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Learning the fun way - 11/10/2007 1:34:05 AM

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Last night I decided to play a game with my boy. I wasnt in the mood for a full on session but wanted to do something so decided it would be fun to keep tying his hands together behind his back to the chair and seeing how long it took him to escape. I am absolutely shite at rope work lol, its something I am trying to learn and inadvertantly through having fun I leanrt loads of new ways to tie him that I wouldnt have thought of trying if we hadnt been messing around. I made it more fun by putting pegs on his penis lol which he couldnt remove till his hands were free. It coverred every bondagy aspect I wanted to without having to don my boots etc and we had such a laugh

My aim is to have him ask to be undone but I'm not that good yet.

What other fun games have people played that they have found they learnt new things in ?

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RE: Learning the fun way - 11/10/2007 7:22:22 AM

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I do something similar to you with the rope...but now I am too good and he can rarely get out. So now, I tie him up nice and tight and tell him if he gets free in XXX amount of time he can have the pleasure of sex with me or some other fun reward...plus he loves to be in bondage...so it has to be good for him to want to get out. It is fun to watch him struggle...watch the clock....beg for advice on how to get out etc.

I also just like him to sit in a position naked on an average night...sometimes like an object (coffee table, ottoman etc.) while I watch television. Other times I put him in a position...and tell him to stay in that position for a period of time.

On most days I do not have him ask permission before he does every little thing...it gets annoying to me. BUT on some days when I want him to feel more controlled...he isn't allowed to do anything without permission. (May I re-adjust my position, may I get a drink of water, may I pet the dog, may I answer the telephone etc.).

These are all little day to day things we do that do not require a ton of equipment, toys or time...but reinforce our relationship.

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RE: Learning the fun way - 11/10/2007 8:15:59 AM

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ORIGINAL: canupleaseme

Last night I decided to play a game with my boy. I wasnt in the mood for a full on session but wanted to do something so decided it would be fun to keep tying his hands together behind his back to the chair and seeing how long it took him to escape. I am absolutely shite at rope work lol, its something I am trying to learn and inadvertantly through having fun I leanrt loads of new ways to tie him that I wouldnt have thought of trying if we hadnt been messing around. I made it more fun by putting pegs on his penis lol which he couldnt remove till his hands were free. It coverred every bondagy aspect I wanted to without having to don my boots etc and we had such a laugh My aim is to have him ask to be undone but I'm not that good yet.

What other fun games have people played that they have found they learnt new things in ?

As an FYI, if he doesn't get loose within 20 minutes, for safety reasons, it's recommended that clothespins be removed to prevent harm from loss of blood flow to any area they've been applied to. The reason being that nerve damage can occur from extended periods of blood not flowing to an area of the body. I doubt you'd want to cause that kind of often permanent injury to your sub, particularly to his penis.

Enjoy your play, but please play safe.

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RE: Learning the fun way - 11/10/2007 8:53:41 AM

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MsIncontrol Thanks for your reply. Objectivication is something I always intend to do more of, trouble is when I see him after a while in whatever position with is collar on I just want to play with him and dont leave him alone haha. I think we will play again tonight I'm determined to get better

I went to bed a happy mistress last night, its definatly the relaxed normal everyday stuff that reinforces our relationship.

Pixel Thank you for your reply. My boy says thank you too

I am so in love with my cock ( ive claimed it and I have such a crazy obsession with it lol) and I am always checking and keeping an eye on the time but very good point, Its important to make sure nothing gets damaged.

God its only 5 pm here and I now cant wait till this evening when I can practise again !!

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RE: Learning the fun way - 11/10/2007 9:21:42 AM

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It is only noon here and I can't wait until tonight. I decided today is going to be one of those ask me permission for everything days! Have fun tonight.

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RE: Learning the fun way - 11/10/2007 10:36:39 AM

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Thanks I will

You too !!

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RE: Learning the fun way - 11/10/2007 6:19:38 PM

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Here's one that sounds simple but scares the daylights out of my head girl (the only one I've dared try it out on).

"I'll be home at X o'clock. When I get there you've got 45 seconds to make me laugh out loud."

Believe me; you will learn things. ;-)

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RE: Learning the fun way - 11/10/2007 6:23:01 PM

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RE: Learning the fun way - 11/10/2007 10:11:59 PM

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The shoe game (that you can do in your sweats):

The sub is blindfolded, then they sit in the middle of the floor. You then dump a HUGE pile of shoe (or really, anything that comes in pairs) that they have to match. The game can be to either just match them or match them in a given amount of time. Of course, you can mess with them by continually throwing matched pairs back into the pile.

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RE: Learning the fun way - 11/11/2007 1:42:20 AM

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The "What's This" Game (an oldie but a goodie for sensory play)

Tie boy down on his back to something and blindfold him

Totter off to the kitchen, laundry or even garage (but not out of watching/hearing distance - he's tied up) and fish around collecting whatever takes your fancy

Sashay back to room with a variety of ordinary household items

Touch him with each item and he has to guess what it is (still blindfolded....duh!)

Fluffing with a feather duster? Easy. Poke and stroke with a fork? Easy. Tap on the dick with a cold spoon - not so easy....and so on

For every one he guesses correctly, give a suitable reward (eg he gets to kiss Mistress' very cute arse....or whatever rewards you use at your house).

For every one he gets wrong, suitable "punishment" is administered ( a light surprise slap is enough - that game can be pretty hard for boys. Most don't seem to have really good sensory perception through touch)

Try not to make them too hard......maybe give him 3 tries if he's really dense or give clues. You don't want him feeling demoralised because he couldn't guess anything right, but you dont want him too smug about guessing them all

I heard of an eager young submissive who played the Whats This Game and it went like this........"fork.....knife......cold left over spaghetti....blah....Ping pong paddle.....Ice cube....Honey...... ARRRHHH ARRRHH ARRHHH....live RATS fighting on my stomach!!!!!"

What's This can be truly evil if you try

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RE: Learning the fun way - 11/11/2007 2:24:31 AM

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Thank you for all your replies

MsC Its funny you suggested that I played the exact game on him two nights ago only he was hooded and wasnt guessing what I used. I had him in a hood which he couldnt hear or see through and started with my fluffy slippers and finished with my pin wheel and hot wax. It was great he never knew what was coming. After he had fun guessing what I had used

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