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chellekitty -> why not the other way? (11/11/2007 6:43:02 PM)
so i was at a gay bar last night, that happens to be the home bar of the local gay leatherman's club...(woohoo i found it)...and i was flirting with this Top all night long...he started it... but it was totally fruiteless...even though he was teasing the shit out of me, he was totally gay...but i tried the line "if you close your eyes, a mouth is a mouth"...it didn't work.... and i asked the bar tender and he said "it only works on straight boys" so...here's my question: why not the other way? lol chelle...

petdave -> RE: why not the other way? (11/11/2007 9:10:46 PM)
Because the whole world's a goddamn conspiracy. (that's rule #4, by the way) ONE double-standard in all of human sexuality that favors men, and it only applies to gay men. Bah!

MrSpectacular -> RE: why not the other way? (11/11/2007 10:14:51 PM)
If you can get a gay man to suck pussy good luck!

pahunkboy -> RE: why not the other way? (11/12/2007 8:06:23 AM)
Interesting thread. I cant figure it all out. [either]

LaTigresse -> RE: why not the other way? (11/12/2007 8:08:13 AM)
I don't know. I used to know a girl that could get her gay male room mate to do her in the ass. But he would never go near the girly bits, said they scared him.

SoulPiercer -> RE: why not the other way? (11/12/2007 9:05:48 AM)
Interesting question chelle. The easy answer is that this particular person has some principles and is willing to take one (or not take one) for the team. Whether I was gay or not .. you got a right purty mouth .. not sure I could pass on such an offer. There are a great many "straight" men who subscribe to the "a mouth is a mouth" and "an ass is an ass" theory, yet swear they are still "straight". I actually know someone who said he has anal sex with other men (he's a pitcher, not a catcher) .. but he does not use condoms because THAT would mean he was gay. To which I responded : Wuh??? And if you think that's confusing .. step over into the TG community .. the rules get even more blurred.

LadyEllen -> RE: why not the other way? (11/12/2007 9:33:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SoulPiercer And if you think that's confusing .. step over into the TG community .. the rules get even more blurred. Agreed. If anyone has any answers as to the logical brainflips that go on with all that, please let me know? "I'm not gay because he's dressed as a lady" - dunno, but just doesnt make sense to me. Anyway, boys taste different to girls, so there might be an answer to the OP? E

LaTigresse -> RE: why not the other way? (11/12/2007 12:16:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SoulPiercer Interesting question chelle. The easy answer is that this particular person has some principles and is willing to take one (or not take one) for the team. Whether I was gay or not .. you got a right purty mouth .. not sure I could pass on such an offer. There are a great many "straight" men who subscribe to the "a mouth is a mouth" and "an ass is an ass" theory, yet swear they are still "straight". I actually know someone who said he has anal sex with other men (he's a pitcher, not a catcher) .. but he does not use condoms because THAT would mean he was gay. To which I responded : Wuh??? And if you think that's confusing .. step over into the TG community .. the rules get even more blurred. Which brings to mind another question. Why do most all gay men want to say they are a pitcher and very few admit to being a catcher? I mean, someone's gotta!

pahunkboy -> RE: why not the other way? (11/12/2007 12:27:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse quote: ORIGINAL: SoulPiercer Interesting question chelle. The easy answer is that this particular person has some principles and is willing to take one (or not take one) for the team. Whether I was gay or not .. you got a right purty mouth .. not sure I could pass on such an offer. There are a great many "straight" men who subscribe to the "a mouth is a mouth" and "an ass is an ass" theory, yet swear they are still "straight". I actually know someone who said he has anal sex with other men (he's a pitcher, not a catcher) .. but he does not use condoms because THAT would mean he was gay. To which I responded : Wuh??? And if you think that's confusing .. step over into the TG community .. the rules get even more blurred. Which brings to mind another question. Why do most all gay men want to say they are a pitcher and very few admit to being a catcher? I mean, someone's gotta! The image. Like the fake wedding ring thing. Like so many are a couple looking for a 3rd. Simmilar to how many men want the catch that is hard to score- it is the same logic. The young and old guys endlessly chase the impossible. Medium aged try to make sense out of it all...but then seems to later do that same thing. Most the gay guys I know are not tops. The more guys that [we/they] lay the faster the cycle goes- to where it is like McDonalds now serving millions. But then the bar scene, is conducive to drunkish type of behaviour. Ahhhhhhhhh- I think I figured out this riddle. He flirted as a new score may have thought he was bi- - thats what happened. [bi guys are touble -but hot in bed]

LaTigresse -> RE: why not the other way? (11/12/2007 2:07:24 PM)
I am giving up on bi-women I think. Here is a Readers Digest condensed version of a recent .......situtation. Girl contacts me......"I think you are the woman I have been looking for!" After much discussion, email, chat, phone.....well, maybe I am! I gave her a few guidelines, things she was currently doing that I wanted to end, and something I wanted her to do to help me get to know her better. Nothing. Then, one little thing kinda triggered a bit of an issue for me. "guess I am not the woman you were looking for after all, byee" A few days went by, the shit was kinda bugging me, nagging at the back of my head. She pops up, gave a good explanation of why her head had not been in the right place. Stuff I knew about previously. Okay, so lets try this again. There I am waiting for her to comply with my initial requests. I even explained to her in greater detail why they were important. Nothing. I kept quiet and watched. Then asked a few questions. Called in a favour and did some investigating. Realized that she was just not really all that into it, not being honest. Probably more into flirting and being the hot sub of the moment. Just not my thing. Bye bye. Now, I find out that the girl that, even though she is bi, didn't want to serve a man in any way again....is living with her kid's father again AND just found out she is pregnant again! No more bi women.

chellekitty -> RE: why not the other way? (11/12/2007 2:13:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyEllen <snip> Anyway, boys taste different to girls, so there might be an answer to the OP? E it would not have mattered....i just wanted to give him a blow job....thats all...and if he closed his eyes, a mouth is just a mouth...but alas...no...it didn't work...

chellekitty -> RE: why not the other way? (11/12/2007 2:15:07 PM)
just because there are some screwy bi women out their you're going to swear off all of us? sniffles

pahunkboy -> RE: why not the other way? (11/12/2007 2:20:46 PM)
I can see how that can be frustrating. As a rule I dont write good bye emails. If I ever do something like it- it is a paper letter that physically must be handled. As to checking someones story- I figure they will trip up in time.... so it is pointless to go overboard. In general society is more comfortable with traditional heterosexual couples. No amount of laws, protesting, marches- would change that. If a person lives a lie- I havent figured out who has to final last laugh... I would guess- no - hmm.

petdave -> RE: why not the other way? (11/12/2007 7:37:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Now, I find out that the girl that, even though she is bi, didn't want to serve a man in any way again....is living with her kid's father again AND just found out she is pregnant again! Next time, get her on the phone/IM and ask her for the phone number to the Jerry Springer show... if she reads it back to you without hesitation, shut her down! [:'(]

laurell3 -> RE: why not the other way? (11/12/2007 7:40:20 PM)
I don't know when a good friend of mine was coming out I spent a lot of time at a local gay bar dancing and hanging out, which was awesome fun. I had quite a few self-professed gay men hit on me, which was confusing, maybe it was just alcohol though. I would guess it's individual, much like all of us we have preferences and rules, sometimes we bend them, sometimes we don't.

pahunkboy -> RE: why not the other way? (11/13/2007 5:03:39 AM)
Be careful at gay bars. When your azz is grabbed- it means your wallet is reached for. I have had better huntin at parks... A good thing about bi guys. They know what they want in bed. And know how to go home when they are done. No laundry to wash- Ready aim shoot- goobye.

solitudesmiles -> RE: why not the other way? (11/13/2007 9:05:12 AM)
i keep my wallet in my bra good luck trying to steal it with out me knowing lol

pahunkboy -> RE: why not the other way? (11/13/2007 9:08:33 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: solitudesmiles i keep my wallet in my bra good luck trying to steal it with out me knowing lol I could be biased per bars. I alwys end up talking to the drunk. [ad nueseun] Anyhow with smoke and loud music- ild rather be at a forest. But then maybe I am prude. Oh well- I am alive and reasonably happy. Not everyone makes it to age 44. My dad did not.

slaverosebeauty -> RE: why not the other way? (11/13/2007 9:32:38 AM)
Not all bi-girls like couples or want couples, I am an example of that, when my srb page was up, I had couples hitting on me, they neglected to read on my profiel where it said 'no couples' being bi-doesn't mean I want a couple, it just means I like men AND women. To chelle~ from what I have seen around my area, if the gay guys like women as 'friends' I have a few who I can kiss on the mouth and nothing happens, for either of us; its like kissing a good friend. I don't plan on telling the guys I have dates with over the next few weeks about that though. {giggles} To pahunkboy~ you mean some places STILL allow people to smoke in bars and clubs?? Wow; how prehistoric and primevil.

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