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Action -> Married Doms (11/8/2007 6:12:47 AM)

Dear Everyone,

I don't come over here to the Master's thread alot, but I've always enjoyed reading up alot on this side of things. So I finaly found a thread to start over here one I can honestly have a curiousty about.

How many of you are married to Doms and how many of you are married to subs.

It seems an intrestingly plane enough question, but one that raises questions in itself, would you seek out specificly a submissive to marry, or do some realize the even rarer gift of submission or even equality that a Dom/Dom relationship can offer.

Feel free to discuss, tell about your own wives sub or dom. All I know is I appreciate the equality in our home me and my own husband share, I identify as a submissive to him becuase of my devotion to him being my rock, but he notes as well I am his constant companion in everything even seeing after our slaves and making sure he's a happy man.

-Lil Miss Action



IrishMist -> RE: Married Doms (11/8/2007 6:22:48 AM)

quote:

gift of submission

eek.... bad words... bad words....[8D]

Sorry, I could not resist .

That question could be applied to anyone; Dominant or submissive.

personally, marriage to me is a waste of time... but that is just my opinion



KatyLied -> RE: Married Doms (11/8/2007 7:07:51 AM)

Marriage?  Been there; done that.  There is nothing that marriage can offer that I want or need at this point.  As far as the rare gift of submission...nah.  That's not me either.  



RCdc -> RE: Married Doms (11/8/2007 7:15:57 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: IrishMist

quote:

gift of submission

eek.... bad words... bad words....[8D]

Sorry, I could not resist .



Ewwwwwww... ewwwww.... hard limit!  Hard Limit!
So THATS what safewords are really for?
Where is Chia?  - TAMPONS!!!![:D]
 
the.dark.



Leonardo -> RE: Married Doms (11/8/2007 9:29:41 AM)

me.

I am married, proclaim it in my profile. I am very happily, blissfully married. And I am very Dom, not to be confused as an equivocal synonym for Sadist nor kinkster top.

And bride is my sub. She is blissfully happy, as well.

And we have been together for 15 years, and married 13 yrs.

And I still very much so believe in a philosophy of a wedding being the ultimate in collaring ceremonies, and a marriage being the ultimate in D/s, so long as the parties realize the sanctity of two people becoming one, forever.

But then, that's just us.



proudsub -> RE: Married Doms (11/8/2007 10:36:50 AM)

I'll answer for Hubby since He doesn't read the forums.  We've been married 39 years.  It started vanilla with me being the "good wife" 50's style.  About 8 years ago i learned about bdsm and realized i was submissive.  I went outside my marriage to experience the kink side of it.  Hubby found out and forgave me and wanted to learn to be my Dom.  It's working out great now.[:)]



wisteriaV -> RE: Married Doms (11/8/2007 11:00:25 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Leonardo

me.

I am married, proclaim it in my profile. I am very happily, blissfully married. And I am very Dom, not to be confused as an equivocal synonym for Sadist nor kinkster top.

And bride is my sub. She is blissfully happy, as well.

And we have been together for 15 years, and married 13 yrs.

And I still very much so believe in a philosophy of a wedding being the ultimate in collaring ceremonies, and a marriage being the ultimate in D/s, so long as the parties realize the sanctity of two people becoming one, forever.

But then, that's just us.

awww Leo Sir, so good to hear ya talk about her. Smiles nice to see you again too[:D]



BitaTruble -> RE: Married Doms (11/8/2007 12:24:41 PM)

Hi Action,

I've been living with my Master for 12 years. After two years of r/t living together, he placed his collar on me. After nine years of r/t living together, he placed his name on me in the form of marriage. It took a whole lot longer to earn his name than his collar. I would not be married to a man who's collar I would not wear. I would wear the collar of a man who I would not marry. So, that is what it is. :)

Celeste



Guilty1974 -> RE: Married Doms (11/8/2007 2:05:19 PM)

Not married, but together for over five years and living together for three or so.



masterfixer -> RE: Married Doms (11/9/2007 12:00:57 AM)

the queen and i are married 6 years married 9 years together and we trade dom sub moments, days, minutes. most the time we walk together as doms with no give to each other and those days the subs, bottom bitches, slaves, (whatever you call them) shiver with fear.



Dnomyar -> RE: Married Doms (11/9/2007 10:34:00 AM)

Come on women Christmas is near. Give me a gift.



smilezz -> RE: Married Doms (11/9/2007 12:07:14 PM)

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Merry Christmas!


*grinz*


~smilezz~



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