guidelines such as "no private dates without asking first" while some go all the way to say "you need permission from me to talk to anyone else first."

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RE: One Master - 11/8/2007 9:24:24 PM   
MasterofScyn


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Status: offline 		Meant just that, seeing other Doms on a personal .. one on one.. deal. Parties and gatherings I can talk to who I wish, if it gets a little to personal and they want to go further, that's when Master comes in. Parties and gatherings are one thing, but seeing someone on a personal level w/out your Master's consent is another thing.

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RE: One Master - 11/8/2007 11:00:46 PM   
susie


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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

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ORIGINAL: subreefer

When a DOM takes ownership of a slave does it mean that the slave should not spend time with any other DOM?  Can a sub be a slave to more than one DOM?


I would have to say that depends on whether or not the Dom/Domme who owns the slave has other partners. If I was collared to a Dom that played with others, I would play with others as well. Life is a two way street.


This may work for you in a relationship but for most that identify as slaves it is not their choice if they play with others or not. Of course it depends on what is decided at the start of the relationship but to most collared or owned slaves actually do what their Owner/Master tells them and not as they do. If you expect a level playing field don't become a slave.

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RE: One Master - 11/9/2007 8:50:44 AM   
ctrlaltdelete


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There is no absolute rule or truth about whether a sub/slave can see other Doms/Masters (and what exactly is defined by "seeing"? I see dead people!), whether a slave or sub can be used by, belong to, or serve multiple Doms or Masters. It is all dependent on the specific dynamic of any given relationship.

What was agreed to and upon what premise was the relationship born and was the slave/sub collared? Once you go back to the original spirit under which a slave became owned - then you have the answer to what is acceptable and what is not!

Everything else just becomes a question of personal preference and what expectations you had and communicated going in.

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RE: One Master - 11/9/2007 10:30:17 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		I know a few slaves who have an insatiable sexual appetite. They have several Masters.

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RE: One Master - 11/9/2007 10:35:59 AM   
ctrlaltdelete


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Status: offline 		Power to everyone involved - especially the sexual bottomless pits.

But in the dynamic of having/several Masters, I am sure that any and all of them have entered into the 1-slave-many-Masters relationship with mutual consent and with eyes wide open going in.

And to all of them - happy spelunking!

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RE: One Master - 11/9/2007 10:44:16 AM   
DiurnalVampire


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ORIGINAL: subreefer

When a DOM takes ownership of a slave does it mean that the slave should not spend time with any other DOM?  Can a sub be a slave to more than one DOM?


That depends on how the Dom in question feels about the slave they have, and how that time is being spent. Angel and Fox are alowed to tak to other Dommes if they want, as long as they inform me, and as long as it is only conversation. They cannot serve someone else, they are mine and mine alone.
I know it is possible to be sub to mroe than one Dom, assuming all the Doms in question know there are tohers involved and are respectful of it. The problem becomes when there are longterm commands given that interfere with the control the others might have or want at some point. Personally, I dont like the idea of having someone elses rules around my pets, so I do not share them but I have known other D/s groups in which it has worked well.

DV


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RE: One Master - 11/15/2007 4:49:27 PM   
ABMaster


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Status: offline 		No one can say if it's right or wrong except for the people in that specific relationship.

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RE: One Master - 11/15/2007 5:51:36 PM   
CelticPrince


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Status: offline 		Now that is a retorical question!

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