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velvetears -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 12:34:37 AM)

Stop the attention seeking antics and grow up a bit, then maybe you will find someone.  Pity parties are only fun for the ones throwing them. 



MissMagnolia -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 12:36:42 AM)

Well be fair, she did get three pages of responses, so she got the attention she wanted.[:D]



meatcleaver -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 1:08:02 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: hermione83

But, but.. I'm confused. How do you find boots if you weren't.. um.. looking at boots? And likewise, a Master?? 


Why don't you just go out, find a guy and get him to fuck you in the ass? It's simple, there are millions of guys out there that would gladly have the opportunity. Just like boots, you try before you buy. I'm sure you could wiggle your ass enough to attract attention and at 24 you have age on your side.



twistedkytten -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 1:28:20 AM)

FR-

I am sure many have mentioned how your post (OP) seems like either an exersize in self pity, or a ploy for attention, perhaps even a "wanted" add, so i won't bother.. however, negativity breeds only more of the same, and could,  quite possibly attract something that will have you posting again in a few short weeks about heart ache etc.
I would offer this.. while waiting or seeking your One, try to find things to do that make you a better person, better sub/slave, learn skills that might make you stand out (for lack of a better term.. sorry) from all the others who are seeking. It is in some ways a bit like marketing yourself.. the more you have to offer, or can bring to the table, the better it is..
Make sure you are ready for what it is you want..



subrob1967 -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 7:37:44 AM)

You're looking for a liberal 20 something virgin Master? Good luck with that, seriously.



RCdc -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 8:29:03 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: velvetears

Stop the attention seeking antics and grow up a bit, then maybe you will find someone.  Pity parties are only fun for the ones throwing them. 


Ach velvet, ya not thinking that people prefere not to wallow in pity and instead actually do something constructive with their lives instead of awaiting that 'master' who's will come along and be constructive for them![;)]
 
the.dark.



seeksfemslave -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 4:32:12 PM)

Well I say good luck to Hermione and I hope she eventually finds what she is looking for.
To admit to being a virgin in this day and age is about as wicked as its possible to be.



luckydog1 -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 4:42:21 PM)

Its going to be pretty hard to find a virgin male over the age of 17 who is interested in BDSM, and is Dominant in anyway.  If you dropped the Virgin requirement you would have a better chance...



SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 4:44:35 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: meatcleaver

quote:

ORIGINAL: hermione83

But, but.. I'm confused. How do you find boots if you weren't.. um.. looking at boots? And likewise, a Master?? 


Why don't you just go out, find a guy and get him to fuck you in the ass? It's simple, there are millions of guys out there that would gladly have the opportunity. Just like boots, you try before you buy. I'm sure you could wiggle your ass enough to attract attention and at 24 you have age on your side.


red! red!  no more talk of her ass please!



KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 4:45:30 PM)

There WAS a virgin Dom...but well...Anywho...Good luck in your searches, change your outlook on life, stop looking, somethings bound to happen, blah blah blah <insert encouraging words here>



LotusSong -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 4:51:59 PM)

buh-bye, then.
 
(however, I do hope your post gets you the additional attention you intended... sometimes the pity ploy does work.)



osocurious -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 4:54:31 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx
......  blah blah blah <insert encouraging words here>

LmfaoOOOoooOOoooo at that kyttyn
... erm ... ditto!! [sm=applause.gif]



Zensee -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 4:56:38 PM)

You might find a virgin dom on a Christian BDSM site but there's not likely any here.

I'm with the 'change your expectations and change your attitude' gang. Perfect is long long way from excellent.


Z.



sexyred1 -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 5:09:04 PM)

You all crack me up; I mean really and truly.

I don't give a crap if you are her age or 100. If you are single and looking for a Master, Dom, sub or slave, vanilla partner or whatever, don't fucking tell people to STOP LOOKING AND THE AMAZING WHITE KNIGHT OF YOUR DREAMS IS GOING TO FIND YOU. As if not looking is going to help; you have to put yourself out there for whatever you need in life, further your career, looking for a mate, whatever. To sit idly by and just hope is passive.

Oh, and for all the "work on yourself, find other interests, blah blah blah" people, did it ever freaking occur to you that some people have already found themselves, have tons of interests, friends, family, work, hobbies, etc. and STILL have not found what they are looking for?

But no, keeping blaming the person who is still seeking; is so easy to do so when sitting from the smug comfort of your living rooms with your partner in the next room.

Give me a fucking break.



KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 5:19:03 PM)

Funny you say that.  My partner isnt in the room next to me, but thousand of miles away for circumstances neither can help.

At any rate, forgive me for giving advice to the best of my abilities.  Wait, dont.  She posted, we responded.  Dont like it, dont read.  Not being snotty, catty, bitchy, whatever, just saying my piece.  Oh yea, and personally, I dont blame her, but the woe is me attitude could be changed to a slightly more positive outlook. 




sexyred1 -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 6:05:02 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx

Funny you say that.  My partner isnt in the room next to me, but thousand of miles away for circumstances neither can help.

At any rate, forgive me for giving advice to the best of my abilities.  Wait, dont.  She posted, we responded.  Dont like it, dont read.  Not being snotty, catty, bitchy, whatever, just saying my piece.  Oh yea, and personally, I dont blame her, but the woe is me attitude could be changed to a slightly more positive outlook. 




I get that. I do. I agree about the "woe is me" attitude. But the overwhelming hypocrisy of people throwing out platitudes just drives me up the wall. I know I was being bitchy, but you read so much of this crap and as much as people post it, I can post back when in the mood.

I agree wholeheartedly about being postive, but let us stop with the needlepointed pillows please.

P.S. And I understand that not every partnered person is sitting next to their partner, as in your case; which is equally tough. I was trying to make a general point.



Aneirin -> RE: Life sucks. There's no Master out there for me. (11/19/2007 6:36:24 PM)

Don't worry, it will all happen when the time is right, try not looking.

I was like yourself, thinking the same, searching, constantly searching to no avail and getting a bit miffed with it all. Now, I know the right person will come along when the time is right for that to happen, that I am confident.

So, on here and other places I go, all I seek is friends and no pressure. I like a situation where two people can just be as friends be.Be that online or off.I don't seek thrills online and do not ask of it from those I know as friends.

I have not ruled out sometimes relationships blossom from good friendships and so keep an open mind, one day the right person will come along and I do seek the ,'right' ,person.I will give everything to that person when it happens, which is when the time is right.

You WILL find your man, probably when you least expect it!



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