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RE: Taking someone under consideration - 11/3/2005 1:46:15 PM

OrlandoMars

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When you say you "were told" was there any discussion up front about, I don't know, whether that would be something you were interested in? Because if not, I would take "under consideration" to mean "I'm trying to see if your dumb enough to move to the midwest, sight unseen, where I keep my bedroom in my Mother's house and where I like playing World of Warcraft until 4 in the morning because I have no friends".

Generally, the phrase "under consideration" is used to indicate to other Dominants that a submissive may be "off the market" for want of a better phrase and that, should, only happen after sufficent period of time has passed for you to establish a relationship (which implies <ghasp> two way communication), boundaries and limits have been discussed and agreed and generally both sides know in which way the relationship is heading.

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RE: Taking someone under consideration - 11/4/2005 11:50:54 PM

djs8163

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Need advise about finding a nice, trustworthy guy willing to seduce my older wife..

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RE: Taking someone under consideration - 11/5/2005 12:30:59 AM

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Now, just for fun flip the gender of the situation and some male had pierced the body of a female without warning or consent because he found her rude. Let's see how fast the screams of "abuse" show up.

If you want my honest opinion (which I'm sure ya don't but I'm giving it anyways), I don't think many, if any, female dominants would be so crass and, dare I say, idiodic, as to lift their skirt, stick out their vagina, and demand some oral sex.

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Seduction was RE: Taking someone under consideration - 11/5/2005 5:42:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: djs8163

Need advise about finding a nice, trustworthy guy willing to seduce my older wife..

Has she asked for this seduction or have you told her about your plan? Absent this, I'd say you have a consent problem. With her consent, it could be a very hot scene.

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RE: Taking someone under consideration - 11/5/2005 6:49:45 AM

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As a FemDom/Top, I do read this section to hear the prespective of the Dom AND sub, but find it odd sometimes that many threads here (in "Ask a Master") are filled primarily with the POV from the submissive.

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<raises hand> i am guilty of posting in this Section, and am submissive. i never meant any offense, but if i was out-of-line for doing so, i will discontinue. Please advise.

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RE: Taking someone under consideration - 11/5/2005 7:31:27 AM

Kasia

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ORIGINAL: MrThorns

Absolutely no girly products in Master's bathroom.

I suppose then you have spare bathroom for your girls.
Living in three rooms apartment with only one bathroom I have to put up with lots of "boyish" products, along with hair from shaving and dirty socks on the floor. Wish I could expell all that in favour of my little parfume bottles but alas not enough room for all our stuff.
I envy you.

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RE: Taking someone under consideration - 11/5/2005 10:19:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: IronBear

Small story I was told a few moments ago by a sub I have known for years… Last weekend she was at a party and some jerk of a Master ordered her to kneel to his cock and if he were satisfied with her “service” he would consider a collar for her. Now it is important to understand that she is lesbian and will never play or be collared by a man.. Soo she knelt obediently and unzipped his fly and extracted his limpet.. before he realised what was happening, she pierced him with a safety pin and clipped it shut and sweetly told him that that was his collar and he had failed her test…. Knowing them both (he is a complete idiot all the time and she is fast in restraining people and a police officer in her “Spare” time, I’m inclined to believe her story.)

well true or not i did have a chuckle, thank you

i had forgotten all about this thread, ooppsss

being 'under consideration' proved quite amusing and the conversation became very one sided, i found it most odd that he said he wanted to get to know me more and i was the one asking all the questions. Needless to say i got fedup and communication soon got lost in the void of deep space, some wormhole eating it and getting rid off who knows where.

when another Dom said he was considering me, fraid i didnt take it very seriously, i agree with you Mr Thorns, tis all a bit chicken and egg.

sure for some this system works well

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