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Aine -> RE: Wax Play (11/18/2007 6:26:37 AM)

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Amen on the parrafn wax.

We started with little tealights, and loved, loved, LOVED it, so the next day I went out and bought a parrafin wax bath for hands and feet!  Double use!  It's perfect.




HardnRuff -> RE: Wax Play (11/18/2007 9:22:43 AM)

No Oone uses a candy thermometer to check the temps ?




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Wax Play (11/18/2007 11:36:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: HardnRuff
No Oone uses a candy thermometer to check the temps ?

I'm sure some people do, but all that gives you is an immediate reading of a particular number at a particular time.

Knowing how much a person can tend to take at that particular moment, at whatever particular height, at whatever particular body part with whatever particular mix of wax has absolutely nothing to do with the literal temperature of the wax at the moment that I don't find it very useful.

But then my mother never uses one when she makes stuff either, so maybe I'm just following her lead.




YourhandMyAss -> RE: Wax Play (11/18/2007 1:01:49 PM)

I've also heard that baby oil rubbed into the skin, then drip wax,will help with getting it off easier, and have used baby oil myself in the ease of clean up.
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ORIGINAL: eyesopened

wax can be messy but doesn't need to be.  ice applied afterward makes the wax easier to remove with less mess. 




slaveofKaos -> RE: Wax Play (11/18/2007 1:07:42 PM)

Massage candles work well I believe they are made out of soy, your boy or girl will be very soft to the touch afterwards.




MsBearlee -> RE: Wax Play (11/19/2007 11:46:12 AM)

Lots of good advice on how to apply, here…here is one way to remove it:
 
I love wax play and I end up fairly coating my subject’s entire torso as if in a second skin.  Once there is a single layer of wax, it is a good idea to drip from a height closer to the body or perhaps raise the temp of the pot of wax; to ensure it remains warm to the recipient.  Sometimes I just drip it on, sometimes I let it collect on the candle and then pour it on…other times I use a big, soft brush and paint it on.  Which ever method, I end up with quite a thick, though pliable ‘second skin’ on the body and the subject is off in la-la land.  LOL
 
Then, I take my cold, steel knife and begin somewhere along the ribs or a bit under the arm, where the dripping wax has stopped and work the tip of it up and under; in-between skin and wax. The wax is usually soft and pliable, and as I work, I pull it back over the body…as if I am skinning them.  The sensation is awesome (to both of us) as I carefully work the knife; the skin is hyper sensitive and quite pink, the knife is sharp and smooth as well as cold on that skin.  When I work around nipples or genital area, carefully using the tip of the knife to 'encourage' the wax to release, I watch toes curl and hear soft moaning.  It is a lot like filleting your victim and makes for a great head-trip.
 
MsB




bipolarber -> RE: Wax Play (11/19/2007 1:47:28 PM)

Another fun effect is to get out that black light you got for Halloween, and look for flourecent candles. (There are plenty on the market which are low temp melt.) But it's always rather interesting to watch the stuff form and harden on the skin of someone who is lit in a dark purple ... Kind of like splashing the invisible man... Put on some psychodellic music from the 60's, and have a hot wax freak-out, baby!





MsSaskia -> RE: Wax Play (11/20/2007 8:01:37 AM)

Some things I do that I haven't seen mentioned yet:

Baby powder over the skin first.  Helps ease removal and doesn't get hot the way oil does

Use crockpots to heat whatever wax you're using.  I have a large crockpot that I mostly fill with pure paraffin, but have started mixing with soy wax.  I got a small electric skillet and filled it with number of ceramic pots that I keep soy wax, paraffin and candle pigments (or crayon) in. 

With crockpots full of melted wax, I dip in feathers, sponge rollers (the ones made for decoupage work well), huge paint brushes, itty bitty paint brushes, miniature ladels (from the dollhouse section at the craft store) and slightly larger ladels.  A friend recently gave me some glass straws to tip into the molten wax so that I can hold my thumb on one end of the tube before pulling it from the pot, then release it to let a stream of molten wax down onto a few layers of wax on skin.  I also wait to use bigger ladels til I have a few layers down on the skin to help the heat of a splash dissipate quickly. 

Note of caution with crock pots:  don't leave them on high and, if you do turn them up high for a short period to speed liquification, be aware that the paraffin can send off fumes that are volatile and can explode in the presence of flame.  Also, if you have the wax on high and don't give it half an hour or so (depending on volume in pot) to cool, you're going to burn the bejesus out of your partner with even the most innocuous of applicators.  Also be careful of using short-handled implements in the crock pot: they have a way of slipping under the surface and digging them back out is not easy, plus they're too hot to hold for several minutes after.  Any metal on brushes etc. can also get hot enough to burn skin very badly if you're careless and lay a brush down on a person or even touch them with it briefly.

Some friends of mine hold blocks of paraffin in toothed tongs and hold a small blowtorch to the wax to get it to drip onto skin.  It looks like fun and I may end up using it for a performance sometime, but I personally looooove the way feathers and hot wax feels on my own skin (like hot silk) and fussing with all the brushes is fun, so I'll probably stick with that technique.

What everybody's said about height is very true.  I'd add that you can use a crayon and a blowtorch as your main materials as long as you know for sure how hot that wax is when it hits your partner's skin.  Drip it onto your fabric-free foot, drip it onto your nekkid knee, drip it onto your bare belly and observe carefully:  how bad does it burn YOU, how quickly does your skin turn red, and - most importantly - how quickly does the red fade?  If the red isn't fading, you may have caused a burn or even a blister, so plan on making some changes before you cackle too evilly and make a move on your partner. 

A game I like to play with a candle, ice cube and blindfold is "fire or ice?"  Sometimes a blindfolded bottom cannot immediately tell whether what just hit them is a drop of molten wax or a drop of icewater.  And if you're not playing a guessing game, having an ice cube there can serve as a follow up to cool down sensitive (in terms of color changing/burnable) skin after a few drops or splashes or strokes of hot wax.  .

Removal:  knives and rough brushes are favorites.  It's a bit like shaving, then currying (as in horses).




tdslittlehelper -> RE: Wax Play (11/20/2007 10:21:57 AM)

www.bdsmwaxplay.com !!! There are instructions as well as a link to TenderDom... the candle man!




GhitaAmati -> RE: Wax Play (11/20/2007 10:39:14 AM)

My favortie part of wax play is the knife play afterwards to remove it all! We actually started out with wax play using the glade scented candles that everyone swears are bad to use. I am sure the chemicals in them could probably cause reactions in some people, but we found as long as we stuck to the lighter and pastel type colors we never had a problem with the wax being too hot. If you go to the craft store and look in the do it yourself candle making supply section you can find all sorts of things, generally cheaper than buying lots of premade candles. Expessially if you are just gonna melt the wax in a crockpot or one of the parrafin foot bath thingys.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Wax Play (11/20/2007 3:56:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: MsSaskia
Some things I do that I haven't seen mentioned yet:

Baby powder over the skin first.  Helps ease removal and doesn't get hot the way oil does

Use crockpots to heat whatever wax you're using.  I have a large crockpot that I mostly fill with pure paraffin, but have started mixing with soy wax.  I got a small electric skillet and filled it with number of ceramic pots that I keep soy wax, paraffin and candle pigments (or crayon) in. 

That's weird- is my post not visible to others? 




satyrsnymph28 -> RE: Wax Play (11/20/2007 5:50:25 PM)

I'm sure a fair share of people have blocked you...

or didn't bother to read the length of your post...

either one would explain that




Missokyst -> RE: Wax Play (11/20/2007 10:28:34 PM)

Wooooooooooohooooooooo I love those!  Fun, pretty, and is very sexy in the proper light
Kyst
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ORIGINAL: bipolarber

Another fun effect is to get out that black light you got for Halloween, and look for flourecent candles. (There are plenty on the market which are low temp melt.) But it's always rather interesting to watch the stuff form and harden on the skin of someone who is lit in a dark purple ... Kind of like splashing the invisible man... Put on some psychodellic music from the 60's, and have a hot wax freak-out, baby!






MsSaskia -> RE: Wax Play (11/21/2007 1:21:50 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
That's weird- is my post not visible to others? 


Somehow I must have only skimmed yours and overlooked the important stuff you had to say.  I do beg your pardon. 

EDIT:  OK - after reading through your post a second time to see if I really was parroting you I can see that yes, you do mention some of the same materials I mentioned.  We don't use them the same way and we don't use all the same things.  I use baby powder as a preventative.  You use it for aftercare.  You use what I assume is a big crock pot for  melting wax.  So do I, and I offer details on safety issues with the pots.  I also suggest something involving an electric skillet that I don't see in your post.  I specifically mention feathers.  You would probably list that as "other objects".  Oki doki, then.  Our posts are on the same subject and use similar materials in different ways.  Yours was great.  Mine is mine.  Vive la difference.




MsSaskia -> RE: Wax Play (11/21/2007 1:22:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: bipolarber

Another fun effect is to get out that black light you got for Halloween, and look for flourecent candles. (There are plenty on the market which are low temp melt.) But it's always rather interesting to watch the stuff form and harden on the skin of someone who is lit in a dark purple ... Kind of like splashing the invisible man... Put on some psychodellic music from the 60's, and have a hot wax freak-out, baby!


I think I've seen Jae do that for performances.  Did you teach her that?




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