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fairerthanshe -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/15/2007 11:21:10 AM)
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soultoshare -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/15/2007 11:22:15 AM)
My one hard limit that seems to cause problems is the absolutely no woman to woman contact one.......one tried it as a mind fuck (I think, anyway!),and needless to say, I ran like a cat with it's tail on fire! My hard limits aren't any different than most, kids, animals, blood, scat/watersports....the really extreme things. Breath play, gun/knife play, TENS units...that stuff is all fine with me......such wonderful sensations! Of course, the gun and knife play is done under strict guidelines.....and only with one person I already trust. I am, however, right there with the tickling limit.....I almost "accidentally" broke my ex's nose because he thought it was great to hear me scream. When it comes to someone's phobias, I respect them wholly. One of mine is needles...growing up was a nightmare of doctors, and my parents, telling me it was "all in my head". Since it wasn't a socially accepted fear, like mice or snakes, I was constantly ridiculed.....but the tables turned once I was an adult....I could ridicule the docs for NOT being able to deal with a patient with a phobia...challenge their skills, they tend to look a things differently. I have no idea why I was terrified of them, no bad memories or experiences, and actually, over the years, I can now at least tolerate them long enough for my tests I need. I still have the physiological reaction of anger, but at least I don't run out of the office before they even take the tourniquet off! I have no respect for anyone who will use a person's phobias against them, and wouldn't be around for long if anyone ever tried to capitalize on mine.

KiandPhoenix -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/15/2007 11:19:50 PM)
We have a list of limits here that we don't cross, but I don't think any are all that odd. When we made our first contract though, we read a very unusual one. It said something along the lines of stating that the dom could do just about anything including watersports, scat, gun play, and most of the other things people think of as risky. It then goes on in several places to say that she is not ever to be ordered to mop the floor. ~Ki

stella41b -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/16/2007 3:20:00 AM)
I have a few... Cauliflower is one. I eat and love broccoli, I can eat broccoli until the cows come home, but I have a very very strong aversion to cauliflower. I don't want to have anything to do with a cauliflower, and have been known to walk out of shops if they have cauliflowers on display. The smell of a cauliflower cooking is for me deeply repulsive. Confined in any space with a cauliflower and I go ballistic, and I'm normally someone who is extremely difficult to provoke to any extreme emotional reaction. Margarine has a similar effect on me to cauliflower. Mariah Carey singing for some reason makes me deeply melancholic, depressed and almost suidical. I don't know, it's just something in the voice. Whitney Houston had a similar effect which I have managed to overcome to some degree, but I've yet to find any effective defence mechanism against Mariah Carey's singing.

Beans -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/16/2007 5:44:07 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: worththeeffort Most of my hard limits are pretty reasonable......animals, UMs, corpses, anything that could result in death or permanant damage and the like. The only one that's odd, is my anti-foot-ness. i don't mind other people's feet, they're not sexy, but they don't bother me. But do NOT touch my feet, ever, under any circumstances. i wear shoes or socks 90% of the time to avoid this even potentially happening. i had to have stitches put in my toe when i was in my late teens.... holy shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit. Took several nurses, and my mom, to hold me down so they could do it. i kept telling them to leave it the hell alone and just put a band-aid on it. Was one of those horrifying traumatic life experiences in my book.... and then taking the stitches out? i bit my hand so hard i bled, in attempt to distract myself so i wouldn't move, then they wanted to put stitches in that! lol. Just one of those things people in my life have to deal with. i had a former dom try to "break" me of my aversion/phobia/squickyness, whatever you want to call it, by grabbing my feet every time i was about to have an orgasm, one swift (semi-accidental) kick to the nose (resulting to a trip to the ER suspecting a broken nose) and he learned, i wasn't fucking kidding! That relationship didn't continue very long after that.... lol. Lucky for me, He has no desire to touch my feet, and even encourages my socks (including during sex lol) so that he doesn't accidentally forget and touch them by accident. Awwwwww lol. ~kitty oh wow i thought i was the only one that had a thing with my own feet...i wear socks all the time except in the shower and Ma'am has been talking about making me not wear them and i just cringe. Although i seem to be able to tolerate having people touch my feet more so than you.

camille65 -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/16/2007 7:59:37 AM)
Yay I'm not alone in having 'some' weird freaky hard limits. 1) my belly button. Off limits, totally. When I was little my sister stuck a plunger on my tummy and told me if it came off my belly button would come untied and everything would come out lol. I ran around the house in hysterics with that plunger bobbling along on my belly. 2) my big toes. Again when I was little my sister would haul me around the pool by my big toes, pulling me under the water. I cannot bear anything wrapped around my toes or wearing flipflop type shoes. 3)any any sort of breath play makes me utterly panicked. Yes.. my sister (same sister in all of these, anyone see a theme?) used bandaids to tape my mouth shut once when I was sleeping. 4)insects. Dreaded sister told me my mosquito bites were actually eggs and to kill them I had to coat myself in nail polish..... Oddly that sister is now my favorite one, however she totally denies all the stuff she did to me. Ahhhhhh siblings. I was so amazingly gullible, gee it's a good thing I'm over that.............. not!!

Guest123 -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/16/2007 11:47:38 AM)
okay.. have to add another one i forgot and was rudely reminded of... i absolutely gag.... one time and only one time, my Dom caught me up because he did not like my tone and the ugliness of my words to another, and he spit in my mouth.... i don't think i said an unkind word for years after that... i would never do that to another person and i think i would take a beating rather than ever open my mouth to have them do that to me...

lockmeupplease -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/16/2007 3:10:12 PM)
Hard Limit? A sensory deprivation session with Michael Bolton on the headphones [:D]

undinerising -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/16/2007 3:27:27 PM)
The very idea of anal anything is very much a hard limit for me- it just tweaks my OCD in all the worst ways. No amount of gratification for a partner of mine is worth the compulsive acts that would inevitably follow.

BRNaughtyAngel -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/16/2007 3:30:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania He also said that it does not matter that he takes all the blankets, that is still no excuse to cuddle him off the bed, I should either get my own blanket or stay cold.... So I guess I better get used to freezing my ass off when I stay at his place[:D] You could always ask Santa to bring you some of those ultra sexy, warm and cozy flannel jammies with the feetsies in them. [:)] [;)] Forgot to add my "crazy" hard limits............... beets, green peas and clowns. And if it's a clown bearing beets and green peas, somebody's gonna get hurt and it ain't gonna be me! [:'(] [8\|]

angelikaJ -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/16/2007 3:45:46 PM)
mine is a multisensorial aversion to certain types of paper. *cringes

allurette -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/16/2007 5:33:23 PM)
I'm into knife play, breath play, gun play... but dear god, touch my belly button and I go into complete. Also, my ass is completely off limits. I'm glad I'm not the only one with weird limits....... [:)] allurette.

UntappdPotential -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/16/2007 5:50:50 PM)
The feeling of "squeaky" clean dishes and glasses. It makes me cringe just thinking about it. I suppose it isn't a hard limit exactly, but I avoid it as much as possible.

esmerelda -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/17/2007 5:56:01 AM)
Blind folds make me panic like crazy. Min i am going a little deaf so i guess its not so weird, take my eyesight away and youd have me totally in your power. Maybe Master's little girl is still learning for Him to control me completely

unravel -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/17/2007 7:40:00 AM)
Anything coming too near my eyes... no way! unravel

IrishMist -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/17/2007 11:29:45 AM)
tickling You tickle me, you had better make sure that I tied down tight because otherwise... there are going to be some broken bones

YourhandMyAss -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/19/2007 10:04:51 AM)
Oddly enough I don't like my belly button messed with either,

Tigrita -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/19/2007 3:35:56 PM)
Camile, I'm sorry, but I'm laughing my ass off. I guess I really am a sadist. That is one traumatic childhood though, glad you guys are cool now.

MasterofScyn -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/19/2007 5:46:24 PM)
Anything that covers my face. I can handle blind folds and small gags decently. But a hood or anything that will completly covers my face.. Out of the question. I'll panic. Breath play is a limit too. Being held underwater and such, won't be able to handle it. I like hot wax, daggers (no cutting though) just the feel of the steel running all over my back is awesome. Master recently got one of those pin needle wheels, that tickles to much but it works. Haven't tried electricity type stuff, and very hesitate about it... Might try it once.. Just the thought of being shocked though sends shivers up my spine. Can't stand being shocked during dry season and feet rub on carpet type thing. Scyn ~

batshalom -> RE: Crazy Hard Limits? (11/19/2007 5:56:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Guest123 and he spit in my mouth.... ~running around in circles screaming at the top of her lungs~ OmGOD, that made my scalp CRAWL. I can drink piss, I can swallow cum, but please oh please don't spit in my mouth. ~shudder~ Not only that, I refuse to drink anything that remotely resembles spit, or drink after someone who seems backwashy.

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