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RE: How would you .... - 11/16/2007 4:53:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: InnocentYoungSub

Some of the virgin-hating going on in this thread is not very flattering.

Takes me back to being rejected by a girl I was in love with for being too "innocent"(i.e. a virgin). Not too pleasant a memory...

Dude, are you really going to come out and say that? After the posts from Ms. C, vampchick, Ms. Incontrol, and JoyfulMistress? Really?

I, frankly, am getting kind of hot and bothered by all this. It's makes my decision to remain a virgin until I find the right person seem all the wiser. :D

Nah, he has a point. I have never understood why some women view men who are virgins as being somehow cursed.

"Your a virgin! EWWWW!"

It's kind of childish first of all because at one time EVERYONE was a virgin. Its not like men are born with the sexual carnal knowledge and perversion attributed to us, lol. On second thought, maybe they are afraid we will stick it in their butt hole? LMAO...

In the old days fathers encouraged their sons and other young men to go out and loose that pesky virginity as soon as possible. I have noticed that the men have backed off on this whole thing and some women have eagerly stepped in to encourage this. Why? who knows....

I think this all goes back to a stereotype that men should always be the more expierenced, etc.

I have even encountered women, though most of this stems from hatred of men in general, say they would do HORRIBLE things to any virgin males they encountered (why they would choose a virgin to get revenge on is a mystery to me.)

Anyway, something to chew on......

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RE: How would you .... - 11/16/2007 9:47:27 PM

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This is a rather interesting thread as I am a virgin and will remain so. I do not want to have sexual intercourse until marriage for a multitude or reasons, which are beyond the scope of this thread. I know that when Aerith forcibly takes that from me it will be the happiest day of my life as it will mean she wishes us to spend the rest of our lives together. Thats one way to propose to your sub,

rape him!

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RE: How would you .... - 11/17/2007 7:46:32 PM

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Of course I would use BDSM in the deflowering. Taking what I want...in the manner in which I want it. He hopefully has kept it for a reason..waiting for the right person...wanting it to be special..and if he is yours than he would want it this way too I bet.

I get very little from vanilla style sex...so I would definately have to incorportate some kink. Of course, I always use candles, music and such during my scenes...to me that is just basic mood setting to me. As far as movies and dinner...if it is something you enjoy doing with him.

Edited to add: I made it sound like I would not be kind, loving and romantic. I think it can be ALL of those things at the same time. BDSM, Kinky, Loving, Romantic and special all put together.

here here! i wish my first time had had a little more kink - as it was, it damn near turned me off of men altogether

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RE: How would you .... - 11/18/2007 4:09:47 AM

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Just wanted to say I am glad you chose not to MsCfromMelbourne.

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RE: How would you .... - 11/18/2007 4:21:00 AM

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If I had a virgin sub then I would wait until I was absolutely sure that we were right for one another in every way.
And then take him in a way that combined our fantasies of that moment because it wouldn't only be his first time.
It would be my first time with him so I would want it to be very special for me as well.

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RE: How would you .... - 11/19/2007 7:02:29 PM

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Standard disclaimers of the IMO/YMMV variety apply.

Ooohhh...lucky woman!

There's nothing more exciting than being someone's first. I confess, I don't have a lot to add that hasn't been said. Definitely find out your boy's fantasies and make some of them come true. Absolutely use kink where it seems appropriate. Personally, I'd probably go with light bondage so that it's easier to set him loose without killing the mood when/if you decide to do so. I'd probably also do something special to mark the occasion such as putting your collar on him (if you haven't already) or purchasing a toy that you'll only use on him.

Best wishes!

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RE: How would you .... - 11/24/2007 5:40:19 PM

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Thank You All
I am pleased to say My boy is turning into a wonderful lil sex kitten for Me ~Smirks~ His evening started out as a date, where we took a box an ex gave him to their old *make out * point he wrote a little note in it and let it there as a way of letting go of the past and perhaps bless another with the treasure of the lil box they find. Dinner and a Movie ( lost him for a few hours to Beowulf ~Laughs~ )brought him home and with his collar around his neck and I dirrected him upon the rose petaled bed only to allow our passions to grow and when he began to fidget as he knew what was approaching .. I took him .. bless his heart he was so nervious .. and frightened he would not like sex and worried that if he didn't that our relationship would be over ~Smiles~ silly boy ... we had a wonderful relationship without sex prior to that evening so if it had turned out that he truly didn't like sex ... nothing would have changed .. but thankfully he likes it ... A LOT ~Laughs~
Thank You for all your wonderful ideas and for helping One Who was more than a bit overwhelmed at such a wonderful gift My boy offered and willing gave to Me ... now the fun of training him how to please Me in all ways ~Winks~
I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend
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RE: How would you .... - 11/24/2007 5:55:19 PM

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*purrs softly* I'm not a virgin-hater. Yum yum.

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RE: How would you .... - 11/25/2007 10:55:52 AM

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What absolute evil genius! Dayummm I love that! ; )
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ORIGINAL: Aubre

If you wanted to do a big mindfuck you could tell him it was going to happen, tie him up, do lots of play and tease, get him thinking it was just about to happen then ice him down and lock him into a chastity device, tell him he is going to be a virgin forever, then take him in the rear with a strap-on.

You could always do him later, but the wild mindfuck would be achieved.

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RE: How would you .... - 11/25/2007 10:58:13 AM

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What an amazing post, aren't YOU the Lucky Lady?
Happy trails!

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RE: How would you .... - 11/25/2007 8:52:29 PM

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If an any case, I had a sub or pet who was a virgin, I would probably not take her "virginity" away right away... I would probably prolong our play until I know that her trust that I would take care of her overpowers any fears or doubts that she may have.

I would probably build a scene around deflowering my sub. I would definately use BDSM as a tool for the scene, because I love catching people off gaurd ...Then I would decide whether or not to warn her about it because after all, she's been begging for it for a really long time... (just setting up the scene)

I would start off by giving her an extremely hard task to follow through on, assuring her that if she did everything step by step and extremely pleasing to me that she would obtain a reward.

After completion of the task, I would then set an extremely erotic scene, in which I would not only do the most arousing things to her, and make her believe that she was going to be left hanging, blindfold her and have my way without her knowledge that it's going to happen...

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