RE: Why does CM need to say how long we have been members?

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ShaktiWithLingam -> RE: Why does CM need to say how long we have been members? (11/20/2007 9:38:23 AM)
While some replies to how long you have been on can be annoying; I find having the date of how long I have been on a good thing. It shows you have some kind of dedication to what you are looking for. Too many I run into come and go seeking to poke fun at the "lifestyle". Seeing how long a person has been on CM makes me ask questions like, what is wrong with them and should I reconsider their aloofness for shyness or momentary despondence? I have to admit that a new person to CM doesn't really interest me unless they have a compelling profile or have been on CM for a good while. To new to CM many are like kids in a candy store and too long in CM can make one jaded. I like getting an idea of where I might stand with the person depending on how long they have been on CM.

kittiekatt -> RE: Why does CM need to say how long we have been members? (11/20/2007 2:57:45 PM)
It's just another pointless thing on collarme. Sure, Y/you can ignore the messages and such, but that doesn't change the fact that it's annoying when Y/you get msg like that. The time someone's been on collarme doesn't, and shouldn't affect mine, (and shouldnt affect anyones) opinion on that person. If they've been on for a long time, they're desparate? Or not able to find what they need? Wrong. If they're new, they're a slut, or don't know about the lifestyle, etc etc? Wrong. Those are generalizations and sterotypes, and although it may be true for some, it doesn't mean it's like that for everyone.

sexyred1 -> RE: Why does CM need to say how long we have been members? (11/20/2007 6:20:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShaktiWithLingam Seeing how long a person has been on CM makes me ask questions like, what is wrong with them and should I reconsider their aloofness for shyness or momentary despondence? I have to admit that a new person to CM doesn't really interest me unless they have a compelling profile or have been on CM for a good while. To new to CM many are like kids in a candy store and too long in CM can make one jaded. I like getting an idea of where I might stand with the person depending on how long they have been on CM. You see this type of reply is what I meant when I posted. You said the length of time someone has been on makes you ask what is WRONG with them? I need not say anything more; my point was made.

CuriousLord -> RE: Why does CM need to say how long we have been members? (11/20/2007 8:03:48 PM)
Perhaps they're just inducing desperation in you to get into your pants easier?

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