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TenderMistress -> Fetish Lists (11/16/2007 6:51:45 AM)

Ok, here goes... *perpares to be bombarded with "this has been discussed before" statements*

I'm having difficulty locating previous forums that discuss different types of fetishes. In all honesty, I have compiled a rather long list and explaination of various fetishes. But I'm sure there are some out there that I have not thought of, or come across.

To ensure that I do not miss what someone might otherwise think is obvious, I'm not going to list every one that I already know. But please, if someone has already stated one, and/or explained it well enough... don't repost it. If you have something to add to one already posted, then by all means... enlighten us all of your views and opinions.

Since we can all make lists a mile long, please keep your postings down to... oh, let's say three fetishes that you choose or know of. If you can, explain them too just in case.

What fetishes do you know?




Exquemelin -> RE: Fetish Lists (11/16/2007 8:09:33 AM)

Fetish in the true sense of the word or fetish in the "this makes me hot" sense?  I say I have a mind control fetish, really and truly I have a mind control paraphilia.




RumpusParable -> RE: Fetish Lists (11/16/2007 8:12:56 AM)

Agreed with the above, what use of "fetish" are we talking about?

Fetish = requiring a non-sexual object or situation to become aroused
Fetish = aroused by something generally non-sexual in nature
Fetish = anything that one finds strongly attractive/arousing

Which one(s)?




Celeste43 -> RE: Fetish Lists (11/16/2007 8:12:56 AM)

Classic fetish in that I cannot be aroused without the nonsexual object being present? None.

Top three on my hit parade? Rope, gags, blindfolds. Tied for fourth place; pallet wrap and spankings.




topcat -> RE: Fetish Lists (11/16/2007 8:33:47 AM)

Letsee...

Ballon Fetish ( this one really floored me- not that I thought that it was so out there, but that I hadn't come across it, and that it's bigger than you'd think.)
Dacrophilla (you mean everyone doesn't get aroused by a crying girl?)
Hair fetish- I mean as a real fetish, not a particular like for hair, but not really caring about the person attached.
Wig fetish- apparently, some people find wig wearing conceptually arrousing. I can't quite get it myself...Daterape fetish. Really I know this girl who's idea of a great time is to get her drink spiked, and wake up the next day sticky and sore. interesting- scary, but interesting.

I have found in myself a bit of a fetish (ok, well, a paraphilla) for girls cross-dressing. think What's her name in Shakespeare in Love, or Keira Knightly <sp?> in Pirates OTC II. What's that called?




Dnomyar -> RE: Fetish Lists (11/16/2007 9:47:39 AM)

Celeste43 try bubble wrap.




breatheasone -> RE: Fetish Lists (11/16/2007 10:02:17 AM)

watching really rough, brutal porn gets me...I'm not sure how much of me wants that in real life [:)]





bipolarber -> RE: Fetish Lists (11/16/2007 10:09:52 AM)

Top three fetishes? None. (I can get off without anything around me, naked, and some naughty thoughts)

Top three paraphillias:

1.I seem to have a "thing" for being transformed. Being taken out of my everyday existence, and changed into a pony, or a dog, or to simply have my identity erased, turning me into an "object" for use... As such, hoods are a big turn on, so are various forms of gear that suggest some other kind of persona.

2. Retro "fetish" clothing. I was brought up on my Dad's and Grandfather's pinup magazines. I LOVE retro style clothing of all kinds, but particularly the sexy stuff. Anything that evokes Lilli St. Cyr, or Bettie Page is something that makes my pulse quicken, and the salivary glands kick up a notch.

3. "Hot Talk" (audiophillia?) Listening to a woman talking dirty... not cursing, mind you, but just talking... about what she wants, and how she's going to get me to give it to her exactly how she wants it.... (melt!)





Celeste43 -> RE: Fetish Lists (11/16/2007 12:00:59 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Celeste43 try bubble wrap.


I can suggest it to him but I just see myself giggling uncontrollably as he pops the bubbles. Pallet wrap is on a handle which makes it easier to apply than saran and in winter, it's much warmer than rope.




TenderMistress -> RE: Fetish Lists (11/16/2007 1:19:21 PM)

There are a couple that were mentioned that I haven't come across. Thank you. Keep adding if you can though. I'll keep checking.

And no, I did not specify exactly what I meant by fetish because then the door would be closed to things that might not otherwise be stated. So open your mind, and tell me what YOU see. They don't have to necessarily be yours personally, but that's up to you!




ResidentSadist -> RE: Fetish Lists (11/16/2007 11:12:24 PM)

8 Clinical Paraphilias
In my research I have noticed that there are only 8 officially recognized clinical paraphilias. 
  1. Exhibitionism: the recurrent urge or behavior to expose one's genitals to an unsuspecting person.
  2. Fetishism: the use of non-sexual or nonliving objects or part of a person's body to gain sexual excitement. Partialism refers to fetishes specifically involving nonsexual parts of the body.
  3. Frotteurism: the recurrent urges or behavior of touching or rubbing against a nonconsenting person.
  4. Pedophilia: the sexual attraction to prepubescent or peripubescent children.
  5. Sexual Masochism: the recurrent urge or behavior of wanting to be humiliated, beaten, bound, or otherwise made to suffer.
  6. Sexual Sadism: the recurrent urge or behavior involving acts in which the pain or humiliation of the victim is sexually exciting.
  7. Transvestic fetishism: a sexual attraction towards the clothing of the opposite gender.
  8. Voyeurism: the recurrent urge or behavior to observe an unsuspecting person who is naked, disrobing or engaging in sexual activities, or may not be sexual in nature at all.


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Paraphilia List Declining
Perverts will become endangered species
There were
previously more than 8 paraphilias because homosexuality was listed as a paraphilia in the old DSM-I and DSM-II (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual).  We are currently on text revision DSM-!V-TR. 
Now the modern medical community is moving to completely abolish sadism and masochism as disease categories in the future of DSM-V-TR.  Arguments are that the truly pathological forms of sadism and masochism are adequately covered by other diagnoses. 

The definition of various sexual practices as paraphilias has been met with opposition and the medical community is getting political pressure to remove sadism and masochism as paraphilias from the upcoming DSM-V-TR.  Efforts by the BDSM lifestyle communities, the ReviseF65 project and the many coalitions for sexual freedom, claim discrimination against sadomasochism referring to the precedent of removing of homosexuality from the list of mental disorders in the current DSM. 


If they abolish sadism and masochism as paraphilias, that will bring the list of clinically recognized paraphilias down from 8 to 6 and set masochists and sadists apart from being official recognized as perverts.  That's OK with me, I didn't want my sadism to be officially recognized, covered by medical insurance or cured.

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106 Paraphilias


  1. Abasiophilia: love of (or sexual attraction to) people who are lame or crippled and/or who use leg braces or other orthopaedic appliances

  2. Acarophilia: sexual pleasure from being tickled

  3. Acomophilia: sexual attraction to baldness (also hairless genitalia)

  4. Acousticophilia: sexual arousal from certain sounds

  5. Acrotomophilia: love of (or sexual attraction to) amputation or amputees

  6. Adolescentilism: sexual pleasure from acting or dressing like an adolescent

  7. Aelurophilia: a form of zoophilia—sexual attraction to cats

  8. Agalmatophilia: sexual attraction to statues or mannequins or immobility

  9. Algolagnia: sexual pleasure from pain

  10. Amaurophilia: sexual arousal by a partner whom one is unable to see due to artificial means, such as being blindfolded or having sex in total darkness. (See: sensory deprivation)

  11. Andromimetophilia: love of women dressed as men or have had a sex change; see also gynemimetophilia

  12. Apodysophilia: desire to undress, see also nudism

  13. Apotemnophilia: desire to have (or sexual arousal from having) a healthy appendage (limb, digit, or male genitals) amputated

  14. Aquaphilia: arousal from water and/or in watery environments, including bathtubs or swimming pools

  15. Aretifism: sexual attraction to people who are without footwear, in contrast to retifism

  16. Asphyxiophilia: sexual attraction to asphyxia; also called breath control play (or being strangled); including autoerotic asphyxiation; see medical warnings

  17. Autoabasiophilia: sexual attraction to oneself being lame or crippled

  18. Autagonistophilia: sexual arousal from being observed or creating conditions for faciliating observation; see also exhibitionism

  19. Autogynephilia: love of oneself as a woman (also see Blanchard, Bailey, and Lawrence theory for discussion on controversy)

  20. Autonephioplia: (a.k.a diaper fetishism) sexual arousal from diapers

  21. Autossassinophilia: sexual arousal from fantasizing about or staging one's own murder

  22. Biastophilia: sexual pleasure from committing rape or being raped; see also raptophilia

  23. Celebriphilia: pathological desire to have sex with a celebrity

  24. Chrematistophilia: sexual arousal from paying for sex or being robbed by one’s sexual partner; see also harpaxophilia

  25. Coprophilia: sexual attraction to (or pleasure from) feces

  26. Crush fetish: sexual arousal from seeing small creatures being crushed by members of the opposite sex, or being crushed oneself

  27. Dacryphilia: sexual pleasure in eliciting tears from others or oneself

  28. Dendrophilia: sexual attraction to trees and other large plants, popularized by the movie Superstar with Molly Shannon

  29. Dwarf or 'midget' fetishism: sexual attraction to little people

  30. Emetophilia (a.k.a. vomerophilia): sexual attraction to vomit

  31. Endytophilia: prefering to have sexual activity while fully clothed

  32. Ephebophilia (a.k.a. hebephilia): sexual attraction towards adolescents

  33. Eproctophilia: sexual attraction to flatulence

  34. Erotophonophilia: sexual arousal from trying to commit murder

  35. Exhibitionism: (a.k.a peodeiktophilia) sexual arousal through sexual behavior in view of third parties (also includes the recurrent urge or behavior to expose one's genitals to an unsuspecting person)

  36. Faunoiphilia: sexual arousal from watching animals mate

  37. Fecophile: sexual arousal from defacation or watching a partner defecate, paticularly on oneself.

  38. Sexual fetishism: is the use of non-sexual or nonliving objects or part of a person's body to gain sexual excitement. Examples include: Balloon fetishism -- breast fetishism -- bike fetish -- foot fetishism (podophilia) -- fur fetishism -- leather fetishism -- lipstick fetishism -- medical fetishism -- panty fetishism -- robot fetishism -- rubber fetishism -- shoe fetishism -- smoking fetishism -- spandex fetishism -- dental braces fetishism -- transvestic fetishism (see below)

  39. Formicophilia: sexual attraction to smaller animals, insects, etc. crawling on parts of the body

  40. Forniphilia: sexual objectification in which a person's body is incorporated into a piece of furniture

  41. Frotteurism: sexual arousal from the recurrent urge or behavior of touching or rubbing against a nonconsenting person

  42. Galactophilia: (a.k.a lactophilia) sexual attraction to human milk or lactating women

  43. Gerontophilia: sexual attraction towards the elderly

  44. Gynemimetophilia: love of men dressed as women or have had a sex change; see also andromimetophilia

  45. Gynophagia: sexual attraction toward eating woman

  46. Haematophilia: sexual attraction involving blood (either on another person or the liquid itself; not to be confused with haemophilia, a genetic disorder of the blood)

  47. Harpaxophilia: sexual arousal from being the victim of a robbery or burglary; see also chrematistophilia

  48. Homeovestism: sexual attraction towards the clothing of one's own gender

  49. Hybristophilia: sexual arousal to people who have committed crimes, in particular cruel or outrageous crimes

  50. Hypephilia: sexual attraction to fabrics

  51. Incestophilia: sexual attraction to one's own family

  52. Infantilism: sexual pleasure from dressing, acting, or being treated as a baby

  53. Katoptronophilia: sexual arousal from having sex in front of mirrors

  54. Kleptophilia: sexual arousal from stealing things

  55. Klismaphilia: sexual pleasure from enemas

  56. Lust murder: sexual arousal through committing murder

  57. Macrophilia: sexual attraction to larger people and large things (including larger body organs such as breasts and genitalia)

  58. Maiesiophilia: sexual attraction to childbirth or pregnant women

  59. Masochism: the recurrent urge or behavior of wanting to be humiliated, beaten, bound, or otherwise made to suffer

  60. Mechaphilia: sexual attraction to machines, especially robots or androids

  61. Microphilia: sexual attraction to smaller people and things of smaller size

  62. Mysophilia: sexual attraction to soiled, dirty, foul or decaying material

  63. Narratophilia: sexual arousal in the use of dirty or obscene words to a partner

  64. Nasophilia: sexual attraction to the sight, touch of human noses

  65. Necrophilia: sexual attraction to corpses

  66. Necrozoophilia: (a.k.a necrobestiality) sexual attraction to the corpses or killings of animals

  67. Nepiophilia: (a.k.a. infantophilia) sexual attraction to children three years old or younger

  68. Olafactophilia: sexual stimulus with smells or odors

  69. Parthenophilia: sexual attraction to virgins

  70. Pecattiphilia: sexual arousal from sinning or guilt

  71. Pediophilia: sexual attraction to dolls

  72. Pedophilia: sexual attraction to prepubescent children (British spelling: paedophilia)

  73. Phalloorchoalgolagnia: sexual arousal by the experiencing of painful stimuli being administered to the male genitals

  74. Pictophilia: sexual attraction to pictorial pornography or erotic art

  75. Plushophilia: sexual attraction to stuffed toys or people in animal costume, such as theme park characters

  76. Pyrophilia: sexual arousal through watching, setting, hearing, talking or fantasizing about fire

  77. Raptophilia: sexually attracted to the idea of being raped; see also biastophilia

  78. Retifism: sexual arousal from shoes

  79. Sadism: sexual arousal from giving pain

  80. Saliromania: sexual arousal or satisfaction of soiling or damaging a partner’s clothing

  81. Schediaphilia (a.k.a. toonophilia): love of (or sexual arousal from) cartoon characters or situations; see moe

  82. Scoptophilia: sexual pleasure from watching other people have sex; not to be confused with voyeurism

  83. Sitophilia: sexual arousal from food

  84. Somnophilia: sexual arousal from sleeping or unconscious people

  85. Spectrophilia: sexual attraction to ghosts

  86. Stigmatophilia: sexual focus on a partner who is tatooed or scarred

  87. Stygiophilia: sexual pleasure from the thought of going to hell

  88. Symphorophilia: sexual attraction with stage-managing a disaster, such as a traffic accident

  89. Telephone scatologia: being sexually aroused by making obscene telephone calls to strangers

  90. Telephonicophilia: sexual arousal in explicit phone conversations

  91. Teratophilia: sexual attraction to deformed or monstrous people

  92. Toonophilia: (a.k.a. schediaphilia) sexual attraction to cartoons or anime characters

  93. Transformation fetish: sexual arousal from depictions of transformations of people into objects or other beings

  94. Transvestic fetishism: (a.k.a transvestitism) sexual attraction towards the clothing of the opposite gender

  95. Trichophilia: sexual arousal from hair

  96. Troilism: sharing a sexual partner with another person while looking on

  97. Urolagnia: sexual attraction to urine

  98. Vincilagnia: sexual arousal by bondage

  99. Vomerophilia: (a.k.a. emetophilia) sexual attraction to the act of vomiting

  100. Vorarephilia: sexual attraction to being eaten by, and/or eating, another person or creature

  101. Voyeurism: sexual arousal through secretly watching others having sex (also includes the recurrent urge or behavior to observe an unsuspecting person who is naked, disrobing or engaging in sexual activities, see peeping tom)

  102. Xenophilia: sexual attraction to foreigners (in science fiction, can also mean sexual attraction to aliens)

  103. Xylophilia: sexual attraction to wood

  104. Zelophilia: sexual arousal from jealousy

  105. Zoophilia: emotional or sexual attraction to animals

  106. Zoosadism: the sexual enjoyment of causing pain and suffering to animals




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