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Sirsinini -> heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 2:52:56 PM)
I've been reading alot about self proclaimed "slaves" who ask what is the difference between a slave and submissive and they have been owned and collared within weeks of finding "the" one, they know from "intuition," and for gawd sake, HAVE NEVER MET "THE ONE" !! What the fuck is that all about ?? They are "in love" with a figment of their imagination, a picture they have choosen to paint of their "one"...and whether it really resembles who they are "collared" too, makes no differnce to them until............. 1. they find out he is married 2. they find out he has another s/s 3. the alpha is extremely jealous 4. he/she is really a she/he 5. they disappear 6................... the list of deceit goes on and on. The "in love" s/s bawls and writes about how they can never trust gain and what a jerk he/she was to lie and deceive. Might I suggest, this s/s left her heart open to be stomped on (doormat), as she was vulnerable for a predator (who doesnt see themselves as such); was so living in fansaty that reality had no bearing and now that reality struck...... the s/s is NOT culpable. Why do men stalk with their cock and why to women wrap their heart around said cock. Why are s/s types so fucking desperate??? Not real questions, but thoughts most welcome Sir's devoted property

IrishMist -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 3:09:50 PM)
Why are YOU so concerned about it one way or another?

Sirsinini -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 3:16:14 PM)
Maybe bleeding hearts and drama brings out my curiosity???? Why did YOU respond? Sir's devoted property

IrishMist -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 3:18:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sirsinini Maybe bleeding hearts and drama brings out my curiosity???? Why did YOU respond? Sir's devoted property Because I am a bitch and it just happens to be a slow night

pinksugarsub -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 3:25:43 PM)
i think almost all women seek emotional attachment to their lover. Maybe it's nature; maybe it's nuture.....but it's not limited to s/s types and it's not a new thing. pinksugarsub

mya75 -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 3:31:41 PM)
I guess I dont consider it cock stalking as most have never touched or met...I have to agree in a way with the OP about women coming across as desperate...but really its kinda like "cry wolf" syndrome .....1.get in relationship you know isnt going to work because its identical to your last 20 that failed...2.get dumped or forgotten.....3.cry about how he left you and lead you on......4. recieve pity.....5.have a reason to let the next 5mths of your life go down the drain.......6.rinse and repeat

Dragynsfury -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 3:39:30 PM)
Everyone wants to be loved. Some people are just good at manipulation and preying on the weakness of others. Proof is in the pudding and online romances don't exist in my world. I'm not a sub...but as a WOMAN who wants to be loved and give love that's just how it is. You perhaps are just stronger minded than other women. W/we should be a shoulder to lean on and an example of how to be versus being malicious and cynical. - my two pennies

kc692 -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 3:46:35 PM)
Well, shynini, seems you are back, and posting in your upbeat style. I read your profile, kinda got a love hate thing going on there about the forums...... But I digress, to the thread: What about the s/s that are upset about female dominants; do we stalk them with our cock too? The op was right when she said DRAMA brought out her curiosity. Maybe bleeding hearts and drama brings out my curiosity????

Jeffff -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 3:47:05 PM)
Grins......... Jeff

Celeste43 -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 3:47:11 PM)
Just because it hasn't worked out for you doesn't mean it hasn't worked out for anybody else. We had a strong connection and an amazing level of compatibility established prior to the first meet. Nerves lasted about half an hour. He collared me within the next month. We were LDR for about 2 years, living together for over 2 1/2. And yes, he is my One. So to all the s types reading this, don't settle for someone like the op who tells you that you can't get the real thing so you might as well play with him. Because the real thing is worth any number of nights alone instead of being with someone who doesn't send you.

missturbation -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 4:20:15 PM)
Ya know what, as hard as this may be to believe i knew Sir was 'a one' for me as soon as i met and spoke to Him. I don't believe there is a just the one but thats beside the point. I spoke to Sir for quite a while before we first played and we played in public, so yes i was safe, sane and consensual and didnt jump straight in but i could have done and i instinctively knew it too. I was in no shape or form desperate when i met Sir, in fact i had sworn off men lol. Nearly nine months later He is one of the most important people in my life and i will never regret jumping in and trusting Him. Why the big concern anyhow if you are settled in a relationship. If you want to show concern for others in their choices there are surely better ways to do it than attack them.

IrishMist -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 4:36:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Jeffff Grins......... Jeff [8D]

KatyLied -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 4:44:38 PM)
quote: Why are s/s types so fucking desperate??? Judging from the emails I receive I would say that the dominant/master types are the desperate ones.

twistedkytten -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 4:44:56 PM)
I knew mine was the One the first time He looked at me... I saw Him a few times here and there.. we talked online and telephone for a couple years... then there was the first meet three years ago.. lots more phone and online.. now schedules permit more frequent get togethers only offering occassional disruptions.. which in truth hit me kind of hard... I am a very cock-minded girl however I think it is my mouth, and not my heart .. that is wrapped around... well never mind.. lol

Sirsinini -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 5:24:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Celeste43 So to all the s types reading this, don't settle for someone like the op who tells you that you can't get the real thing so you might as well play with him. Because the real thing is worth any number of nights alone instead of being with someone who doesn't send you. Smiles Your interpretation of my post is rather interesting, to say the least. Sir's devoted property

jezzabelle -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 5:38:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: Why are s/s types so fucking desperate??? Judging from the emails I receive I would say that the dominant/master types are the desperate ones. Ditto, based on some of the emails i receive (not all since i've made some great friends with a few that have emailed me also)

sexyred1 -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 5:40:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IrishMist quote: ORIGINAL: Sirsinini Maybe bleeding hearts and drama brings out my curiosity???? Why did YOU respond? Sir's devoted property Because I am a bitch and it just happens to be a slow night You kill me, but in a good way. [;)]

batshalom -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 5:43:07 PM)
I don't necessarily think it's desperation. There are some s-types who have only just gotten their feet wet and don't know any better, feel that they must obey all "rules" meted out by the D-type in order to be properly sublike. It's a romantic notion, a hopeful one on their part, and although it makes me sad for some of them and makes me roll my eyes at others of them (the ones that never seem to learn) it doesn't inspire me to any great anger or vehemence. ~shrug~ Kinda falls under "not my prob".

sexyred1 -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 5:44:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sirsinini I've been reading alot about self proclaimed "slaves" who ask what is the difference between a slave and submissive and they have been owned and collared within weeks of finding "the" one, they know from "intuition," and for gawd sake, HAVE NEVER MET "THE ONE" !! What the fuck is that all about ?? They are "in love" with a figment of their imagination, a picture they have choosen to paint of their "one"...and whether it really resembles who they are "collared" too, makes no differnce to them until............. 1. they find out he is married 2. they find out he has another s/s 3. the alpha is extremely jealous 4. he/she is really a she/he 5. they disappear 6................... the list of deceit goes on and on. The "in love" s/s bawls and writes about how they can never trust gain and what a jerk he/she was to lie and deceive. Might I suggest, this s/s left her heart open to be stomped on (doormat), as she was vulnerable for a predator (who doesnt see themselves as such); was so living in fansaty that reality had no bearing and now that reality struck...... the s/s is NOT culpable. Why do men stalk with their cock and why to women wrap their heart around said cock. Why are s/s types so fucking desperate??? Not real questions, but thoughts most welcome Sir's devoted property Hey OP, hon? I just read your profile and was particularly amused by the paragraph starting with "What I don't like about this sight" (btw it is site). Does the phrase "pot calling the kettle black" ring any bells for ya? Sheesh.

OsideGirl -> RE: heart wrapped around cock (11/18/2007 5:44:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Sirsinini I've been reading alot about self proclaimed "slaves" who ask what is the difference between a slave and submissive and they have been owned and collared within weeks of finding "the" one, they know from "intuition," and for gawd sake, HAVE NEVER MET "THE ONE" !! What the fuck is that all about ?? They are "in love" with a figment of their imagination, a picture they have choosen to paint of their "one"...and whether it really resembles who they are "collared" too, makes no differnce to them until............. 1. they find out he is married 2. they find out he has another s/s 3. the alpha is extremely jealous 4. he/she is really a she/he 5. they disappear 6................... the list of deceit goes on and on. The "in love" s/s bawls and writes about how they can never trust gain and what a jerk he/she was to lie and deceive. Might I suggest, this s/s left her heart open to be stomped on (doormat), as she was vulnerable for a predator (who doesnt see themselves as such); was so living in fansaty that reality had no bearing and now that reality struck...... the s/s is NOT culpable. Why do men stalk with their cock and why to women wrap their heart around said cock. Why are s/s types so fucking desperate??? Not real questions, but thoughts most welcome Sir's devoted property For the record, I've never done any of that. I also spent my time getting to know my potential partners, so I didn't have to through that. It's a combination of a desire to be loved, a feeling that you've finally found where you belong, idealism, a willingness to please....and Doms that say "You're not a REAL submissive if you don't do....."

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