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MadameMarque -> RE: Your Opinion on asian male slave/sub (11/24/2007 8:55:46 AM)
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I find I have a special predilection for Asian and Asian-mix males. Most often, the men I find most attractive are of east Asian descent. And I have a special predilection for submissive men. And generally, an affiinity for young men. So, young Asian submissive males are rather more likely for me to consider.
Nevertheless, it's individual, when it comes down to person-to-person, as it always ultimately will, in reality.
About racism as an element of a scene or a fantasy, ...
there was an Asian slave I considered, and he desired to be treated cruelly, including being humiliated and persecuted for his race - that there would be an element of racial superiority/inferiority. When I considered it, candidly, I found it potentially appealing. It is not that I actually imagine his race to be inferior. I also do not imagine myself to be somehow innately superior to those who would be submissive to me, whatever their race. But this doesn't stop me from taking the liberty of assuming the dominant role or stop their wanting to be submissive, and hopefully, taking that role with me, personally.
Though, can we know, really, why we want what and who we want? - I think the idea may appeal to me for the very reason that it's so sick and wrong - so flagrantly unfair. To share it with someone who's hot for it, to go there together, would be intense. Maybe for the same reasons, I imagine, that he wants to do it. I've had my own reservations about racial scening. Though I would only do it with someone who actively wanted it, I've worried about it having ill-effects on the submissive or slave. But I know people of color who definitely find it hot. I think they don't always have an easy time finding partners for it. And I dare say, some of them get very tired of [voluntary] racist scenes being the only kink that still shocks and offends people, in a dungeon, the only kink that has to be explained and defended, over and over, to other kinky people who do everything else under the sun to each other, and call it good.
I didn't get involved with the boy in question (nothing to do with this issue), and have not had any race-based scening, so far. I don't know if I'll get into, at some point. Though I don't completely understand the effect on a submissive who's into this, I've come to think that it's determined by the same trust and understanding between two people as in other intense of scenes, and I can see an appeal, to it.
So, what do you think about that, PeterPeter?
"If his love is to be called perverse, then let it be so, for maybe love is too great to be normal, too intense to be sane."
- from comments on the Japanese film, Gekko no Sasayaki aka Moonlight Whispers, by (screenname) myownpteidaho, http://imdb.com/title/tt0208178/usercomments
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