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Theraputic Massage-BDSM Scene/playing - 8/7/2005 8:58:48 PM

synrgy33

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Recently, Dave Sir and I were talking about scening. I have started a new job, and suddenly realized that I have sore muscles. OKay not so suddenly *laughs*... And I was telling Him that a flogging would feel so good. He asked me why and I said that I was so sore in so many places and that I felt a flogging would help me relax and ease out some of that tension.

So we continued talking on the subject about release, and how different play, sensations helped with different things regarding a sore body.

We were curious if others felt that BDSM not only the physical side of flogging, caning or whatever but the mental side could also be a theraputic release for them.

Curious to what others feel and think.

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RE: Theraputic Massage-BDSM Scene/playing - 8/7/2005 9:18:38 PM

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It is definitely a therapeutic release for me, although not every time I have played. I think the release is both physical and mental and the physical for me is because my body usually stretches and then relaxes so much that it is similar to doing yoga or receiving a good massage.

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RE: Theraputic Massage-BDSM Scene/playing - 8/7/2005 10:30:23 PM

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quote:

We were curious if others felt that BDSM not only the physical side of flogging, caning or whatever but the mental side could also be a theraputic release for them.

I suddenly feel like I am coming from left field. I have always assumed that the whole point of most playing was to release accumulated body tension. Or rather that this was going to be an almost guaranteed result. When I play, one of the motivations is to relieve body/emotional tensions. My submissives release body/emotional tension either directly through receiving pain or through physcial ejaculation.

If I am wound tight emotionally with stress, one of the fastest ways for Me to relax is by being fucked hard and fast. I do not have an ogasm but it reduces the body tension enough that I can enjoy being touched again.

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RE: Theraputic Massage-BDSM Scene/playing - 8/7/2005 10:40:49 PM

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well that is true Ma'am, but there are times that i just love to get flogged.. No relesae other then it feels so damn good! and I want it.. LOL..

But that is a very good point, thank You for bringing that to my attention *s*

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RE: Theraputic Massage-BDSM Scene/playing - 8/7/2005 11:05:10 PM

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It's like I've always been saying, "A BDSM session is pretty much the same thing as getting a massage."

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RE: Theraputic Massage-BDSM Scene/playing - 8/8/2005 6:57:05 AM

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Absolutely, it tends to be a large chunk of why people do sensual play.

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RE: Theraputic Massage-BDSM Scene/playing - 8/8/2005 6:58:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: FangsNfeet

It's like I've always been saying, "A BDSM session is pretty much the same thing as getting a massage."

I'm not really sure about that...sewing someones labia together or shaving their head or making them lick dirt off the floor or a gazillion other scenes I coud bring up somehow don't seem to evoke "massage like circumstances"

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