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RE: What's It about for you? - 11/9/2007 11:45:47 PM   
MissMagnolia


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Am I the only one who isn't bothered that much about the sex???

For me, having a slave simply means someone is following my intructions, doing things so I don't have to do them, pampering me because I deserve it (in my mind anyway) and going away when I can't be bothered with them, without having to make up excuses.

It really is mostly a service and physical/mental control thing for me.

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RE: What's It about for you? - 11/9/2007 11:48:15 PM   
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Nice

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RE: What's It about for you? - 11/10/2007 2:45:03 AM   
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Oh gosh, where to start?  Having someone who can hold me up when I hate myself and the world around me, sitting at Master's feet on cold rainy days, baking cookies to surprise Him when He comes home, hearing the words "good girl," and of course, SNUGGLES!!

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RE: What's It about for you? - 11/10/2007 6:43:32 AM   
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if i was in it for the sex, i wouldn't have the nuturing, loving and caring Daddy that i didn't have while growing up and/or the relationship with my SO that was sorely missed during my first marriage.  the sex part of BDSM is merely dessert ...it's wonderful to have yet it's not the only thing i want from a D/s relationship.

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RE: What's It about for you? - 11/10/2007 7:05:16 AM   
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um well um like there ya have it

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RE: What's It about for you? - 11/10/2007 7:09:19 AM   
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Trust
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Growth
Betterment
Family
Empowerment
Acceptance of self and others

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