IronBear -> RE: a little help please... (8/8/2005 7:39:51 PM)
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Seeing how things appear to be getting somewhat heated, I'm copying a post I made in another thread in another forum in some hope that it may be read and at least thought about. Its totally off the subject but ....... Y’know one of the things which amuse me is watching people interact. Some, when they have others not agreeing with them, look at what the opposition is saying and reply to the comments made in an adult manner without any animosity or personalisation. Others sadly looks at what the opposition has said and then embark on personal attacks, showing absolute disregard for another’s right to have a different opinion and a lack of respect for the opposition (whom they probably don’t know sufficiently to make any sort of character judgement). I was taught and teach a simple philosophy: “Attack or challenge the subject, idea or opinion, not the person.” Amongst all my friends and acquaintances both personal and professional, I have yet to find one person I agree with all the time. Even when we are at opposing ends of the table, I value and respect each opposing comment and the person making them. Here, there are many who post who I don’t always agree with, but I enjoy each and every post they make. Why? Because they don’t attack people but they do get their points across without malice. I’m always open to having somebody change my stance and if not then I’ll usually “Agree to disagree.” Pax vobiscum
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