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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/23/2007 10:15:32 AM   
solvr70


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ORIGINAL: MistressFaye1

I mix it up.  To Me that is so much more alluring.  The thrill of seeing the faces of some subs when they think something is up because I ask for seemingly simple tasks to be performed while in public.  Since I change up a lot, there is no way for them to know if this is the day "something" will happen or not.  The longer we're out the more intense and tight he becomes.  One would try to out guess me and was on alert and did well all the time. Once we went out on the town.  I had planned a scene and we had discussed stopping and getting a bottle of my favorite wine on the way home.  I met with the owner (a friend of mine that knows us both) earlier and gave her a box to give to him when he came in to pick up the wine.  She told him, "Your Mistress said to give this to you."  Got him!!!!!!  My friend knew of him but he didn't know she knew.  She also gave him a note and said, "she said to read this now and follow the instructions." 

He's a conservative dresser and in the box was a harness, collar with three rings, tight leather pants with the instructions to wear it as is as he walked through the store getting the wine.  There was a leash in the box and he was told to attach the collar and have our friend lead him to me from the store.  Imagine what that did to Mr. Know-It All.  I noticed the pants were fitting tight in a certain place.  We made another stop... the popular gay club in the neighborhood.  I consider that soft to hard, or maybe not since we had a ball! 

Keep em guessing ladies!  It adds to more fun for the both of you.

Ms. Faye


VERY creative m'Lady! not an easy thing buying leather pants for someone else either as they can be very snug and do not have much give when they are first put on.

And what of the stop You made at the popular gay club...what did You have happen there? (that having been in a dream or two i have had myself)

mark

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/23/2007 1:35:02 PM   
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Being subtle and discreet while remaining in control is a huge turn-on for me.  i enjoy public play tremendously using it as foreplay!  I have also used butt plugs on submissives in the past requairing them to wear loose fitting clothing.  I have left my panties on the table and insisted he go back for them. 

Vibrating wireless remote controlled toys - YUMMY


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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/23/2007 1:39:31 PM   
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Once we went out on the town.  I had planned a scene and we had discussed stopping and getting a bottle of my favorite wine on the way home.  I met with the owner (a friend of mine that knows us both) earlier and gave her a box to give to him when he came in to pick up the wine.  She told him, "Your Mistress said to give this to you."  Got him!!!!!!  My friend knew of him but he didn't know she knew.  She also gave him a note and said, "she said to read this now and follow the instructions." 

He's a conservative dresser and in the box was a harness, collar with three rings, tight leather pants with the instructions to wear it as is as he walked through the store getting the wine.  There was a leash in the box and he was told to attach the collar and have our friend lead him to me from the store.  Imagine what that did to Mr. Know-It All.  I noticed the pants were fitting tight in a certain place.


I can imagine. I turned to granite just reading it.

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/23/2007 2:30:57 PM   
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omgawd azrope..... awesome...as well as the other thoughts ladies n gents, grinssss... I have to try these with my pet, Im loving the home depot idea tho, hes a huge HD and Lowes fan. I know sometimes ideas come up that can seem like wank fodder, but I do love the idea of sharing hints n tips.....great thread :) I have to admit, I do like both soft and hard, just to reinforce the control when in "normal surroundings" yummy
Making notes now, ya evil evil people
Lucy

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/23/2007 5:00:25 PM   
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Oh how yummy and wicked this read has been!  Thanks to all of you for some absolutely juicy ideas!! 





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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/25/2007 1:15:19 AM   
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One of My faves was using a butt plug in one boy ... his ass was threatening to suck the whole thing in ... so I attached a couple of curtain-type rings to the bottom of the plug (it had a little attachment embedded fortunately) so I had something to reach in and grab! The rings seemed to hover pretty much at the entrance. Then W/we headed off to dinner ... at a Greek restaurant (seemed apt ) ... he did very well but eventually began to fidget rather a lot, earning a rebuke. he turned big soulful eyes on Me and said ... "but Mistress, the wooden chair ... the metal rings ... " poor darling! LOL!

Another was when I took him and another slave out for coffee and cake ... and refused to let them reply to the (male) waiter. I did all the talking. The boys thought it was hilarious, especially as the waiter began to get more and more insistent and creative in trying to get the boys to respond! 

I like subtle public play, it's huge fun.

Maam Jay aka violet[A] 

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RE: Subtle vs hardcore domination - 11/25/2007 8:50:25 AM   
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Thank you I must try that with my new sub love reading it!!!!

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