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How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 7:10:45 AM   
winterlight


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i am just curious...
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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 7:21:33 AM   
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Why, whenever I want it of course.
 
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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 7:22:13 AM   
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Why, whenever I want it of course.
 
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Ditto.. enough said

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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 7:43:55 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Rover

Why, whenever I want it of course.
 
John


and how often do you want it....typically?

just curious....


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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 8:11:56 AM   
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We generally expect it more than 4 times a week.

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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 8:28:44 AM   
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My Mistress expects me to service her sexually usually twice a day.

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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 8:33:18 AM   
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At least morning and night. More when we have the time.

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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 8:34:12 AM   
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On demand, usually. I would generally hope that she'd be into that, with a wicked smile as an immediate response to that demand. ;)

Realistically? I've been known to have sex six times a day at most, once a week at least, but I've abstained for a month or two as well. <sigh>

At the risk of sounding like a dork, I've often wondered how I'd respond if sex was available for me 7/24 without restriction. Would I get jaded? Would I get progressively extreme? Would it stimulate my creativity and drive, or would my ambition fade away?

Okay, I'm rambling. I need some coffee. :)



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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 9:17:43 AM   
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Don't you really mean the opposite, "How often can I expect sex from my Dom?"  That depends on many things.

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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 9:36:27 AM   
lighthearted


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ORIGINAL: Rover

Why, whenever I want it of course.
 
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that's pretty much the way it works for us...(not when Rover wants it, you get what I mean...)

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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 9:38:14 AM   
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Well when I'm NOT on medical chastity for pregnancy enforced by a sadistic, cruel doctor that I am positive just wants to torture me ruthlessly while my hormones are raging (LOL - can you tell I'm starting to feel it? LOL)  I usually expect sex on demand, when I want it.  Which is pretty frequently - I'm a Raging Slut and proud of it. 
 
I think though that it throws alot of submissives off.  Many that I've come in contact with seem to think that women dislike sex or try to avoid it.  Personally - while I've seen this regretably happen frequently in the vanilla world - I've seldom met a female of any role in the lifestyle that abhored sex. 
 
Then again - chastity can be a powerful tool of control over a slave and sometimes regardless of how much I want it - I do enjoy the torture more

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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 9:46:52 AM   
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In the beginning we were frequently at it four times a day. But I will say we never got anything accomplished except lots of naps afterwards. These days, depends on sleep, stress, allergies, etc. Once every two days seems to be more the average now. We're having less fun but getting more stuff done.

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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 9:51:10 AM   
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Does sex include blow job ?

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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 10:27:41 AM   
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I have never had a say in when I'm used for sex, or any form of sexual stimulation for Master...i have never allowed myself into a D/S relationship that wasn't 24/7 so i don't have much experience with the being a slave sometimes and not being a slave other times...the whole concept just kind of doesn't make sense to me lol and actually seems like it would cause quite a bit of difficulty.

That being said, with Master working so much on his website and such, he doesn't use me quite as often, but I'm used as a suck pump for at least an hour or 2 a day, and sometimes other sexual deviations :P

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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/10/2007 10:29:44 AM   
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Whenever I want it.  What's this doing down here?  it was up in General or Mistress?

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RE: How often do you expect sex from your sub/slave? - 11/11/2007 3:18:32 PM   
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My first inital reaction was at least eight hours, but that would only be for weekends of course. With work and classes added into it then at least three hours in the evening, and one in the morning. I can't help it he's that alluring to me, I'm just lucky I guess.

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