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RE: E-mail Subs and ex's - 11/16/2007 9:50:52 AM

littleone35

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Master does not talk to any of his ex subs, but if he did i think it wols only bother me a little. I mean i know he loves me and he has told me i am the only sub he wants or needs. So he could talk to them and i would only be a tiny bit jealous. After all i am the one with his collar around my neck.

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RE: E-mail Subs and ex's - 11/16/2007 10:41:02 PM

grlneedstolearn

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Mine has a few former people that he still keeps in contact, and no i don't mind at all. We tend to joke that if he needs to give one of his "former's" a spanking, i always ask to go with him

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RE: E-mail Subs and ex's - 11/17/2007 5:46:35 AM

esmerelda

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Master keeps in touch with a few 'old friends' and in truth the only one that would bother me would be the most recent one. i don't know whether He has made any new friendships online since we have been together but i do know He hasn't met any in the flesh. That was something we struggled through early in our relationship and He agreed to because He loves me.

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RE: E-mail Subs and ex's - 11/17/2007 6:28:36 PM

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ORIGINAL: southernhart

Does Your Master keep in contact with his ex subs? Do You mind that? Does Your Master have e-mail sub pals that he has started writing to after the two of you got together?

My Sir has kept in contact with most if not all of His s types, and He has many female friends. I don't mind that He has that contact with the ex's nor do I mind that He has female friends. My Sir loves women

As far as email sub pals that He's started corresponding with since we got together.... Yes, He has corresponded with women other than myself that came after me, but again I don't mind. It took me a while, but I finally got that He really cares for me, and any s type or female friend will never replace what we have. One can never have too many friends.

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RE: E-mail Subs and ex's - 11/17/2007 7:41:16 PM

andreaC

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Master has a very good friend in this lifestyle and she is a sub. Like someone said, i am very secure in my relationship and besides he knew her before we met.

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RE: E-mail Subs and ex's - 11/17/2007 9:19:05 PM

sakidorei

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i think i would worry more if He didn't stay in some sort of contact with anyone that He has owned in the past ... it would make me wonder ... . The committment to own or even train a slave is a serious one and i think within part of that is a committment to a person's wellbeing ... which hopefully doesn't go away the moment a collar is taken away or a relationship ends. i think it speaks well of a Master if His formers think highly of Him and have a good relationship with Him.

i would worry more if He were a -dump 'em and don't look back- sort of person who didn't see any responsibility or long term caring for those He has been close to. i think i would wonder about our relationship if He could simply turn it on and off like a light switch and not maintain some level of caring for those who He has shared such an intimate life with.

Additionally, my Master talks to other subs and slaves now ... makes new friendships and meets new people in real time as well. i understand this and would not dream of attempting to curtail this as i believe that it's His right as a Master. i also understand that not everyone views things this way ... it's simply the way i view it and i'm at peace with it. Am i envious at times of those who have known Him longer or who get to see Him when i can't see Him on a given day ... of course! However, being envious doesn't give me the right to make demands of Him as my owner ... it just means i have some feelings to navigate.

i think it would hurt me more if He kept those contacts a secret and i found out at some later time ... to me that would be much more of an issue and a betrayal on some level than my knowing that He does as He wishes and does not need to hide it. It would be the hiding that would cut me to the bone ... not the contact with others.

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