Does first being a sub make you a better Dom/Domme?And how many were subs before you were a Dom/Domm

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UrMan -> Does first being a sub make you a better Dom/Domme?And how many were subs before you were a Dom/Domm (7/2/2004 10:27:51 PM)
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Estring -> RE: Does first being a sub make you a better Dom/Domme?And how many were subs before you were a Dom/Domm (7/3/2004 1:20:32 AM)
Since when is compassion considered submissive? I consider myself to be compassionate but not at all submissive. Maybe you are just becoming a nicer person as you get older. A bit confused still, but nicer.

UrMan -> RE: Does first being a sub make you a better Dom/Domme?And how many were subs before you were a Dom/Domm (7/7/2004 5:45:04 PM)
Since when is it considered not ?

Kiaban -> RE: Does first being a sub make you a better Dom/Domme?And how many were subs before you were a Dom/Domm (7/12/2004 2:26:55 PM)
I would say definately not. The bdsm/submissive experience is different for everyone . an example some like way play or blades or other stuff, and when you factor into that the enjoyment of different kinks... some perhaps enjoy a "thudding" flogger while others a more "stinging". so the first part of the argument here is just because something happens to you first and you "feel" a certain way about it doesn't mean its going to effect another person in the same way you have to be intune with them. I think this is particularly true if we are talking about dom and sub vrs top and bottom. I for one am going to hate having my hair pulled [well no hair now but you know what I mean] and lots of this I am looking at from a Dominant perspective are not going to effect me they way they will a sub. Just my 2 cents Kiaban

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