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odd thinking - 11/12/2007 7:45:56 PM   
luvzdogtoyz


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Status: offline 		If besides her slaves, a Mistress/Master had a lover outside of the bdsm lifestyle. Would a slave be able to have an outside lover too?
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RE: odd thinking - 11/12/2007 7:47:06 PM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		Sure...if the master/mistress said it was ok.

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RE: odd thinking - 11/12/2007 7:53:35 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		If the relationship is open to that sort of thing, then I dont see why not. I have had lovers who werent lifestyle while Angel was cuckolded, but he wasnt permitted to have a vanilla girlfreiend of his own. I ahve been in relationships in the past where my slave wasnt my lover at all, and so I didnt care if they had a signoficant other who was vanilla as long as that partner knew about me. It all depends on what the guidelines of the relationship is, it isnt a yes or no answer.

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RE: odd thinking - 11/12/2007 7:59:11 PM   
goodgirl08


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Status: offline 		Personally I think my loyalties would become skewed...I can only be in one relationship at a time! But if the slave had a non-slave side that they wanted to explore, and was given permission, there's no rule anywhere that FORBIDS it from happening.

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RE: odd thinking - 11/12/2007 8:55:10 PM   
rubberpet


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Status: offline 		I'm an extremely monogamous person.  Mistress is my everything.  She's my domme, lover, best friend, confidant...the whole nine yards.  I don't want anyone else, either inside the relationship or outside.  I'm not wired like that.  I'm wired in a weird and wacky way, but I couldn't handle Mistress with an outside lover or slave.  It may work for others, just not this white boy!

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RE: odd thinking - 11/12/2007 8:56:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		As with most questions, it depends on the relationship and what the two agree on.

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RE: odd thinking - 11/12/2007 9:17:24 PM   
ItzKat


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quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

As with most questions, it depends on the relationship and what the two agree on.


I have to agree with this... we can not tell you what is right or wrong.  It depends on what you two have agreed on. 

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RE: odd thinking - 11/13/2007 3:16:53 AM   
littlebitxxx


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Status: offline 		Why not?  If the two agreed upon it....

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RE: odd thinking - 11/13/2007 5:11:34 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Sure. There are marriages where both of the people are subs, so they have an open relationship. As long as everyone is informed of all the details, and is happy with it, why not?

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RE: odd thinking - 11/13/2007 5:33:35 AM   
adoracat


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Status: offline 		i'm married, but not to Daddy.  my husband and i are polyamorous.  i've also had another lover that was neither my husband nor my Daddy since Daddy collared me.

Daddy allows this.  i have restrictions as to what my relationship(s) can be, but Daddy wants me to be happy,a nd he knows what my situation is at home.

Daddy, also, is poly, i'm not his only sub. 

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RE: odd thinking - 11/13/2007 7:57:12 AM   
topIrishsubm


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Status: offline 		Sure, why not if it was something allowed or agreed within the relationship. Personally speaking, i could never do it, am strictly monogomous. Even the idea of all the random mail my Lady gets is enough to make me jealous :-)

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RE: odd thinking - 11/13/2007 10:08:09 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Im still trying to figure out a slave with a non slave side????  Help!

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RE: odd thinking - 11/13/2007 10:11:00 AM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: luvzdogtoyz

If besides her slaves, a Mistress/Master had a lover outside of the bdsm lifestyle. Would a slave be able to have an outside lover too?



Depends on what the mistress/master says.

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RE: odd thinking - 11/13/2007 11:03:48 AM   
Stephann


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RE: odd thinking - 11/13/2007 2:01:38 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I don't see the problem with it if it is what the Master slave/subs agreed on.  My personal relationship i am not allowed and he told me i am and always will be his only one.

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