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what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/7/2005 7:45:41 AM   
qt


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Status: offline 		WHAT is this girl going to do with herself??? This must be normal.. suddenly getting the wake up call.. BOOM.. I want to be collared.. WTF.. how in the hell does that suddenly happen. OOhh.. I read a book called.. The Story of O.. but I couldn't stop! Anything I can find related to sub/dom (even goreanism) has my gut filled with butterflies.. it's so exciting. A few things go a bit too far however.. like anal.. that will never turn me on. But anyways.. I'm basically posting this as a plea.. well I understand that once enlightened it's a personal conquest of what you personally desire.. but then that condradicts the whole submissive qualities, you BE what THEY desire.. you DO what they desire. I WANT TO BE TOLD DAMNIT! For once.. FOR REAL! I have been taking care of myself and being the dominant one long enough. Every man I have been with has been weak. And this last one.. WOW!! I will never date a man that has been married before (divorced) and "whipped" (not literally) so bad he can't even make a decision on which restaurant to go to. He told me too.. ALL the time.. everytime a man desired me. Which annoyed me immensely.. I'm too modest to care about that shit. So I'm worried.. who would want someone as outspoken as me to dominate? I need training terribly.. but I don't want to waste my time with random dom's who are just into it for the kink. I feel that it should be something that comes genuinely from your heart and soul.. entire being. I'm destined to be alone.. because I want to be dominated, yet I ask for too much. Eventually I will have to experience this, but oh how I will be punished. Ignorance is Bliss.. WHY GOD DID YOU HAVE TO MAKE ME INTELLIGENT?!? haha.. oh and HI.. hows it going? I'm new! =oD

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RE: what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/7/2005 12:31:31 PM   
Kinkypupper


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Status: offline 		I think you need a lil less coffee in the morning and a BIG hug.

Also you need to quit getting involved with "wannabes"
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RE: what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/7/2005 3:23:58 PM   
Gauge


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WHAT is this girl going to do with herself??? This must be normal.. suddenly getting the wake up call.. BOOM.. I want to be collared.. WTF.. how in the hell does that suddenly happen.


If you want it to suddenly happen, I am sure that there are many HNG's out there that would be happy to comply. However if you are willing to be patient and search out someone that captivates your heart you will find your being collared more than rewarding. As the old saying goes: Go slow, go far.

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RE: what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/8/2005 6:14:35 AM   
MasterRobert1


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Status: offline 		You can want too much, too fast. Perhaps it's not happening yet because you're not ready. And, something to remember: being collared isn't something that's going to happen quickly even if you do meet a Dom (and if he does try to collar you quickly, take a step back and think about it). It's better to know and be rigth than to move quickly and regret. Take your time. BDSM isn't going to disappear and leave you stranded. The best thing you can do is chill. Seriously. Think about as chasing soap in the bath tub. The harder you grab at it, the further away it shoots; sit back and relax and it will float right into your hand.

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RE: what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/8/2005 8:24:46 AM   
qt


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Status: offline 		This is definately a venture worth seeking out slowly.. i do realize that.. and ty so much for your imput.

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RE: what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/8/2005 4:12:46 PM   
MstrHellsFury


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Status: offline 		after reading your post I was going to despense the wisdom of the ages...then I see your profile and it says you're under consideration to someone and won't reply without his permission....sitting here scratching my head...

Fury

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RE: what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/8/2005 4:54:47 PM   
MadameDahlia


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the CollarMe Forums. I hope you find all that you seek.

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RE: what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/8/2005 7:31:21 PM   
BalletBob


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Status: offline 		WoW GT! Welcome to the group, and I heard the expression, be careful what you ask for, you might get it. Well I hope you do, and I hope it is everything you expect it to be. I had some fun for a time with MADAM too, but all good things must come to an end. Boy, I am really loaded with cliches (or how ever you speel it), or is it Shit? I don't have any Depends on, so I guess it's not that...but then again, whre is that Smell coming from? I whole hardily agree with Kinkypupper...you are drinking way too much coffee girl. Keep that up and you'll wind up like me.....Short, Balding and always wanting to get Tied and Gagged. I read a lot of good advice on this group, and most of it mentioned, if your looking (like me), the best place to go to is a Munch. That way you can see the Doms in person, and scope them out better, and let them know you better too. You don't want to run into a relationship like you had just got out of.

Take Care, BalletBob

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RE: what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/9/2005 11:15:54 AM   
la90066


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Status: offline 		I think you've gotten some GREAT advice here -- so I'll just mirror what everyone else has said.

Take your time... With the RIGHT person it can be wonderful... With the WRONG person it can be DEADLY!!!

Choose wisely.


**Note: Just glanced at her profile... She's already "under consideration" after just 2 days of joining? Hope it works out for her?!!


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RE: what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/9/2005 11:48:13 AM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		this really don't belong in the introduce yourself forum. Maybe one of the other topic forums perhaps.

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RE: what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/9/2005 12:04:30 PM   
qt


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Status: offline 		haha.. well.. in a way it IS an introduction to me.. and how nutty i am? but that's just part of my charm, and obviously my intial reaction to everything.. what i have been thinking for sooo long and finally decided to voice it! i noticed that perhaps this could have been put into another section of this forum as i was writing it.. but who cares? but anyways.. excuse me for my arrogance and ignorance on the proper method of using the message boards.. i am new to collarme.. and to this form of lifestyle.. also don't be so surprised that i am already under consideration when i have been considering this choice of lifestyle for quite some time now. peace.

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RE: what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/15/2005 12:12:44 AM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		Are you a pistachio nut or an almond nut when you say nutty* grins*

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RE: what to do.. what to do.. WHO to doo.. what to doo - 8/16/2005 4:39:32 AM   
qt


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Status: offline 		LOL.. why not both! They're both yummayy.. mm.

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