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sanita -> Oooops, was that rude? (8/7/2005 5:25:59 PM)

got a message onthe other side just now. not gonna name the thing that sent it, but it said:

"holy shit are you fat"

so i looked at this profile. 40y/o Dom in PA... 5'4", not too much other information.

now i usually do not resort to personal attacks, but ohhhhhh, maybe it was just making a statement of the obvious he did not like... i replied:

"and you're short, but i've lost 88 lbs so far, have you grown any recently?"


ok, he didn't laugh. i got cursed (i think) with nasty pussy rash, and a kind of angry emoticon. *l* i blocked him.

well, i am hoping it is not going to put me on the bad-sub list, but i had to share. and when i talk to my Master next, i will see if an apology is in order... but seriously, i doubt it.

so, what would any of Y/you have done?



RiotGirl -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/7/2005 5:31:36 PM)

that is hilarious. i love it.

What have i done? Had some one i new and referred them to collar me and knowing i was owned sent me penis pics as a thanks. i did my best to convince him that it needed to be cut off and and that it was the curse of his exsistance, and NEVER EVER go traumatise another woman by leting her see a thing like that



liltxsubby -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/7/2005 6:28:03 PM)

I think he deserved it. Two wrongs make a right, so he was rude but since yours was the second, it was ok.

What would I do? Forward the message to Fangs and let the idiot deal with a pissed-off, slightly protective sarcastic Dom who really can be a mean nasty ass. Thank goodness I don;t have to deal with that side of him.



sub4hire -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/7/2005 6:34:11 PM)

quote:

what would any of Y/you have done?


The best response would have been none. Children say nasty things to strangers in hopes of attention. Doesn't matter whether it is good or bad it is attention.

Which is why I will often ignore some here when they make comments. I've lived on this Earth as long as they have...odd that we haven't all matured at the same rate.

Although I definately understand the child in you wanting to come out and respond to.



sanita -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/7/2005 6:51:23 PM)

yeah,

normally, i ignore it... and yeah, there is probably a bit of the childish in swiping back...

but goodness. if he wanted to generate a reaction, i gave him one. *lol*

i guess he just hit me on the right night.

btw, sub4hire, love your new pics. i know they have been up for weeks, but hey, they are still relatively new.

liltxsubby, *grin* thanks, and told B about it tonight when He called. He said it was just fine. congrats on the move, too!



smilezz -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/7/2005 6:58:58 PM)

*laughs and laughs*

I got a message like this once...usually i don't reply...but i could not resist. This was what was said:

him: you need to loose weight

me: i may be fat, but you're ugly and i can loose weight >smirks<

(a friend told me this statement a few years ago, i was thrilled i actually got to use it) *LOL*


~smilezz~



perverseangelic -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/7/2005 7:14:52 PM)

I tend to just send back "Thanks. THe owner loves it."

And leave it at that.



sanita -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/7/2005 8:58:29 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: smilezz

I got a message like this once...usually i don't reply...but i could not resist. This was what was said:

him: you need to loose weight

me: i may be fat, but you're ugly and i can loose weight >smirks<



ohhhhhhh, i am the same,. usually, i blow it off. sometimes, it is a really bad come on, you know? *lol*

but this time, i just couldn't resist. and yeah, if i had had confirmation of his looks, i might have gone for ugly, but since there was no picture, and i didn't want to try to blast him for anything i didn't know for sure, i went with what was in his profile. i know, nasty. but it kind of felt good.



proudsub -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/7/2005 9:58:38 PM)

quote:

"and you're short, but i've lost 88 lbs so far, have you grown any recently?"


I love your reply and congrat on your weight loss.[:)]



Gauge -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/7/2005 10:43:49 PM)

To paraphrase a story about Sir Winston Churchill, he was at a gathering and he was a bit drunk. Some woman came up to him and was indignant that the British Prime Minister would be half potted. She said, "You're drunk." He replied, "And you are ugly. In the morning I will be sober Madam, but you will still be ugly."

Your reply was fitting and well done... however the best thing to do when you encounter such rudeness is to ignore it. Best not to feed the trolls... they are a sordid lot.



FelinePersuasion -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/8/2005 1:41:50 AM)

Not that I condone rudeness I don't. But when you put your picture out there for every one to see you open yourself up to other people's comments. That don't make it any less rude, or any less correct of them. But we do open the door when we post pictures and info such as our profiles.



FTopinMichigan -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/8/2005 6:44:33 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: sanita

got a message onthe other side just now. not gonna name the thing that sent it, but it said:

"holy shit are you fat"

so i looked at this profile. 40y/o Dom in PA... 5'4", not too much other information.

now i usually do not resort to personal attacks, but ohhhhhh, maybe it was just making a statement of the obvious he did not like... i replied:

"and you're short, but i've lost 88 lbs so far, have you grown any recently?"


ok, he didn't laugh. i got cursed (i think) with nasty pussy rash, and a kind of angry emoticon. *l* i blocked him.

well, i am hoping it is not going to put me on the bad-sub list, but i had to share. and when i talk to my Master next, i will see if an apology is in order... but seriously, i doubt it.

so, what would any of Y/you have done?


sanita, I usually block someone, with a sorry atittude, but have to say I enjoyed the response you sent to this inconsiderate person. [:D]

Personally, I usually don't get the "you're too fat" comment, until they are rejected from me. Not too fat, when they're are interested, but when I'M not interested...THEN I'm too fat.

Congratulations on your weight loss.

I feel that weight and a person's size are all part of the preference, just as I have a preference for my partner to be of a certain height (at LEAST as tall as me...lol), so I don't frown on people that seek thinner partners. I like larger sized men myself. No problem with having the preference. (It does seem that that person felt the need to feel better about himself, by putting you down. I've found that it's probably better to pity them, then get angry. They are sad people.)

I've solved the "shallow man" filter, by posting a picture BEFORE weight loss. I am honest about being larger than average in size, and my photo shows a larger woman, but I'm 50 lbs lighter now. If it's an issue for them, either way...to enjoy a larger woman, or a smaller one, they need to be honest too. I truly would enjoy a man that had more interest in who I am, and not what I look like, or in JUST want I can do TO him, or FOR him.

K



EmeraldSlave2 -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/8/2005 7:23:46 AM)

Well my rule is that someone else's lack of manners is never a reason to forget your own.

But this sort of thing happens all the time, I don't think it will put you in the next level of hell.



subcheryl -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/8/2005 8:45:39 AM)

Yep, it may have been childish, but it felt good didn't it. I usually have a hard time being quick and witty, but had some guy pull the same thing with me, and Master and I now laugh about it because the guy told me my Master and I could go back to our online relationship and I could eat chips and cookies and talk with the computer geek. Now Master and I have been 24/7 for a couple of months prior to this email, Master is far from a computer geek, and I don't sit and eat chips and cookies at the computer. But we just have a good laugh at the expense of the jerk. I too responded in kind back to him, and yes childish it may have been but it sure felt good.



sanita -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/8/2005 10:14:20 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

Not that I condone rudeness I don't. But when you put your picture out there for every one to see you open yourself up to other people's comments. That don't make it any less rude, or any less correct of them. But we do open the door when we post pictures and info such as our profiles.



i agree, to some extent. yes, by putting a picture on my profile, i may be attracting more attention than if i did not. but really, would it be better to stay in my apartment, and never venture outside into public, because i am opening myself up to strangers who might out of their way to try to hurt my feelings?

while the statement that it would not have happened if i had not had my picture up is true, the reason it happened has nothing to do with me posting my picture. this guy who had never had contact with me before decided to take the time and effort to be ugly.

i understand where you are coming from, and i know you do not condone the ugliness, but i just disagree on principle about inviting it, per sey.

actually when i was talking to my best friend about all the posts from people who did not read my profile or journal, she pointed out that if my pic weren't up, it would not happen as much. this is true. but if i take my picture down (and Master encouraged me to put them up, btw), i would feel bad about it.



SweetDommes -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/8/2005 10:20:42 AM)

I got one the other day "lose 100lbs and you might be cute" ... my reply to him was that most people like us how we are because we are happy and overall healthy, and next time he shouldn't waste his time or others' telling them things that they don't care about.

I know that we shouldn't feed the trolls, but sometimes, you just can't help it - it's just too tempting. Most of the time, I restrain my urges, but every so often, I just have to.



Pavel -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/8/2005 10:30:38 AM)

I usually just inform people that I've alerted homeland security to their deviant activties.

Not that homeland security really is concerned about whatever they're doing, but it does seem to keep people from sending me messages again.



kry -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/9/2005 7:23:22 AM)

Rude? Perhaps. But really, really funny. And i prefer a good sense of humor to 6 pack abs any day.



Sweeticing -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/9/2005 7:30:32 AM)

Good Girl! [:)]

He deserves what he dishes out no one is perfect and you just made him aware of it..



MstrHellsFury -> RE: Oooops, was that rude? (8/9/2005 3:39:53 PM)

under normal conditions I'd say just ignore the the crude troll...I believe in a lady always remaining one ...but I must admit..I liked your response as I too am so tired of this behavior going on all the time...beauty is always in the eye of the beholder...took a look at your profile...what I saw was a submissive smiling...isn't that what you saw when you posted it...


Fury



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