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onceburned -> RE: need domme help (8/7/2005 7:18:03 PM)
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Advice, you say?
First, stay safe. Its easy when you are first getting involved in this kink to throw caution to the wind. Do not do that.
Second, read. Educate yourself. The WizDomme Newbie Pack is a good place to start. Pay special attention to the safety articles.
Third, read the discussions in the message boards. You will learn a lot. And if you comment and ask questions you will learn even more and probably make friends. Here is a good message thread to read (it will help in your search for a domme): 10 Steps For Making A Good First Impression
Fourth, get involved with your local BDSM organization. Their munches are a low-key, low-stress way to get to know people in the community. If you are not familar with munches here is a good introduction: A Beginner’s Guide to BDSM Munches
As for finding your local BDSM group, someone from the UK may have a better idea than I do but http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/ seems to have an extensive listing.
Good luck, enjoy your stay at Collarme and I hope to see you around. [:)]
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