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MsBearlee -> RE: Understanding the Pro domme (11/24/2007 10:14:55 AM)
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mark, I notice you didn’t comment on the reference to your wife or SO, so I will give my two cent’s worth.
Early on, I played with a delightful and experienced submissive man I’d known for awhile. He is married. We had a very good time, and as is out of character for me, I let him sexually pleasure me. I enjoyed that, too! <smiles> But, I felt badly for my behavior. He is a married man whose wife has not given him permission to play with others. I believe adultery is a two-way street and that both ‘players’ are culpable.
At first I didn’t want to give my friend reasons for not wanting to play anymore because I didn’t want to come off as judgmental. Finally, I copped to the reason…giving my own guilt and lack of interest in continuing an adulterous affair. Perhaps your friend has found her honor, but doesn’t know how to explain it, yet. This is just one possible explanation; others here have offered other good ones as well.
Upon continued reading, it seems you are not committed to another; so obviously that is not it, either.
Personally, I find it disrespectful when people play with other’s feelings. I have observed some people dump good friends, when a new and particularly possessive friend comes along. Oddly, when the newness wears off (or the possessiveness wears thin), they attempt to pick up other friendships where they left off. Not the kind of people with whom I like to establish friendship; perhaps you will have to decide for yourself, if your Mistress is such a person.
MsB
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