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DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 4:54:04 AM   
joanus


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Status: offline 		I was just wondering if when Dommes are sitting arond the local coffee shop, nail salon, etc do they brag about their subs?
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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 8:33:52 AM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		I don't  know any other dommes to go to coffee shops with but I do brag to my vanilla friends about how perfect my boyfriend is  After years of listening to them all go on about their partners while I didnt have one its payback time and I love telling people how happy I am I just dont brag about him being my sub 

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 8:49:55 AM   
LadyLynx


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Status: offline 		lol.  If I were hanging out with other lifestyle friends, and if I felt like bragging, I would.  However overall, I am not a bragger.  seems to me, that braggerts tend to get bit in the ass alot. *grins*

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 8:52:15 AM   
lateralist1


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Status: offline 		The easy answer is probably most of us do at sometime. We are all human.
And yes I bragged to my colleagues at work it ended up with me getting the sack.
So I learned to keep my private life private.
However it has allienated me from vanilla people especially women.
When they talk about their men and how difficult they are I find it really hard to keep my mouth shut.
I don't know any other Dommes to talk to.
That's why this site is so important to me.
It's not just a place to get to know prospective partners.
It's the only place that I can be totally myself.

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 9:03:07 AM   
MsIncontrol


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Status: offline 		Yes.  Of course.  To my vanilla girlfriends I say how lucky I am that my husband is so devoted..does this or that for me...etc.

To my other dominant friends we get together every three weeks for a Dominants Round Table discussion at a local restaurant or someone's home and it is a time for us to talk about our submissives, get/give advice etc.  It is a wonderful outlet and has really helped me grow as a Dominant...it is very much like this forum but in real life and we usually have on main topic per meeting.

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 9:37:47 AM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		Well I am sure I wont get bit in the ass lol im not on about him all the time but when the topic of men comes up ill happily say im happy with mine and he is really nice which to me is bragging to them 

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 10:32:10 AM   
KindLadyGrey


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Status: offline 		Any sub of mine is doomed. I have a Livejournal and I know how to use it! All my friends will know how adorable/hot you are, and there ain't nothin' you can do about it :)

(And I really need to get myself a hot icon like canupleaseme has. That's fantastic, chica!)

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 11:17:04 AM   
LadyPact


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Status: offline 		It depends on who I'm with and what the conversation is on.  I certainly don't hide it when I'm pleased with him.  When he does things well or something he's said has made Me smile, I'll say he's made Me happy.  In some circles, I might mention how well he did the last time W/we played.  (Not appropriate for everyone, but you did ask about when talking with other people in the lifestyle.) 
 
So, I guess you could say that I brag about him sometimes.  I do tend to be rather proud of him.  Afterall, there are reasons he is My sub.

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 11:35:50 AM   
canupleaseme


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Status: offline 		Thanks 

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 12:24:52 PM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Yes I do, to my kinky friends I tell them he is a wonderful sub who makes me happy. To the vanilla world he is my wonderful boyfriend who does a lot for me.

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 12:28:11 PM   
thetammyjo


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Status: offline 		Can't you tell from on here that I definitely brag about Fox?

I consider Collarme in many ways to be a substitute for a local community to me so I act much here as I would at munch or workshop or other event.

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 5:16:58 PM   
Action


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Status: offline 		I am a bragger, its a bad habit I feed with the constant enjoyment of my new chastity slut who's wow'd me several times already. *is giddy* Already bragged about him to my husband's sister as she's very amazing in her acceptance of my lifestyle being quiet a bold latex loving english woman herself.

Ahh how I adore chattering about my loyal and lovely boy.


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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 5:17:17 PM   
MasterFireMaam


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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 6:16:22 PM   
hammerthrowing


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Status: offline 		Im thinking yes.

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/8/2007 6:19:14 PM   
DianeB269


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Status: offline 		I love to brag in front of my vanilla friends about BDSM...


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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/9/2007 2:29:48 AM   
MsCfromMelbourne


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Status: offline 		My female friends in real life are all other Dommes or kink friendly now.  I came out years ago and women who didn't like it drifted away

Yes, we all talk very highly about our own subs.  Who wants to admit to having a dud? (until after he's gone!)

And we bitch like crazy about how boring/oversexed/fake other people's subs are!!!! 

Such fun........




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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/9/2007 2:40:41 AM   
Dragynsfury


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Status: offline 		LOL.  I'm with DianeB269.  My vanilla friends sometimes just sit there with thier jaw open when  I tell them bout a night I had with one of my subs.  They always ask me...Where did you meet him? or Where can I find one of them?

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/9/2007 4:19:49 AM   
LaMistressa


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Status: offline 		At the weekly munch/happy hour that I regularly attend, I do gab with my fellow Dommes (and subby girls, for that matter.) Sometimes it's "did you see the new sissy maid I'm considering? Isn't she adorable?" and sometimes it's "OMG there's a handbag sale at Loehman's this weekend -- and latex is 20% off at Night Dreams!"

We talk a lot, and within those conversations, some bragging does happen.

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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/9/2007 7:56:24 AM   
MissSCD


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In this area, there is no way can you brag about the lifestyle.   They would throw you under the  jail just because they do not understand it.

The way I brag is I refer to my slave as my fiance.

I notice people making remarks about lifestyle things, and I really get interested in it, but that is far as it goes.

Never reveal your lifestyle to work or your friends unless the friends are in the life themselves.


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RE: DOo Dommes Brag? - 11/9/2007 1:06:11 PM   
PrettyOHDomme


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ORIGINAL: KindLadyGrey
(And I really need to get myself a hot icon like canupleaseme has. That's fantastic, chica!)


I agree! I drool a little bit everytime I see it.

To the OP:

Yes. Absolutely. All the time.

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