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Hi! - 8/9/2005 5:44:23 PM

Goodgirlsub

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i'd like to take a moment to introduce myself.

i'm rather new to this site, but not to BDSM. i have been a sub for about 18 years. i'm married to a vanilla guy and am looking for a Master in the Bay Area. i have tried to keep this side of me inside of me, but i can't do it any longer and i do this without my husband knowledge. If this is something that you don't agree with - great - but i don't need to hear the lectures.

Looking forward to hearing from likeminded people!

GGS

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RE: Hi! - 8/9/2005 6:20:09 PM

onceburned

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Welcome to Collarme. I think you will find us to be a diverse group of people, many of whom are very experienced. This can be a great place to learn and to make friends as well.

Being married to a vanilla spouse is a difficult thing. I have been down that road. I eventually went outside of our marriage to play occasionally but even with my wife's knowledge and consent I think that doing so weakened our marriage. We did divorce.

I am not in your shoes so I can't say what you should do. No lectures from me. But this is a subject that people have strong opinions on so others may offer comments, which I hope will be in the spirit of kind intentioned advice.

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RE: Hi! - 8/9/2005 7:26:36 PM

Goodgirlsub

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Onceburned...

Thanks for the welcome and kind words.

I'm not looking for advise on my marriage - good intentioned or otherwise and hope that people will respect that.

Like I said, I'm looking for likeminded folk to speak and become friends with. I hope that will happen.

Take care!

GGS

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RE: Hi! - 8/9/2005 7:59:16 PM

BalletBob

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Hi Goodgirlsub. I too am in a vanilla woman, but love her so much, I don't mind not playing as much as I like. I did have MADAM, who I had some sessions with, outside the marriage, but of course, no sex was involved. My wife did find out, and she was very understanding, probly more that I would be in the position, and gave her blessing. She even met MADAM and they got along good. My wife knew she could trust me, and not have any Intercourse with anyother woman, besides her. MADAM use to give me orders of what to wear or use in bed or work, so I wouldn't disturb my wife, but MADAM had to stop because she had personel things, so I have to do things myself, till I get another Mistress. I am trying to get a Cyber Mistress now, to take over for MADAM. Take care and good luck, and welcome to the group.

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