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Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 5:17:44 AM   
leida


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Status: offline 		. . .a good friend of mine, is heading stateside to start his new life with his new mistress (lucky him!!!!) but we were chatting the other day about "pleasing" our Dominants.

i always find such conversations intriguing, but also something that deepens the learning process that i know that i am on. i was intrigued by the differences that existed for him, in terms of the things that please his Mistress, and which he also said, is quite far removed from things that his previous Mistress had been pleased by, and also the things that differed between his own situations and my own. i know pleasing and being pleased are kind of unique to the person, as a slave to me, if i please Him, then i am pleased (selfish maybe, but a wonderful fulfilment just the same LOL)

So, i thought i would post here, for your thoughts, for anything really . .

As a sub/slave, what are the things that you do for your Dom/me that pleases them?
 
Are there things that you do specifically for your Dominant because you know it pleases Them?
 
How do you please your Dominant, (in any way, whether physically, sexually, mentally even) . . .?

And maybe, if you dont get to have much contact in terms of being in the presence of your Dom/me, if you had that chance to have that shared moment, for say, 24 hours,  is there anything in particular that you'd really want to do to please Them?
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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 6:06:34 AM   
rubberpet


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From: The Land of Voodoo
Status: offline 		This may sound like total bullshit to some, but I don't care.  I would do anything to please Mistress because I know She will never ask or command me to do anything that could harm me.  I trust Her with every fiber of my being.  With the phone being our major means of communication at the moment (She lives in WV and I live in LA), there are still some things I can do to make sure She is pleased.  Last night is a perfect example.

She had a psychology paper due this morning, so I offered to help Her proofread it.  She e-mailed it to me yesterday afternoon.  Since I was an english and composition tutor in college, I figured I could be of assistance to Her and make the necessary corrections on it.  What I thought was a small gesture meant a great deal to Her.  She was so happy with the effort I put in making sure Her paper was as close to perfect as I could make it.

There are other little things I do to please Her.  I make myself available to Her anytime She calls, I'm an ear to listen if She has a problem and needs to talk about it, I send Her text messages and e-mails throughout the day to show Her I'm thinking about Her, I send Her little gifts in the mail to show Her I love Her (the latest gift was a lambskin leather skirt).  I simply do anything I can to make Her feel special.  She is certainly worthy of Her title of Mistress, so I do things to show her that She really is the life-giving air that I breathe and that I love and cherish Her to no end.

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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 6:20:05 AM   
southernhart


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Status: offline 		i do everything for him because i love him. When he is pleased with me or is enjoying what i am doing or have done for him or to him. There is no greater feeling in the world.
i cook and i clean and i do his laundry. i make sure anything he wants sexually i do and i try to always find new ways to satisfy him in that way.
i massage him daily for as long as he wants and just worship the ground he walks on. It's so beautiful and fulfilling. i wish everyone could experience those types of feelings.


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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 6:55:38 AM   
breatheasone


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Status: offline 		I love my Master with all my heart, that pleases Him.

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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 7:30:10 AM   
RCdc


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Status: offline 		Repost - By being myself.
 
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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 9:15:56 AM   
Elegant


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Status: offline 		Honor
Obey
Anticipate
Provide


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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 12:16:56 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Elegant

Honor
Obey
Anticipate
Provide



Those go for me as well. Nothing futher to add to that. Short and sweet.

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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 1:02:30 PM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		I do whatever i cn to please hin in all ways.  Just being there for him pleases him and so it pleases me. It is a win-win situation for us both.

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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 1:24:45 PM   
IamJustMe2C


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Joined: 10/2/2007
Status: offline 		I have never asked anything of my slave/sub other then to be them selves. To see them grow to see a genuine smile from there face or a real laugh when they are happy. Those things are what make me happy. Yes a small gift here and there are nice and they are given to them as well that is just human kindness as well as showing the feelings that we hold inside of our selves. But I truely believe that a slave/sub that is true to them selves and gives them self to another person to dominate and cherish is the best gift in the world. In return though the best gift a Master or Mistress can give to that slave/sub is the same thing.

A long winded way of saying or hearts and souls are the best gifts to give and ones that can be given every day. These gifts can not be purchased in any store or put on any shelf but the ones in our heart.

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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 2:56:56 PM   
PrincessEllie


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Joined: 11/30/2006
Status: offline 		I realized after being with my Dom for a few months that he doesn't mind how much I whine about school work, how I playfully make fun of him, how I tickle him, or any of that. I've actually realized that all of my bratty impulses he finds to be endering and often arousing. He is just what I need, someone who doesn't mind when I'm being a spoiled brat and someone who is impervious to my brattings. My personality is one of the things that pleases him.

Physically, I let him use me as an arm rest and a pillow because it makes him more comfortable. He likes to hold hands and hold me in public, which I would find in some ways to be embarassing because I am very unused to these sorts of things, but I  do it because I know how it makes him happy. When he is jealous of me speaking with another guy, he will often grab me and hold on to me so that the other boy will know who I belong to. He loves the way I remind him throughout the day with lettle gestures that I am his.

Sexually, I do what he wants. Sometimes I am embarassed, but he always coaxes me out of my shell (and my clothes). I try my best to please him with whatever he wants. He adores giving me spanks. I try to keep myself looking in the way that he likes best.

How do I please my Dom, you ask? I do whatever he tells me, and even more than that, I always try my hardest to be everything for him, since he is everything for me. How do I please my Dom? I love him the best I know how.


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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 3:01:20 PM   
adoracat


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Joined: 2/16/2007
Status: offline 		how to please my Daddy?

i *am*.  i love him, listen to him, am a comfort to him when he's having a bad day, am his toy when he feels playful, am his victim when he feels sadistic, give myself to him without reservations, let him into my heart and mind and soul, and remember that no matter where i am in relation to him....i am HIS.

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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 3:15:12 PM   
slavemaia


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Status: offline 		By being His
Worshiping
Honoring
Obeying
Respecting
Enjoying

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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/14/2007 8:39:13 PM   
Sirsinini


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Status: offline 		As a sub/slave, what are the things that you do for your Dom/me that pleases them? 
Call Him cause he has asked me too.
When with him, wait for his directive.
 
Are there things that you do specifically for your Dominant because you know it pleases Them?
Bring him chocolate.
Look into his eyes.
Be patient.
.
 
How do you please your Dominant, (in any way, whether physically, sexually, mentally even) . . .?
Obey

And maybe, if you dont get to have much contact in terms of being in the presence of your Dom/me, if you had that chance to have that shared moment, for say, 24 hours,  is there anything in particular that you'd really want to do to please Them?
I am not his maid, chef or am I his laundromat...... altho I think he needs these things; I would not do them unless he asked.
But I know I'd keep his coffee cup filled and just relax along side him.

Sir's devoted property 
 

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RE: Pleasing your Dominant - 11/16/2007 11:28:33 PM   
hisdevotedtoy


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Status: offline 		Being completely available to Him physically, and mentally, when He needs me... and being close at hand when He doesn't but just in case He might in the near future. 

Other than that... being obedient, respectful, inquisitive, and honest.

< Message edited by hisdevotedtoy -- 11/16/2007 11:29:04 PM >

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